Rebirth at the starting point of happiness

"Aunt Qiuyue."

Xu Xiaojun came with simple luggage and a school bag. It was a little awkward.

"Aunt has already cleaned up the room. You are familiar with the house. Besides Aunt, there is Aunt Malan. You won't feel uncomfortable here, will you?"

Su Qiuyue teased the boy, Xu Xiaojun pursed his lips and shook his head. If he was still reserved after his aunt said that, it would be a bit artificial. Now that he was here.

"Do whatever you want. Just get used to it first."

Su Qiuyue said nothing and asked nothing, which made Xu Xiaojun feel relieved. He nodded and went to the guest room.

When An An came home from school in the evening, she knew her cousin was here, and now she had someone to play with. When Xu Xiaojun was doing his homework, she would quietly sit beside him and watch him write various words that she couldn't understand. When Xu Xiaojun was reading, An An would let him read, and even though she couldn't understand, she would listen with her eyes wide open.

This made Xu Xiaohui feel soft-hearted, and within two days he started holding An An while she did her homework and read books, and then played with An An, playing hide-and-seek upstairs and downstairs.

Xu Xiaojun felt very comfortable, even though he was already in his teens. It was as if he didn't hear Aunt Qiuyue and Aunt Malan running up and down the stairs, except that they told him to be careful not to fall.

They were all doing their own thing. Even when An An was screaming with joy, other than checking if they had any collisions, some were watching TV, and some were doing handicrafts.

Yes, after Xu Xiaojun came, An An stopped pestering Su Qiuyue to play. She followed Xu Xiaojun like a little tail every day.

Su Qiuyue recently discovered jigsaw puzzles and bought several boxes to play with.

With Xu Xiaojun's arrival, An An no longer needs to wake up in the morning. After pestering Xu Xiaojun every day, Xu Xiaojun smiles more often.

Xu Hui and his wife really couldn't bear it anymore. Half a month had passed, and Xu Xiaojun hadn't called them except for the day he first arrived.

The couple missed their children so much that they took time out to visit them.

As soon as they entered the door, they saw An An from Xinyue's family running out of the storage room screaming, followed by Xu Xiaojun with bared fangs and claws.

However, after seeing Xu Hui and his wife come in, he quickly restrained his expression and actions.

"Dad, mom."

After saying that, he stood there with his lips tightly pursed. Xiao Anan was having fun, but when she found out her brother was not chasing her anymore, she ran back to call him, but Xu Xiaojun didn't move. Then she saw Xu Hui and his wife come in.

"Uncle, aunt."

"Xiaojun, take your sister upstairs to play."

Su Qiuyue waited until the children went upstairs before asking Xu Hui and his wife if they missed their children.

"Qiuyue, what has this child said in the past few days?"

Fang Min has been worried about her son's recent changes. When she saw them just now, she didn't say anything except calling out "someone".

"No, I saw the child having fun these days. What did the teacher say?"

Although Su Qiuyue didn't ask anything, she was still secretly thinking about it, but she didn't know how to start the conversation.

"It seems like there's something wrong with his classmates. These kids are very tight-lipped. Xiaojun... Xiaojun doesn't have many good friends among his classmates, so he didn't tell them."

Fang Min was extremely worried. Why did this child suddenly change?

"Could it be that he was bullied by his classmates?"

"It doesn't seem so. The teachers and classmates all said that they get along well with him, and I haven't heard that he was bullied by anyone."

"That is... is it because the schoolwork has suddenly become too heavy and the child can't adapt?"

Su Qiuyue opened her mouth, wanting to ask if the child had a crush on her, but she didn't dare to say it.

"It's not clear now. The teacher said that his monthly exam score suddenly dropped by more than ten places. His subsequent exams were worse and worse.

I fell out of the top 30 in the midterm exam.

You're saying he can't do it, I've seen him do it in daily practice and there's nothing wrong with it, I don't know why he can't do it in the exam."

Fang Min felt a little anxious. He would be in the third year of junior high school soon. If his grades dropped so much, how could he get into a key high school?

"Is there anything wrong with you during this time?"

Fang Min glanced at the stairs and asked in a low voice.

"It's fine. Everything is normal. An An especially likes playing with his cousin. School is also going well. I really don't know what's wrong.

But I don't think it's a big deal, kids of this age are a little awkward. He'll say it when he wants to.

All we can do is wait patiently."

