Rebirth at the starting point of happiness

Su Qiuyue has two pregnant women in her family. She tries to let life take its course, but there are still a lot of things to do.

Fortunately, Xu Ling and Xinyue's original nanny also came to help. In fact, they were just watching over the safety of the two pregnant women, especially Xu Ling.

Because they are twins, the risk of premature birth is very high, so we still have to try to carry them to full term. So we still need someone to accompany us at all times.

Also, the diet Su Qiuyue gave them was set by a nutritionist, but there were some things in it that were different from her ideas, so she made some changes.

Today's nutritionists still base their nutrition on the European countries' nutritional ratios, which are different from the traditional Chinese medicine ideas in their flower-growing countries.

It is said that people are shaped by the land and water they live in. The diets of the Flower Country and European countries are different. There are also thousands of years of experience accumulated by our ancestors, and their own diets are more suitable for their own people. Of course, as the times progress, they are also constantly learning and improving. But they cannot copy them completely.

For example, she eats too much beef. In her opinion, although beef is good, it takes a long time to digest, and her digestive system has become very weak due to pregnancy. If she eats too much beef that is difficult to digest, it will cause some adverse reactions. Although it is not very serious, it is not easy for a pregnant woman to spend the pregnancy comfortably.

Su Qiuyue's recipes contain a lot of soups, all of which are warm and non-irritating.

So cooking is a big job. And the two pregnant women can only eat small meals frequently. Their kitchen seems to be always in use.

So every time Zhang Zonghui came, he would just go directly to the small pharmacy and stay in Su Qiuyue's clinic.

After knowing this, Xu Feng sighed. It seemed like there was really no hope.

Of course, Su Qiuyue didn’t know this, and even if she knew she wouldn’t care.

All the children in the family went to winter camp, so Wang Tiejun had to pick up two nephews. They were Wang Xiuying's two children. It was because they were on vacation and Wang Xiuying was working in the barber shop and couldn't take care of the children.

Wang Tiejun was just helping out. It happened that his eldest daughter was on vacation, and the other children in the family were also on vacation, so he could take the children out to play, to the zoo, science and technology museum, etc.

Originally, my family was going to go out for a trip at this time, but this year there are two pregnant women in the family, so we can’t go out.

The weather is cold, so it is not convenient for Xinyue and Xu Ling to go out for a walk.

However, Su Qiuyue still asked them to go for a walk in the yard when they were in good spirits every day to adapt to the weather.

But they were never bored at all, after all, there was still some work to be done.

Su Qiuyue was really bored, so she gave them a vaccination in advance. How to deal with some situations that may occur after giving birth, and the problems that may arise with the child.

Avoid panicking when the child is born, which will then make yourself nervous and cause emotional problems.

Many psychological problems of new mothers are caused by being at a loss. No one tells them some basic common sense in advance.

There are also some elderly people who just watch from the sidelines. Although they help, their tone is always that of a person with experience who is superior to others.

"No one taught us at that time. We knew how to take care of the children as soon as they were born."

"What did we have back then? We didn't have anything to eat, but we had milk for our children. You have such good conditions now, but you still don't have milk. Are you sick? Ask your mother if she didn't have milk when you were born?"

"I don't know why it's so hard for you to raise children. When we were young, we just caressed them and they grew up. It wasn't so troublesome."

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It is remarks like these, which overtly or covertly accuse new mothers of being unqualified, not smart enough, not strong enough, and slowly suppress them, making the already fragile psychology of new mothers even more broken.

In fact, these mothers are the ones who are responsible. They know that their children are lives, and they want to be responsible, so they think a lot.

This unexpected anxiety makes them anxious, but they can't express it and no one understands, so it becomes a one-man struggle, which leads to depression and collapse.

If there is a problem, whether it is the husband, the mother-in-law, or the aunts and uncles, they can say that it is okay and it is okay. It can relieve her tension, which is much better than those exaggerated concerns.

Every time the child has a problem and can't solve it, it only shows how much you care about the child. Worrying too much will only put pressure on the new mother, which is useless. What's more, more people directly transfer this pressure to the new mother, saying that her milk is not good, she doesn't know how to take care of the child, she doesn't care, she has health problems, etc.

Self-righteous worry has become the greatest evil.

