Rebirth at the starting point of happiness
Chapter 199 Raising a child is not easy
When Xu Ling was discharged from the hospital, Xiao Sier finally came out of the incubator and was carried directly to Xu Ling and left the hospital together.
Go directly back to Su Qiuyue's home. The nanny arranged for her to live in the house next door. There were people renting there before, but in recent years, everyone's conditions have improved, and there are almost no people renting houses in such places.
Su Qiuyue thought it was not good for the house to be empty, so she wanted to sell it. Before she put it up for sale, it had just been renovated and was just the right place for three nannies and a nutritionist to move in.
It is also convenient to come over to feed the children every day. There is also a separate space for them.
Wang Tiejun was in charge of taking care of the children. He treated the three little boys like soldiers. When An'an got home from school, he would add a little An'an.
Because she didn't need to breastfeed, Xu Ling had to wait a few days after returning home before she could stand up and move around. She still didn't have the strength to go out, so she got a wheelchair.
And this is after Su Qiuyue took dietary supplements, medicinal supplements, moxibustion and physical therapy.
I have been able to speak normally for almost two months.
"Come on, it's been a long time, and you're still so careless. You're really irritating. If Fu Jianan gets mad at you again in the future, I'll beat him to death."
Xu Hua came home to see his sister. He was so heartbroken to see how thin she had become, as if she could be blown away by the wind.
Fu Jianan just pretended not to hear. He knew the character of this third sister.
He said that, but when he came he held his daughter tightly and wouldn't let go.
"Big sister, look, our Xiaoling and Xinyue both have daughters, but I don't have one. I've tried so hard but still don't have one. Why is this little girl so greedy?"
As he said this, he couldn't help but hug the little girl's hand in his arms and kiss it.
"Why aren't you so greedy for those two at home?"
Xu Feng was puzzled. Xu Hua didn’t like children very much, so what happened?
"How old was I when you gave birth to Yuchen? I was still a half-grown child, how could I like a child?
When you gave birth to Yu Ran, didn't you know what your little girl was like? She cried so hard when she was little, and I wanted to cry even if she didn't do anything wrong.
She's grown up, and she'll get a slap in the face if she takes a breath. You still dare to kiss me? My brother-in-law got less beatings?
How can I care about you now that you are this old? How can I care about you? "
Xu Hua acted as if she didn't know what her child was like and was very dissatisfied with what her elder sister said.
"What about An An? Why weren't you like this when An An was a child?"
Xu Feng asked again.
"When An An was little, those two little bastards in my family were about to enter junior high school. They didn't do anything serious every day. How could I have the time? Now they are grown up, so I don't have to work so hard to beat them, right?
But I have time now, and your two children are grown up. It is too late to have children at this age.
Besides, even if I could have a baby, I wouldn’t want to. If it was a boy, I would be heartbroken.”
As Xu Hua spoke, she began to feel regretful. Why couldn't she give birth to a daughter?
"Whatever you give birth to is fine, okay? You always think everything is right."
Xu Feng curled her lips. In the past, giving birth to two boys at once was considered a big deal in her husband's family. But now she even despised it.
"Oh, you see, girls are the best. Their hands are soft, and their faces, noses and mouths are so pretty. Oh, no wonder Jianan comes over and asks for my child back every time I hold her for a little longer.
I would have to keep an eye on it too."
Xu Feng teased Fu Jianan. She knew that every time Fu Jianan saw her holding the child, he would stare at her closely, as if she could drop the child.
Fu Jianan was not angry when the truth was revealed. He quickly came over and took his daughter away.
"Third sister, my daughter is the apple of my eye."
"Don't be a pearl when you are young, and then go for marriage when you grow up."
"What? What marriage?"
Xu Feng didn't understand what was going on.
"Sister, why are you still arguing with her? I've had some free time recently to watch a TV series. Her mind is full of that thing, and she still insists on telling us the plot."
Xinyue was complaining over there, and Xu Feng hurriedly asked what the plot was about. She had watched movies recently and hadn't watched much TV series.
"I watched Korean dramas. Do you know Korean dramas? They're from Korea, and they're about chaebol marriages and things like marriage first, love later.
Look, it's beautiful. The male lead is very handsome. But ha, no matter how handsome he is, my daughter can't marry him.
It's so unfair. I would have beaten him to the ground long ago."
As Xu Hua spoke, he became angry again.
"Third sister, you said he was handsome in your last sentence."
Fu Jianan couldn't help but sabotage.
"He's handsome, but his problems are his. At my age now, if I go back to find that pretty boy, I can do anything for that face, but I can't let myself suffer any loss.
