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Many times I think that there are many people in the village who have daughters, but they don’t treat their children like my parents-in-law do.

However, most of the time, Han Hui wouldn't let his parents work in the fields, saying that there was enough food at home and he didn't want them to get tired. Even his younger sister wouldn't let him.

It would not be nice for the family to be alone, but my parents-in-law also think that they cannot let their own son do it.

That’s it. My younger sister goes there sometimes, and she has a salary now, so the family doesn’t have to be so tired.

I am alone here, and I stay at home all day like the empress in the palace before, and go out for a walk when I feel bored.

People from the village, the Youth League Institute, and even my relatives from my mother's side in Anshi, heard about my life, but almost no one believed it. It was my eldest cousin and aunt who said it was true.

Everyone accepted this fact, so many people envied me.

Who doesn’t say that I’m lucky to have married well? Both my husband and my parents-in-law are hard to find even if you choose one in a million.

She said that I must have saved the world in my previous life, which is why I am so lucky to marry into the Han family in this life.

Wang Na doesn’t know what to say now. She doesn’t know whether others are envious or not, but she is envious anyway.

Although the Dongfang family has no mother-in-law and the father-in-law does not care about things, if you really compare them with Xia Xue, there is really no way to compare them.

However, Dongfang Junchen was nice to her, and she was just envious, and she didn't feel any psychological imbalance.

He said helplessly: Then how much dowry should we give? After you put it that way, I felt that my previous dowry was quite a lot, but compared with yours, it's really frustrating.

Xia Xue laughed and said: So, sister-in-law, you don’t have to give according to my dowry.

My parents-in-law don’t care about these things, but they said that the betrothal gift will not be taken back to my daughter’s parents-in-law’s home.

This can be considered as compensation for raising their daughter. Although it may not sound good, it is the fact. Besides, their family only has one son and one daughter, so it is normal that they are not allowed to take the betrothal gift back.

Moreover, my parents-in-law will not look at how much betrothal gift you give. The dowry is different. The dowry will only be more than the betrothal gift.

Upon hearing this, Wang Na said helplessly: This is not a question of how much we give, but how much the Han family wants.

Hearing this, Xia Xue smiled and said: Don't worry, the Han family won't want it. If you give it to them, they will accept it, but they won't take it back. If you don't give it to them, they won't ask for it.

Wang Na said: What if the man doesn’t give a betrothal gift?

Xia Xue was speechless: Whether to give a betrothal gift or not is a matter of whether the man respects the woman. If the man really loves the woman, then what does it matter if he gives some betrothal gift?

What's more, this is for his wife's parents' home. The two families have gone from being strangers to being one family. Would anyone care about how much your betrothal gift is?

Of course, this depends on the man. If he is a good person, it doesn't matter if he doesn't ask for a dowry. If the man is not good, she will not marry you even if you give her a dowry.

What's more, my younger sister has a very strong personality. If she dares to disobey Brother Dongfang Junlin after marriage, a beating would be the least of her worries.

My personality can be very gentle or very violent. It's a two-way thing. It depends on how the other person treats me, and how I will respond to them.

Wang Na had no choice but to find Dongfang Ao Yu and tell him about her conversation with Xia Xue.

Dongfang Ao Yu thought for a while after hearing this and said: Our family will give you 30,000 yuan, and I will give you the part that is missing from yours later. If you are willing to give it to your parents, then give it to them. If you are not willing, then keep it for yourself.

After all, not every mother's family is the same.

This was the first time that Dongfang Ao Yu had met parents and in-laws like the Han family since he was a child.

The impression they have is already good, and more importantly, they treat their daughter-in-law as their own daughter. Many people would say that this is fake, but the opposite is true.

The Han family really treats their daughter-in-law as their own daughter and even treats her the same as their own children.

This is something that ordinary people cannot compare to.

Wang Na smiled and said: Okay, Dad, then I won’t tell my family. You know, if my family knew that you gave so much betrothal gift, they would suck my blood dry.

Dongfang Ao Yu nodded and said: If your family members ask you how much the second brother's family gave as a betrothal gift.

Just say you gave sixty-six. The reason is that the daughter of the second son's family will not take the betrothal gift to her husband's house, so no matter how much you give, it means the same thing.

Your original betrothal gift was eight hundred yuan. By comparison, your family will still think you are very valuable.

Upon hearing this, Wang Na laughed and said: Okay, I'll listen to Dad, hahaha.

Everyone was speechless when they heard this, but Wang Na's family was indeed not that good, so with this comparison, perhaps they would be nicer to Wang Na.

After everyone had discussed it, they gave the betrothal gift directly to Liu Zhilan. Liu Zhilan looked at the deposit certificate and said helplessly: What my in-laws gave is too much, there is no need for so much, as long as the two children are happy.

Dongfang Ao Yu said: Keep it, this is also a manifestation of our satisfaction with your daughter.

We will get married on the sixth day of next month, and Junlin’s marriage report will be available this month.

