The CEO's Wife and First Love

Hearing her son say this, Jinlan's eyes widened and her mouth opened wide enough to fit an egg. She looked at her son in disbelief, her heart filled with shock and disappointment.

"Son, how can you say such things? You are so confused! What tricks did this vixen use to make you so obsessed and fall in love again?" Jin Lan murmured to herself, her eyes full of worry and anger.

She really couldn't understand why her son was so bewitched by this woman that he lost his mind and even his basic judgment. "Can love really make people blind?" This is a question that people often ask.

"Mom, I love her, and I hope you understand your son. I'm not a child anymore. I'm an adult. I have the ability to judge, and I know what I want." After Wang Kun said this, he looked at his mother with anticipation.

When we fall in love, we tend to ignore the other person's shortcomings and mistakes, and even do some unreasonable things to maintain the relationship. But does this blindness really exist? Or is it just an exaggeration? Let's explore this question together.

First of all, we need to make it clear that love is not a blind emotion. In fact, when we fall in love with someone, it is usually because there is something about the other person that attracts us. These advantages may include appearance, personality, talent, etc. Therefore, our appreciation of the other person is not without reason, but is based on our own values ​​and preferences.

"Son, mom is afraid that you will be deceived by this vixen. You have experienced her evil methods before." Jin Lan tried her best to persuade her son not to be fooled.

However, love does affect our judgment. When we are deeply in love with someone, we may focus too much on their strengths and ignore their shortcomings. This does not mean that we have completely lost our rationality, but it does cause us to be less objective in our evaluation of the other person. In addition, love can also make us feel a strong sense of belonging.

A sense of belonging and dependence makes us more willing to trust others, even if their behavior is not trustworthy at times.

So why does love blind us? One reason is that love taps into our deepest emotional needs, and when we find someone who meets those needs, we feel incredibly happy and fulfilled.

"No, I feel very happy with Qiuyan during this period of time. I feel that she truly loves me. Please rest assured, mom, don't worry."

Hearing her son defending Qiuyan so much, Jinlan was very anxious and suddenly came up with an idea. "Son, since you won't listen to what I say, I have no choice but to tell you that if you insist on marrying this woman, I will go back to my hometown. I mean what I say. Your father and I will go home tomorrow."

In order to maintain this sense of happiness, we may unconsciously ignore the other person's shortcomings or regard them as insignificant. Another reason is that the passion and impulse in love often make it difficult for us to think calmly. We may make wrong judgments due to momentary emotional fluctuations, and even hurt ourselves or others.

"Mom, how can you think like this? You're putting me in a dilemma! Do you think I'm the kind of person who forgets his mother after getting married? How could I abandon the mother who gave birth to me and raised me for a woman?" Wang Kun said excitedly, his eyes gradually becoming moist.

He felt very wronged. He had always been a filial child, but his mother misunderstood him like this.

Jin Lan thought that her mother had been concerned about her son when he was studying. She was afraid that her son would be sad, so she did not stop him in time, and even indulged him to let this woman live at home. As a result, her son's studies were delayed and he failed to get into university. This woman was able to get into university, but she ended up dumping her son. Don't believe me, I won't compromise this time, otherwise he will fall into her trap again.

"Son, let me tell you, if she's in this family, I'm gone," Jin Lan gritted her teeth and said to her son in a decisive tone.

Although love may make us a little blind, it doesn't mean we should give up on love or be skeptical of it.

"Mom, aren't you making things difficult for your son? You are my mother, you always know everything. How can I, as a son, let you leave for Qiuyan?" Wang Kun was so angry at his mother's words that he couldn't even say a word.

On the contrary, we should learn how to look at love correctly and maintain a certain rationality and self-protection awareness while enjoying the beauty it brings.

Jin Lan thought that it was because she felt sorry for her son that she compromised, which led to the vixen harming her son. This time I will not be soft-hearted. I must stick to the end. I will never be fooled by her again and will not let her conspiracy succeed.

The next morning, Jinlan discussed with her husband that she would secretly buy a ticket and go back to her hometown alone, leaving her husband to take care of her grandson.

When Wang Kun got up in the morning, he didn't see his mother. He was a little surprised: "Dad, where did Mom go? How come I saw her?"

"Your mother went back to her hometown," Wang Kun's father answered sullenly.

"What did you say?" Wang Kun was shocked when he heard his father say that his mother went back to her hometown.

"Did she go back to her hometown this morning? How did she get there? Which bus did she take? Who bought the train ticket for her?" Wang Kun asked his father impatiently.

"She bought her own train ticket," Wang Kun's father told Wang Kun.

"She bought the train ticket herself." When Wang Kun heard his father say that his mother bought the train ticket herself, his mouth opened wide. He thought his mother was really amazing. It turned out that he bought her train ticket for her return trip. He didn't expect that his mother actually went to the station to buy the ticket herself this time. It was incredible.

"What time does the train arrive, mom?"

"The 10 a.m. train this morning"

"No, I have to get my mother back. I won't let her go home. What is she going to do home alone? No one has lived at home for several years." Wang Kun immediately took the key and ran to the garage.

Looking at his son's back, the father could only shake his head.

Wang immediately drove at full speed towards the train station. While driving, he thought, Mom doesn't like Qiuyan so much, it will be very troublesome for him to be with Qiuyan. He thought, I must find a way to make Mom accept Qiuyan.

When Wang Kun rushed to the train station, the train had already left.

He was filled with regret and could only return. On the way, he decided to have a good talk with Qiuyan to see if he could find a solution to the problem.

After returning home, Wang Kun found Qiuyan waiting for him. He told Qiuyan that his mother had returned to her hometown and expressed his concerns.

Qiuyan comforted him and said that they would work together to find a way to get his mother back. She also understood his mother's concerns and would work hard to change herself so that his mother would accept her. Share your feelings with friends and family. They may be able to look at your relationship from a different perspective and provide you with some useful methods.

In short, love does not make people blind, but it does affect our judgment. As long as we remain rational, learn to treat love correctly, and live in harmony with our family, we can enjoy the sweetness of love while avoiding being neglected by love. Even if you get love, you will not be happy.

Wang Kun decided to go back to his hometown and find his mother.