If it's our child, no matter how handsome he is, it won't work. I'll still be very selective when marrying into our family.
As for the heroine in it, she looked pretty good at first. Then I thought that our Yuchen and Yuran were not bad either.
In terms of family background, even in a small place like Bangzi, my eldest sister's family is a large group company.
The key is that they have too many rules and they have to kneel down at every turn. Oh my god, our children can't do that.
Let’s not talk about Yu Chen, our Yu Ran, if you make her kneel down, you will tear her down, and all the men will be beaten down.
Well, it’s pretty nice anyway, but I can’t think too much about it.”
Xu Hua then talked about the plot again. Xu Feng turned on the computer and started looking for it.
"Sister Qiuyue, what you said makes me itchy. I want to see it too."
Xu Ling was really bored, which made her third sister extremely curious.
"Don't watch it. Watching TV and your mood swings will affect your recovery. Watching some crosstalk or skits is fine."
Listen to some light music. There are plenty of TV series. You can watch whatever you want when you are ready. When can you run around the yard? If you don’t watch it, I will tell you about it.”
Su Qiuyue said with a smile. The main reason is that watching TV is also stressful. She was still panting when she spoke, so how could she have the energy to watch TV?
"I won't watch it either. When you can watch it, we can watch it together."
Fu Jianan hurried to comfort his wife.
"You should take care of yourself. When you are able to walk, we will go on vacation abroad. Stay for a month. It will be a good change of environment.
I'll see if Wang Yuran will come back by then."
Although Su Qiuyue said so, she also knew that Wang Yuran would definitely not be able to go. A student attending a military academy could not go abroad.
But I didn't say it out loud, everyone will know it when the time comes.
Just like my brother-in-law said, it's a good thing that he didn't come back. He must have performed well and was reused by the army. Then everything will be fine from now on.
When Xu Ling heard that they were going out, she became energetic. Fu Jianan knew what she meant without her saying anything, and quickly looked for information to see where Xiao Ling wanted to go.
The family was harmonious, except for Fu Jianan's mother, who also lived with the wet nurses and came every day to watch the wet nurses feeding the children, mainly her granddaughter.
The child was given a name as soon as he was discharged from the hospital.
The third child followed his two elder brothers, Fu Chengshi and Fu Chengren, and his name was Fu Chengyou. His nickname was Xiaoxi.
Because for the old Fu family, this grandson is a pleasant surprise. A gift from God. The family with few children finally has hope.
Xiao Si was named by Fu Jianan's mother, Fu Guoer. His nickname was Tian Guoer.
His mother thought about it for a long time. She didn't dare to give the child a big name for fear that she wouldn't be able to raise him. She also didn't dare to give the child a name with any special meaning. She just wanted the child to have a smooth life.
Fruit is a plant that sprouts, grows, blooms, and bears fruit. It ends when the harvest season comes.
So my mother said that it is enough to bear fruit smoothly. All plants that can bear fruit can withstand wind, rain, and disasters. They are the most tenacious.
Fu Ma only hopes that her child grows up well.
Her attitude changed immediately when the couple let her name the child. Now Xu Ling and Fu Jianan didn't even need to show up. Her mother-in-law was already standing in front.
No one is allowed to have any idea of her son and daughter-in-law. This family can be broken up if they want, but her son and daughter-in-law cannot.
Her granddaughter must grow up happily in a healthy family.
Not only that, if the child hadn't been young, Fu Jianan's mother would have given all her property to Tian Guoer.
Although it didn't go through in the end, the transfer documents had already been submitted. So when Xiao Tianguo was three years old, she could own 10% of the shares of her mother's company.
Fu Jianan's family business has experienced the baptism of war, and it can be said that it is not inferior to Zhao Yihang's family.
The development in recent years has been very good, and it is a leader in ocean-going ships.
In recent years, the country has become stronger and business has developed on a large scale, and Fu Jianan's family's shipping business has developed rapidly.
The business territory has also expanded a lot.
Su Qiuyue believed that Fu Jianan's family would definitely surpass Zhao Yihang's family in the future.
Therefore, with his family's 10% shares, it is no problem to support a large family of three generations with good food and drink.
However, only those in the family know about this matter, and for the safety of the children, it cannot be announced to the world.
Xu Ling loves her little daughter very much. Fu Jianan said that she looks like her, but that is purely psychological. It can be seen that she looks very much like Fu Jianan.
Otherwise, her mother-in-law would never have thought so highly of this child.
Fu Jianan and his sister who died young looked very similar when they were born. Although Fu Jianan was a playboy, he was very handsome.