One month was enough time to prepare. The new house was in the one where I lived, and there were rooms for the two brothers.

After getting married, Zi Ling will probably follow the army and a yard will be arranged for her in the army.

This way they can stay at my place when they come back.

Han Wei said: Okay, Brother Dongfang, you can arrange it. You have the final say on where to get married.

Zi Ling's marriage was thus settled.

Time passed quickly and the marriage report came out in just a few days. After that, a family compound was arranged for me in the army.

Zi Ling chose a house with a small courtyard. She didn't like living in a building, as it would be troublesome to have neighbors on both sides.

How comfortable it is to live in your own house.

I don’t know if Xia Lei did it on purpose, but he arranged a yard not far from Ye Fan’s.

Zi Ling’s is near the foot of the mountain. There is no house within fifty meters. This is the place Zi Ling chose herself.

Mainly for convenience in going up the mountain.

Zi Ling's wedding was very grand, and many people from the army came. Of course, Ye Fan was not invited, mainly because Ye Fan was on a mission.

After getting married, Dongfang Junlin lived in the military compound for three days. After returning home, he took Zi Ling to the family compound.

Many soldiers in the army had not seen their commander's wife, so after arriving at the army, Dongfang Junlin invited his soldiers to his home for dinner.

The main reason is that none of them were in the army when they got married, and they all gave gifts.

When Zi Ling heard that someone was coming today, she nodded and asked: How many people?

Dongfang Junlin said embarrassedly: There should be more than thirty people, they all brought gifts, but on the day of our wedding, they were not in the army, they were all out on a mission.

Zi Ling thought for a while and said: Then go to the cafeteria and borrow eight tables, and invite the two Uncle Xia and the political commissar to come.

Dongfang Junlin didn’t know what to say: Wife, um, Ye Fan and his wife will also be here.

Zi Ling was speechless when she heard this: Just come, let’s just treat each other as ordinary friends.

Dongfang Junlin said: He probably won’t recognize you.

Zi Ling nodded and said: Well, I weighed almost 200 pounds before, and now I'm almost 20 centimeters taller.

It looked completely different then than it does now.

Zi Ling asked: Are you coming in the evening or at noon?

Dongfang Junlin said: Come in the evening.

Zi Ling nodded and said: Okay, I'll go buy some groceries later.

Dongfang Junlin thought for a while and said: Do you want us to arrange someone to take you there?

Zi Ling thought for a while and nodded: Let Uncle Xia call the person assigned to me to drive for me.

Dongfang Junlin was stunned for a moment when he heard this, then he remembered that his wife was also the team leader, hahaha.

How could he forget.

Dongfang Junlin went to find Xia Lei, and soon the soldiers arrived at Zi Ling's house.

After seeing Zi Ling, he saluted and said: Hello, Captain Han, Zhang Liang reporting in.

Zi Ling said: Okay, you will stay in the army from now on, and participate in training regularly. You two will change positions once a month.

When you change shifts, you will be given four days of vacation, and each time it is the person who is replaced who takes the vacation. That is to say, when you change shifts next month, you will be on vacation, and after the vacation you will go back to work there.

The next time he changes shifts, he will be on vacation, and they will take turns like this.

If there is anything between you, you can take a break. Tell me then.

Go drive and take me to the market to buy vegetables. You will be responsible for driving me during this period, and you will go out with me when there is any task.

Zhang Liang said: Yes, Captain.

Zhang Liang drove Zi Ling to the market. Zi Ling was wearing a military uniform and a mask. The rank on her shoulder was regiment commander, and people here didn't dare to offend her.

I bought vegetables and various meats, as well as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea and other things.

After returning home, Zhang Liang helped to pack up. After all, there were too many things and it would take Zi Ling a long time to pack up by herself.

During this period, Song Dan came and brought the battalion commander's wife with him to help Zi Ling cook.

After coming in, Song Dan said: Girl Zi Ling, let me introduce you, this is Captain Jin Wu’s lover, Xie Fangfang, she is a nurse.

This is her son, he is eight years old and his name is Jin Shuai.

Song Dan said to Xie Fangfang: This is Captain Dongfang’s lover, Han Ziling, who is also a captain. She is also my Xiaoxue’s sister-in-law.

Zi Ling said with a smile: Hello Comrade Xie, hello Comrade Jin Shuai, come in quickly.

Upon hearing this, Xie Fangfang smiled and said: Hello, Comrade Han, and then asked her son to call her Aunt Han.

Jin Shuai said: Hello, Aunt Han.

Han Ziling brought them into the house and gave the children some fruits and snacks.

Then he asked, "Aunt Song, don't you have to go to work today? Did Uncle Xia ask you to come?"

Song Dan smiled and said: That's right, Captain Dongfang went to find your Uncle Xia and invited him and his eldest brother to dinner, and then your Uncle Xia called me, so I had to take leave to come.

Today is Xie Fangfang's day off, and her husband was invited by Group Leader Dongfang to have dinner, so I went to find him to help her.