Not every butterfly has never looked back affectionately after absorbing the essence of flowers, not every floating cloud has stopped watching after watching the breeze go away, and not every green leaf has stopped burning the love for its roots in its heart after drifting away with the water. It is really wonderful. Wild animals are leisurely, calm, and lazy most of the time. Tigers are drunk on meat, and lions often sleep. The more powerful the fighting power is in a short period of time, the more it needs to conserve its energy for a long time. Completely relaxed, very calm. Look at their lazy and casual appearance, how confident. How elegant. On the contrary, herbivores are basically diligent, they have to follow water and grass, migrate, eat constantly, give birth constantly, and stay alert at all times. They have to prick up their ears when eating grass, and can only take a nap with their eyes open when sleeping. Horses sleep standing up, and will not lie down unless they are sick and die. Don't you see, the people who are busy running around for food, of course, in a highly competitive society, it is not easy to be truly elegant, but being a lazy lion is still the ideal state of life. First of all, you must have a sense of security, be bold and elegant, and no one can eat you. Secondly, you must have no worries about food, clothing, housing and transportation, and not be driven by greed. Third, knowing that you are a lion, you can be drunk for meat, but not tired for meat, and maintain that calmness, that elegance is more precious than catching a few antelopes. There is a person named Meiti, she graduated from the Department of Architecture of Tsinghua University, successfully got the admission letter of Harvard University, but was rejected twice by the American Embassy. Meiti was very sad and cried in the dormitory. A good classmate advised her to find a consulting company for help, which was quite effective. The girl was tempted and found a consulting company called "Confidence". There are only three people in the company, the boss and two assistants. The boss looked through the girl's visa materials and said that there was no problem with your materials. The boss asked the girl to describe the two rejections in detail. The girl spoke softly, with her eyes and head down, not daring to look the boss in the eye. The boss listened and interrupted the girl: "Stop talking, this is the problem." It turned out that Meiti was introverted and not good at interacting with strangers. Her face would turn red when she spoke, and she always lowered her eyes and gave people a feeling of lack of confidence. The boss said to the girl very experiencedly: You only need to train three things in our company: raise your head, look straight, and speak loudly. So, for two weeks, the two assistants did nothing but think of ways to make the girl develop the habit of raising her head and looking straight at people, and train her to speak loudly. For the third visa, half out of habit and half deliberately, the girl always raised her head and stared at the signing officer, talking freely, responding fluently, and calmly. The signing officer looked at her two visa rejection records suspiciously, mumbling: "Unconfident, hesitant, dare not raise your head", as if she was completely different from this girl. Finally, he smiled and said, "You are excellent. I don't see any reason to reject you. America welcomes you." The whole process took only 3 minutes. Now we advocate for progress, elegance, and calmness, which is a state of life. In the ever-changing world, there is a kind of "scenery" that is solidified, ordinary, elegant, quiet, and even insignificant, but it will be an indispensable part of life.

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