The description of sword-like eyebrows and star-like eyes is not an exaggeration.
Such eyebrows and eyes would not look bad on a girl. Although she is still young now, it can be seen that she will definitely be a girl with outstanding appearance in the future.
Everyone loves beauty, and of course everyone likes to look at beautiful things.
So Xu Hua's third aunt, who doesn't like children very much, comes to see the baby whenever she has time.
Especially for little babies, they grow taller with the wind, and they feel different after not seeing them for a few days.
"Oh, they all love Tian Guoer. Our Xiao Xi is not angry. Aunt likes Xiao Xi. When Xiao Xi grows up, she will be good friends with Aunt.
They all thought we were young and didn't understand anything. It's not that we couldn't understand, but that we couldn't listen.
Just ignore them then."
Su Qiuyue held the child and deliberately talked to them, especially Xu Ling and his wife.
Suddenly I have a daughter and two sons, so of course it is not so attractive anymore. And of course it is the easiest to ignore.
Fu Jianan was holding his daughter happily, but when he heard Su Qiuyue's words, he turned around and looked at Xu Ling. Seeing Xu Ling also looked guilty, he quickly came over to exchange the baby with Su Qiuyue.
"Sister Qiuyue, I was wrong. It's my problem. I hugged my daughter too much because I loved her. I didn't neglect my son."
"Sister Qiuyue, I know I was wrong. I was biased, and I won't do it again in the future."
Xinyue also said quickly. It was indeed she who ignored it. Fu Jianan basically handled things according to her likes and dislikes.
She was biased. If her cousin hadn't reminded her, she would have really neglected the third child over time. From now on, her father doesn't love her and her mother doesn't care about her. If she has a problem in her heart, she won't be able to cry.
"I'm not scolding you. With so many children in the family, it's inevitable that one or two will be neglected. Since you've chosen to have them, try to treat them all equally.
The person who is ignored will definitely be affected in character or psychology. It will be too late to regret it then.”
Su Qiuyue said this just now because she saw everyone surrounding Tian Guoer.
"Yes, mom has tried her best to treat everyone equally. But except for you and Xiaohui, my elder sister, my second sister and I were actually ignored.
When my eldest sister was a child, she was fortunately loved by our grandmother. However, after a few years, our grandmother passed away. When my eldest sister returned home, she was no longer a child but just the eldest sister.
At that time, although I was willing to go out, I sometimes also needed my parents' attention.
I want our mother to hug me more, but you are in poor health and Xiaohui is still breastfeeding.
I had no place to squeeze in, so I just went out and found something to do to distract myself.
Sister Qiuyue is right. Since you have given birth, try to treat them equally. Life is good now. I don't want to do a lot of housework in the past. It's good enough to focus on food and clothing.
There is a nanny at home to do the housework. Then pay more attention to the children. "
Xu Hua also felt that his cousin was right and couldn't help but sigh.
"Yes, I overlooked it. I will pay attention to it next time."
"It's my fault. I took care of the other two children more and neglected the third one. They are all mine and Xiaoling's children. I will pay attention to them in the future. I will never make such a mistake again."
Xu Ling and Fu Jianan also quickly made their assurances.
I know the couple didn't do it on purpose, they were just happy to have a daughter. Plus, one of them was in poor health and the other only had his eyes on his wife, so they ignored it.
Now that I realize it, I will pay more attention to it in the future.
Su Qiuyue also just realized that it was a happy thing to have a new baby in the family. Xu Ling was weak and the child was underdeveloped, so she was only busy taking care of their health and ignored these things.
Today, it was because she saw everyone surrounding Tianguo that she realized that apart from the nanny holding Xiaoxi, everyone was talking about Tianguo.
I'm not particularly partial, but this kind of neglect will become a habit over time, which is always bad.
This reminder made everyone start to pay attention to not neglecting Xiaoxi, and also pay attention to the situation of their own children.
Fu Jianan's mother took care of both children, but paid more attention to her granddaughter. She was surprisingly sober this time.
Not only did he protect his son and daughter-in-law's right to raise the child, he also exercised special restraint. After the child was six months old, he came over two days a week.
It’s not like before when I had to look after the kids every day.
At first, we were a little confused, but later we gradually understood it, and the lost feeling returned.
The kind of thing that is lost and then recovered, I want to give away all the good things. I definitely want the best. Not just material things.
After all, she knows best what kind of person her son has become.
Although Xu Ling's pregnancy was difficult, she had a mother-in-law who could protect them, so getting along with her in-laws became smoother.
Her job now is to take good care of herself and then raise her children well.
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