Ancient women awaken: loving yourself is the way to go

Shen Xingxi suddenly remembered the scene when she was reluctant to go to school.

At that time, she had just entered junior high school and was about the same age as the ladies present.

The National Education Law stipulates that it is illegal for the legal guardians of school-age children and teenagers to fail to send them to school to receive compulsory education without justifiable reasons.

So her parents did not stop her from going to school, but whenever they were in a bad mood, they would beat her and scold her in her ears.

"What's the point of a girl going to school? It's enough for her to know how to do housework and give birth to a son! She will be supported by others in the future anyway."

"You useless thing, you can't even finish your housework and you still have to go to school!"

"..."

At that time, she was still in the ignorant and rebellious state of adolescence. She had not yet established correct values ​​and had never questioned the authority of her parents.

In her heart, everything her parents did was right, even when they beat her, she never thought that it might be her parents' problem.

Therefore, she naturally associated this beating with going to school, thinking that studying was useless, and even developed a deep aversion to going to school.

At that time, she often skipped school and made trouble in class.

He even looked at the teacher with a stubborn look and said with disdain: "Studying is useless."

She looked at the teacher and raised her hands. She clenched her palms nervously and said in a sharp and piercing voice: "It's no use beating me! My mother said that girls can do housework and give birth to sons."

Unexpectedly, the teacher just put his hand on her head and asked her gently: "Do you have the life you want to live?"

It was a tenderness and tolerance she had never felt before.

The teacher said: "If you want to see the rainbow, you must go through the wind and rain; if you want to be a doctor who saves lives, at least get into a vocational and technical college; if you want to make a lot of money, you must see a wider world."

The teacher bent down and said in a voice as gentle as the spring breeze, "Baby, are you willing to spend the rest of your life doing only housework and giving birth to children?"

She didn't know whether she was touched because she had never thought that she would be called "baby" or because she was unwilling to let her future be limited to doing housework and having children.

She only knew that at that moment, something in her heart seemed to be touched.

From then on, she seemed like a different person. She began to study seriously and immersed herself in the ocean of books.

She gradually realized that reading was not useless, but could open up a whole new world, allowing her to see a broader world and more possibilities.

She also began to think about her future and wanted to pursue the life she really wanted, rather than just being satisfied with the status quo.

At this moment, she was standing on the podium, looking at the ladies present, and suddenly understood the look in her teacher's eyes at that time.

There is helplessness, sadness, and pampering, but there is no anger.

Just an ignorant child.

But this was the first class, and she couldn't let the academy lose its dignity.

The moment the bell rings, use your inner strength to spread the sound to every corner of the classroom.

"Xinghuo, anyone who is late will stand at the back, and anyone who disrupts the class will be given mute medicine!"

Therefore, Miss Luo was forced to stand at the back as punishment before she even started making trouble, and was given a mute drug before she could utter a single obscene word.

Her cheeks puffed up with anger and she glared at Starfire.

Xinghuo blew on his fist and smashed the table that was placed behind him specially with one punch.

Miss Luo swallowed her saliva, hid the little snake in her sleeve behind her back, and stood obediently behind.

The ladies saw this scene and could hardly believe it.

Is the arrogant Miss Luo just going to stop like this?

However, this was a rare opportunity to get close to Miss Luo, and someone immediately questioned, "Mr. Yan, Miss Luo is the elder sister of the Prime Minister's adopted daughter, and the Prime Minister's adopted daughter has to listen to her! Aren't you afraid that the Prime Minister will sue you in front of the Emperor?"

"Mr. Yan, you are just a gentleman. What qualifications do you have to punish Miss Luo?"

"Mr. Yan, Miss Luo was just late, it's not a big mistake. You should at least give face to the Luo family and forgive her this time."

"..."

The ladies said everything they could think of, but they were so exhausted that their mouths were dry and there was no response from Mr. Yan, so they gradually lowered their voices.

Shen Xingxi hadn't spoken since he finished the first sentence. Suddenly, he punched the table next to him. With the sound of the table breaking into pieces, he said in a cold voice, "Xinghuo, take the people who just spoke to the back and feed them mute medicine. In my class, you are not allowed to talk about things that are not related to the class."

Xinghuo pulled everyone who had just spoken to the back and made them stand there, and threatened them with force. The ladies' legs went weak and they became completely obedient.

Shen Xingxi wrote the word "ambition" on the stone slab behind him.

Every child should have a lesson about dreams. Although dreams often change with age, they can inspire longing for the future, motivate growth, enhance self-confidence, and also help understand students and guide correct values.

She circled the word "ambition" with a charcoal pencil and said, "I am here to attend a class on ambition.

Before talking about ambitions, I would like to ask everyone, is it possible to live a hopeful life? "

She looked at Miss Luo and said, "So many people spoke for Miss Luo just now, so let Miss Luo answer first."

Xinghuo fed the antidote to Miss Luo.

Miss Luo was worried about Xinghuo and Nanny Yan's fists, so she was clever: "I hope to live a life where I can sleep until noon every day, but now it seems that I can't do that."

Shen Xingxi was not angry, and even helped Miss Luo analyze: "Your idea is very good. Who doesn't want to do whatever they want in life?

But even without me, you will have to wake up after you get married in the future, and you will have to get up and take care of your husband when he wakes up, so if you want to realize the life you hope for, you can only not get married or have enough ability to make your husband listen to you. "

She smiled and said, “I don’t want to be too serious in the first class. Seeing that you haven’t adapted to classroom life yet, I will tell you an example.

Have you ever heard this saying: Girls should behave like girls, be quiet, dignified, and virtuous?

Everyone knows the eldest daughter of the General of Cavalry, right?

Previously, it was widely rumored that her husband favored his concubine over his wife. Guess why he has changed his temper now?"

The girls couldn't help but sit up straight and listen attentively.

"This story starts from when she was a child. The General doted on his daughter and knew that she wanted to learn martial arts, so he fully supported her. However, this world has a fixed impression of women, which is what I mentioned before: virtuous, gentle, quiet and dignified.

Even though she had the general's protection, she still couldn't avoid worldly criticism.

Some people laughed at her for not being like a girl, and some people questioned whether she would be able to behave herself in the future and whether anyone would be willing to marry her.

Although she never gave up her love, these remarks still hurt her heart like sharp arrows.

So after getting married, she put away her red tasseled spear and became as virtuous, gentle and generous as any other woman in the world. She even forgot about her husband. She could also smash a table with one punch like I could.

She spent her days in tolerance, enduring her husband's behavior of favoring his concubine and neglecting his wife without giving her face; enduring the concubine's show of power in front of her; enduring her husband's brainless behavior, without distinguishing right from wrong.