This kind of evil makes new mothers speechless. Because they value their children and are very worried about them. This needs to be adjusted because new mothers are ignorant and don't know what is good and what is bad.

No one takes the feelings of new mothers into consideration, which only makes her sensible, appreciative and tolerant.

However, while valuing the child, they also find fault with the new mother, or push the problem onto the new mother, and then say that we are all for the child and you have to appreciate it. This makes the new mother feel helpless and some do not even know where the problem lies. This leads to self-doubt and then drags herself down.

But Xinyue and Xu Ling's situation is much better. They have a nanny to take care of their children, and they can find a good hospital and a good doctor at any time if there are any problems.

This is why Su Qiuyue wants to make money. Because these problems can be solved with money. She just doesn't want her sister to become as sad as the one mentioned above. Because she has experienced all of this.

After the Chinese New Year, the children all came back. On the second day of the Chinese New Year, the instructor asked the children to call home. Except for a few older children who choked up a little, the younger ones all cried loudly on the phone.

After returning home on the fifth day of the New Year, I deeply felt the feeling of missing my family during every festive season.

The children were happy to come back, and the adults started to get nervous.

Because Xu Ling is more than seven months old.

Because her belly was so big, seven months was a very dangerous time, so Sister Ma Lan specially made a belly-protecting vest for her. Otherwise, she would be worried every time she saw Xu Ling walking.

Moreover, her belly was too big, so Xu Ling had to hold it with her hands every time. She simply made a waistcoat specifically for her belly with an elastic band.

Xinyue also felt good when she saw it. Her belly felt like it was inflated by air in the past two months, and she felt that her weight was increasing every day. So her belly began to feel heavy and became a burden.

Xu Ling's reaction was quite obvious. Sleeping at night had become a burden for her. Her complexion also began to look bad.

After all, her foundation was damaged when she was a child, and when her child was growing up, she couldn't bear it anymore.

Fu Jianan had been taking care of her since before the Chinese New Year. He saw her in all kinds of pain and felt so distressed. She even fainted twice afterwards.

The body is really exhausted and can only be maintained by an injection of nutrient solution every day.

The reason why Su Qiuyue was nervous was that she thought Xu Ling was about to give birth. Her belly was obviously falling, and her pulse had been similar over the past two days. Now was the time for her to give birth.

Xu Ling went into labor the afternoon before the Lantern Festival, and the family rushed to the hospital.

Xu Ling had spotting, so they rushed to the hospital. When everything was arranged, Xu Ling's stomach didn't hurt anymore.

"Don't be nervous, I'm here."

Su Qiuyue looked at the somewhat nervous Xu Ling and comforted her.

"I know, I just... don't know when it will end."

Xu Ling has made a lot of preparations, but this kind of waiting without knowing the target is very anxious.

Su Qiuyue looked at her heartbeat and asked her apprentice to arrange for her to receive nutrient solution, fearing that she might not last long enough to give birth.

At this time, the mother is under a lot of psychological pressure.

"Xiao Ling, I'm here too. I'm always by your side, don't worry."

Fu Jianan's forehead was covered with sweat and he was extremely nervous.

"Don't be anxious. Try to relax. Your body needs to slowly adapt and your cervix needs to slowly open. Otherwise, you may have lacerations if you give birth suddenly.

It’s not a big problem, but it’s a bit annoying.”

Su Qiuyue changed the subject, not letting her think about having children all the time. Think about something else.

Xu Feng brought over two novels and asked Fu Jianan to read them to Xu Ling. It was better than lying there doing nothing.

Xu Ling's energy was still limited at this time, so he got tired quickly. He woke up and fell asleep until midnight.

Xu Ling couldn't lie still any longer, so she rested for a while and then got up and walked around.

I finally entered the delivery room at around eleven o'clock.

When everything was ready, Su Qiuyue applied lubricant on her belly and adjusted the fetal position at any time.

Chat with her while you massage to relieve yourself.

Finally, at a quarter past twelve, the first child was born.

Fu Jianan was already confused, and had no idea what to do, except that he couldn't let go of Xu Ling's hand. Only then did he realize how real the fragility Xu Ling described was.

He was right next to her, but he could do nothing but watch her suffer.

Xu Ling started to lose strength after the birth of her first child. After drinking some water, Su Qiuyue quickly helped her adjust the fetal position for the second child.

While letting her push, I used external force to help her give birth.