Su Qiuyue didn't know what to do. Xu Hui and his wife had no idea either. They talked to their son for a while before leaving.

The next day, Su Qiuyue found that Xu Xiaojun was observing her intentionally or unintentionally. She looked at him, but the boy pretended to be nothing. Su Qiuyue didn't know what he was talking about. She didn't want to keep asking him if he hadn't made up his mind, so she could only wait for Xu Xiaojun to tell her himself.

Less than three days later, during dinner, Xu Xiaojun muttered about his recent troubles.

It was similar to what Su Qiuyue guessed, it was just a secret love.

A little girl from the neighboring class was very good at dancing. During the school's art performance, she not only danced but also sang a song that Xu Xiaojun liked.

So Xu Xiaojun immediately noticed the little girl.

I wanted to get to know that little girl several times.

After finally mustering up the courage to tell the girl that he wanted to meet her, she politely declined. At first, Xu Xiaojun just felt a little regretful.

But by coincidence, I heard that the little girl looked down on him and said that he was dull and boring. There was no interest at all.

Who wants to be friends with a person who only knows how to study and acts like a little idiot? I don't even dare to say I like him.

This was a bit hard for Xu Xiaojun to accept. Actually, it wasn't a big deal, he just fell into self-affirmation and then began to doubt himself.

I feel that I am unpopular because of my own faults, and that this is because of my parents’ control.

I am too clueless.

After Xu Xiaojun finished speaking, he looked at Su Qiuyue with some trepidation.

"You said so much at once, I don't know what to say. Let me digest it first. Can I speak after I've thought it through?"

Su Qiuyue looked at the child and then at her, and she didn't know what to say.

After Xu Xiaojun fell asleep, she secretly wrote down the general situation of the child's words. Then, like answering a reading comprehension question, she wrote down a few answers. After careful consideration, she crossed out two.

The next day while having breakfast, I spoke to Xu Xiaohui very seriously.

"Auntie thought seriously about what you said yesterday. There are a few questions I can answer with my opinion. There are also a few issues I found that I want to ask you.

One is that the girl's comments behind your back made you feel bad and you began to doubt yourself.

I think this is normal. If I like someone, but she doesn't like me and laughs at me, I might feel sad, angry, or even angry.

But aunt is not you, so she won’t doubt me. I have done what I think is the best.

So I don't wonder if it's my problem.

Oh, by the way, let me add this: the fact that you are telling me this proves that you have grown up.

Then I have to discuss this issue with you using an adult's way of thinking.

I just think that she and I are not suitable. For example, in foreign countries, white people think that black people are bad. Are they really all bad?

Does that mean black people should hate their skin color? I think this is not right.

Then your doubts are established. Your parents, your teachers, the education you received and your three views are not the problem.

This is my answer, you can ask others.

My aunt's question is very simple. What kind of love do you have? Friends? Lovers? What happens after she becomes your friend or lover?

Do you want to get married and have kids? Or go to high school or college? So what is the purpose of your being together?

Besides the physical contact, what else? What do you like about her? Her beauty? Her brilliance on stage?

Your sister Yuchen also shines when she participates in cultural performances. Will you ask your sister to do something just because the audience likes her?

Sister Yu Ran is also very dazzling during the competition. Will she become friends just because others admire or like her?

Anyway, if you put yourself in their shoes, the worries you mentioned will no longer be worries.

As for your question about your parents' discipline, I can't explain it to you. You are already an adult, so you should have your own judgment. You can't just follow what others say. So you have to think about it carefully.

Say it again. This is my aunt's idea. Everyone has different ideas. You can ask others. "

Su Qiuyue spoke about her summary based on the draft she wrote before going to bed yesterday.

After listening to the lecture, Xu Xiaojun went to school with a serious face. Su Qiuyue guessed that he would not be able to concentrate on the class today.

She also breathed a sigh of relief; this guy had been making her nervous.

Su Qiuyue was struggling for several days, wondering whether she should tell Xu Hui and his wife, or whether she should call her sisters to inform them.

After dinner, Xu Hui said he wanted to use the phone, so Su Qiuyue hurried back to her room. She was going to ask other people.

Su Qiuyue also took out her phone to call Fang Min and the others. After a round of calls, Xu Xiaohui didn't call them at all.

Later, Xu Feng said that it seemed that he called Yuchen and Yuran.

