The crazy daily life of the mistress

Lu Yi didn't quite understand and asked, "Since she doesn't have the strength and background, can she not love her daughter?"

He Qingshu said: "If she doesn't have the strength and background, loving her means teaching her how to survive in this world, instead of just doting on her.

Look at this lady. She is not doting on her little daughter, but praising her to death. When her little daughter made this kind of cognitive error, she not only did not correct it, but also praised her for having good vision.

Animals know that they need to teach their young how to find food and how to avoid predators, so that they will not be helpless after leaving their parents. "

If these three mother and daughter had not appeared today, Lu Yi would have thought that He Qingshu was talking about her family matters when he said this.

But He Qingshu shouldn't know about my family affairs.

Therefore, these words were definitely not spoken deliberately to myself.

Lu Yi asked: "Is there any difference between doting and praising to death?"

He Qingshu replied: "Spoiling is love, but it is done in the wrong way, excessive love, while flattery is not love, but it acts like love."

The lady quickly paid the bill and left, and Lu Yi discovered that she had really bought the dark red cloth for her little daughter.

Lu Yi kept watching them leave.

The little girl ran and jumped, pointing at everything she saw and saying she wanted it.

The eldest daughter was respectful and polite, and asked politely for anything she wanted.

In such a comparison, who will get the appreciation of others?

Lu Yi suddenly understood why both the Zhenguo Mansion and the Li family were interested in her eldest sister.

Aren’t she and the eldest sister like these two sisters?

But how could mother do that?

Will not!

Maybe my mother just loves me too much, so she can't bear to scold me loudly or talk about me.

Yes, that must be the case. How could she doubt her mother?

She is my mother's daughter!

The memories of her previous two lives surged in her mind. How could her mother not like her?

Lu Yi decided not to think about it for the time being. How could she doubt the love her parents had for her?

He Qingshu knew that what happened today was just the tip of the iceberg that Lu Yi understood about flattery.

Xiaolan came over and said, "Miss, that lady just now treated her daughter just like she treats you. She was reluctant to refuse any request."

Lu Yi was in a low mood and said, "I don't think so."

Xiaolan said: "Well, it's a little bit different."

Duke's Mansion,

Xiaoyou failed to leave the house.

She came to Huahuiyuan, but Mrs. Du said she was not feeling well and refused to see her.

Mrs. Du refused to see her, and the servants ignored her.

For the first time, Xiaoyou felt that the wealthy families in this feudal society were so terrifying.

She is still a free person, but it is so difficult for her to get out.

In desperation, she could only bring her people back to Youyaxuan.

She couldn't waste time like this any longer and couldn't just sit there and wait for death.

She had to do something to turn her life around.

She is a modern person. It's not that she is unintelligent. It's just that she looked down on the ancients at the beginning, thinking that their intelligence and wisdom were inferior to hers.

However, the reality of the past year or so has made her see clearly that she is no match for the twists and turns in the minds of the ancients and the imperial system.

If you want to live, you must climb up.

Xiaoyou knows how to put on makeup, dress up, and perform many dances and folk arts that women of this era don't know.

If Zhan Shijun doesn't like her, she will immediately turn to the arms of another man.

But the problem now is that she can't leave the house at all.

Xiaoyou said to Xiaohong: "As long as I can get out, I will make Zhan Shijun regret doing this to me!"

Xiao Hong glanced at Xiao You and said, "Miss, why are you so persistent in getting out? There is someone better than the prince in this mansion!"

Xiaoyou said: "Where in this mansion is there anyone better than Zhan Shijun? Don't even mention the eldest son. Although the eldest son is favored by the Duke, he is a sickly child and a bastard. He will only get a small share of the family property and will be kicked out by Zhan Shijun."

Xiao Hong said, "Miss, I'm not talking about the eldest son, I'm talking about the Duke of Zhenguo."

Duke Zhenguo, Xiaoyou carefully recalled the scene of meeting Duke Zhenguo.

The Duke of Zhenguo is forty-five years old this year, and his facial features are somewhat similar to those of Zhan Shijun.

Because he is a military commander, he maintains a very good figure and does not have any big belly.

In modern times, he is also an uncle-type idol.

Xiao Hong said: "Although the Duke is old, he doesn't look old at all, and he is a high-ranking official in the court. Even the lady is afraid of the Duke."

Xiaoyou was a little moved.

Mrs. Du asked Nanny Du to give her a sterilization drug so that she would never be able to have children in her life.

Moreover, Mrs. Du once gave her abortion pills!

Thinking back on the past year or so, Mrs. Du had caused her so much harm.

In the past, she had the love of Zhan Shijun, so she didn’t care much.

But now, Zhan Shijun suddenly became disgusted with her for some unknown reason.

She and the Du family are irreconcilable!

Xiaohong is right, Duke, she can try it!

Xiaohong was very happy to see that Xiaoyou was finally persuaded by her.

He said, "Miss, you are beautiful, and you are proficient in music, chess, calligraphy and painting. Which man would not like you?"

Xiaoyou did not deny that this was her asset, and Xiaohong did not praise her too much.

It was already afternoon when Lu Yi returned to Hanhuiyuan.

Because there were so many people waiting at the gate, she thought she had gone to the wrong place.

As soon as she came over, the maids all came over to greet her: "Greetings, Madam Crown Prince!"

"Madam, you are finally back!"

"Madam, I have something to report!"

"Madam, I have an urgent matter!"

So many old women and maids rushed forward and blocked Lu Yi.

Lu Yi immediately thought that maybe Mrs. Du was up to something again.

She took a step back and said, "Daqing, help me clear the way!"

Da Qing immediately stood in front of Lu Yi and said, "All of you move aside. The Crown Prince's wife is tired and needs to go in and rest!"

The maids refused to give way and said, "Madam, we have been waiting here for a whole day. We have many things that need your attention. We dare not act on our own."

Lu Yi knew nothing about housekeeping.

Who would have thought?

Young ladies from official families start learning how to be housekeepers from their mistress at the age of ten. No matter what kind of family they marry into in the future, they will have to manage all the trivial matters in the backyard.

Even if you marry into a poor family like the Li family, you still have to know about the daily necessities and living arrangements, as well as how to take care of your dowry.

No matter how little Lu Yi's dowry was, she should have a shop and a farm, right?

No.

Lu Yi's dowry consisted of nothing except the ordinary dowry that could be seen on the surface.

There is not even a companion room.

The only maidservant who came with the dowry was Xiaolan.

Mrs. Du didn't know this.

Firstly, she was really not feeling well and had no time to cause trouble for Lu Yi.

Secondly, her son is no longer obsessed with Xiaoyou, so she is not in a hurry to deal with Lu Yi for the time being.