Because we had made all the necessary preparations, the second child was born smoothly, just five minutes later.

"Sister! Sister! What happened to Xiaoling?"

Seeing Xu Ling suddenly stop moving and then stop exerting force, Fu Jianan panicked and quickly called Su Qiuyue.

"It's okay, it's okay. She's exhausted. Let her sleep. Once the placenta comes out and I've dealt with it, I can go to the ward for observation. That's when it matters."

"Good good."

Fu Jianan felt a little relieved after hearing Su Qiuyue's answer.

Xu Ling did not wake up until she returned to the ward after the treatment. Fu Jianan held her in his arms until she was called to go to the toilet. She was completely dazed.

By the time I was fully awake, it was already past nine in the morning.

"Awake? No need to rush to talk, just rest. The children are healthy. Two boys. The eldest weighs 5 kilograms, and the second weighs 4.5 kilograms. They are not small in weight. You have worked hard.

The child will be temporarily placed in an incubator to observe his development. If there is no problem, he will be brought back in two or three days.

You should concentrate on resting these two days. Your in-laws already know that you gave birth to two grandchildren. They will probably arrive this afternoon.

Don't worry about these. Your eldest sister has arranged it.

Jianan fainted and is resting on IV drip. He will probably come when he wakes up."

Su Qiuyue wanted to laugh when she talked about this. Seeing that Xu Ling was a little tired but curious, she quickly told her about the situation for fear that she would worry.

"He's fine, he's just nervous. After you gave birth, the baby was taken away, and you were in a coma. After you urinated, he fell down as soon as he put you on the bed.

He was sweating all over. He hadn't eaten anything, not even a drop of water. He was still tense, and finally collapsed when he was done.

It's okay, he's already been given an IV. I gave him some sedatives so he can have a good sleep, he's going to be tired later."

Xu Ling smiled after hearing this, but it was obvious that he had no strength left.

"If you're not hungry, just continue sleeping and eat when you have enough energy."

Su Qiuyue went over and touched her forehead. Originally, it was her eldest cousin who came to take care of her, but she received a call from her mother-in-laws that they were coming over, so she went to arrange accommodation.

Su Qiuyue gently touched Xu Ling's forehead and ears, and tidied her hair from time to time. Soon Xu Ling fell into a deep sleep again.

After she fell asleep, Su Qiuyue said something to the nanny who came over and went to see the child.

Fu Jianan also woke up at noon, just in time to accompany Xu Ling for lunch, and then went to see the two children.

Just as Su Qiuyue said, Fu Jianan's family came in the afternoon.

A large group of people came, including Fu Jianan's parents, grandfather, uncle, aunt, grandpa, and grandma.

Xu Ling went to see the child while she was still resting.

After seeing the children, Xu Ling didn't look very energetic. After they took a look at each other, Xu Feng pulled them away to eat.

At the dinner table, what everyone expected began. She wanted to take care of the child herself.

Xu Feng doesn't indulge them.

"You have to talk to them about this. It's no use talking to me. We spoil our children. We will cooperate with them no matter what they want.

After all, this child is born by the mother, so the mother has the final say. We just follow the mother.

If you have any ideas, you can tell them directly. We respect their decision.

After all, this is not the feudal society of the past, where one’s own children have no say over their own. Now the law states that the guardians of a child are the parents. Before the age of two, the first guardian is the mother.”

When Xu Feng said this, several people exchanged glances with each other. Because the other person just didn't respond. The child's mother's wishes were the main thing.

That is if they say they want to raise the child themselves, they definitely won't support it.

It’s not the first day they have been in-laws. I believe Xu Feng knows their situation, but she doesn’t care.

"Sister-in-law, you know the situation in our family. Especially in our family, we don't have any direct children in the system, and they will be gradually excluded from it in the future.

Isn’t this a pity? We have worked hard for so many years, and of course we hope that our direct descendants can inherit our legacy.

It's worth our hard work all our lives, right?"

Fu Jianan's father thought about it and decided to play the emotional card.

Xu Feng didn't want to get involved in their family's lawsuit. What did it have to do with them? If their family was just an ordinary family, they would have to accept whatever they asked for. After all, it was for the good of the child.

But now that the family is wealthy and powerful, her sister doesn't need to rely on them, nor does she have to go against her own ideas.