Su Qiuyue didn't want to know who he beat next. This child will be troublesome when he grows up.

Anyway, in the end Xu Xiaojun chatted with a few cousins, thought it over and went home.

But teenagers are just weird.

"Do you think we should go get a fortune-teller?"

Everyone went to Xu Feng's house for dinner on the weekend. The children all went upstairs, and a few parents were quietly chirping crickets downstairs.

"What's the matter? You want to tell fortunes."

Xu Hua was a little confused as to what was going on with his elder sister.

"Oh, I just don't feel right. I want to go see if you can help me get better."

"Let's go and see who is watching us and why we are making such a fuss."

Xu Hua thought it was okay to go and take a look. Her sister-in-law also wanted to go and take a look, but they were really confused by the child this time.

"I think you guys are just keeping a close eye on your child. You've arranged too many things for him. He doesn't have any other hobbies besides studying.

It's okay to let your child go out and play if he has no hobbies. Ask his father, when he was young, he ran around everywhere, ate wild fruits on the roadside, and ate wild flowers and weeds.

If nothing else, it is freedom of mind and body.”

"Yeah, I've never been out playing with my classmates or friends alone. Good classmates and good friends are two different things."

"Yes, brother and sister-in-law. You should also loosen the child up. Don't make it too tight."

Everyone pleaded for the child. In fact, they also knew that when Fang Min's parents were around, all their thoughts were on the child.

They only have one daughter, Fang Min, and Xu Xiaohui is their only descendant in this life. They want to give everything they have to the child.

But the child only cares about studying and ignores everything else.

"When my parents were around, they were responsible for everything about the kids. We also felt that some of their education made sense.

In the past two years, we have been raising our children ourselves and have found that there is always a gap between us and them. We thought that with time, things would get better.

Who could have thought that the child would suddenly become like this.

We also reflected on this at home and hope to make our children happier in the future.”

Fang Min and Xu Hui have been discussing the issue of their children at home over and over again. Although Xu Hui doesn't like to speak out, he also expressed his opinion this time.

Look at the two girls with very different personalities in the eldest sister's family, the children in Zhang Chunsheng's family, and the two naughty boys in Xu Hua's family.

I am very open and honest wherever I go, and I never think that I have any problems. I am also very disciplined. I am casual at home and well-behaved outside.

His son Xiaojun is always very serious at home, and it's tiring to look at him.

The couple had neglected their child too much in the past due to filial piety and work. Now that they understand more, they really feel sorry for their son.

It can only be changed for the better in the future.

"It's okay, they are all your biological children. There's still time. If you can't figure it out now, you'll understand it when you grow up. If you change your mind now, your children will feel it.

Besides, our Xiaojun is so nice, civilized and reasonable. If he were in a novel, he would be that handsome young man.

It's just that they have little experience. In the future, we should encourage children to go out more, see more and think more.

His grandparents are both educated people, so there is definitely nothing wrong with their thinking. Don’t worry too much about it.”

Xu Feng thought it was no big deal, it would be fine after it was resolved. It was okay for the little boy to suffer a setback.

"That's right, big brother. A little boy has become weak after being kept in the house. Let him practice with Yu Ran. Yu Ran said that day that he deserved a beating."

Hao Chengmin said with a smile as if he was watching a fun event.

The sons in his family are all Yu Ran's followers, and they do whatever their second sister says. Yu Ran said that he just read too many books and has nothing to do. He will know after a few beatings, what a mess, who has time to think about those things.

But his words made Xu Hui and his wife laugh. Several people talked about the bad things about their children.

Then we talked about the issue of children falling in love early nowadays.

"Actually, it wasn't a big deal before, but it will delay my studies. I still have to take the college entrance exam in the future.

This kind of school relationship will definitely affect your studies.”

Hao Chengmin thinks that premature love is not a big deal. His son's mind is full of fighting, so he really doesn't worry about premature love.

However, it is a bit surprising that their eldest nephew, a boy who is quieter than their daughter, fell in love too early, but it is not unacceptable.

"If that's what you mean, your eldest sister and I were both in a premature relationship when we got married."

Wang Tiejun suddenly said this. Everyone was stunned for a moment and then burst into laughter. It was true. At that time, my brother-in-law was not even 20 years old.

"Then it's not considered premature love."

"It wasn't like that in the past, but it is now. In the past, people could work and earn money, and they could have children. Now it's against the law."

“There are many people who break the law.”