After rebirth, I was bound to the academic system

Time flies so fast. As the cold winter approaches, after several exams, I am firmly ranked first in the third grade and the class.

"My daily routine is to read books, memorize them, and do exams. Occasionally, I explain difficult problems to my classmates. Sometimes, the teacher will ask me to answer questions. Occasionally, I will be asked to share my learning experience and methods with everyone. I like the academic atmosphere of Bloomberg. In this environment, students have only one goal in mind: study hard and do their best to gain a better future for themselves."

"Everyone also better understands what the ancients said: If you don't work hard when you are young, you will regret it when you are old."

"Especially for those of us born in the 80s, who lived in remote towns and rural areas, we experienced the hardships of life from an early age and were more eager to escape from this kind of life. We wanted to change the hardship of our family, take on the responsibility for our parents, and help reduce the burden on our family. We hoped that we would get better and better in the future, so that our descendants would not experience the hardship and poverty that we experienced. We all wanted to fight for our family and the future."

"This is what students at this stage think. At the same time, I will also subtly impart some social knowledge to them so that they can have a clearer understanding of the world."

“The world of students is actually very simple. It’s all about studying.”

"However, due to differences in regions and education levels, many people only learn to study hard. Once they leave school and enter society, they are like little white rabbits in a pack of wolves. They are eaten by wolves and only have scraps and bones left. What they are left with are bloody lessons and scars all over their bodies."

"Why do so many powerful people want to send their children to private schools? Are they stupid? They have to pay such expensive tuition fees every year just to give their children a good learning environment."

"Wrong, absolutely wrong. If it's just for academics, then there are so many things you can't learn."

“It’s the difference in the quality of teaching and the difference in the relationships there.”

"These children from well-off families learn to be influenced by their parents from an early age. Under the influence of their parents, they can mature more early and learn to weigh the pros and cons. When they go to a school of the same level, they are not only learning knowledge and accumulating connections, but also increasing their future trump cards based on their parents'.

Sometimes, in remote rural areas, due to the lack of information, the information they receive and their cognition are based on the teachings of teachers in school and the words and deeds of their parents. They have received one message since childhood: study hard and achieve excellent grades.

"But what they don't pass on to their children is that not every child is a genius, and not everyone will be successful in the future. Parents want their children to go to a good university, have a good job, start a family and have children, but imagination is beautiful, and reality is cruel."

"But this very ordinary expectation has trapped many people's lives. It is really difficult to realize this wish."

“Parents are not only our guides, but also our mentors and helpful friends. In many cases, it is not enough for them to just feed and clothe us. When we are still ignorant and do not have a clear understanding of the world, when darkness has not yet descended on us, what we can learn and understand is what we can learn from books or from relatives and friends.”

"We are not born knowing everything. We need someone to teach us what to do and how to protect ourselves. What not to do and how to do it? When something happens, how to save ourselves or make the best possible remedy? Minimize the damage."

"Many times parents overlook one issue: the psychological problems of students."

"When we were students, our world was relatively simple, and we were relatively innocent, not as complicated as we thought. It is often this innocence that can easily destroy us and break our psychological limits when something beyond the limit occurs.

To put it bluntly, it is actually because there is not a strong inner heart to serve as a supporting force.

Any student, whether they are good or poor students, should have some psychological tutorials at each stage to guide and relieve them.

"With the consent of the class teacher, I will gradually put the books I have read in the library in the classroom. There will not only be textbooks for our third grade, but also some other miscellaneous books."

"Since the library is still under construction, I can't take out all the books in my space at once, and I can't find a place to put them. But in the end I thought of a way. Although this method will offend some small bookstores opened by teachers in the school and reduce their sales, there is no other way."

"Not everyone is as lucky as me, and not everyone has the money to buy extracurricular books and textbooks and test papers. After all, online books are not cheap."

With the principal's consent, although all the books could not be taken out at once, a book shelf was set up next to the blackboard in each class, and the corresponding books were placed on it.

It’s a good thing that I have been really trying to read during this period, otherwise I wouldn’t have been able to take out all the books from the first grade of junior high school to high school at once.

"After this incident, my popularity in school was quite high, but it gradually cooled down due to my attitude. But now it has sprouted again and the flame has risen again. Now everyone's enthusiastic attitude is really like fire, roasting me hot."

"What can I do? I'm not a cold-hearted person. I just don't have the ability to do it most of the time. But when I have the ability, I hope to do something that is easy to do. I don't expect others to be grateful to me. I just want to have a clear conscience."

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"During this period of time, my parents have also been changing day by day, and have made great progress. Knowledge really can change a person, and this is the case with my parents now. Since they have learned more knowledge and principles from books, they now look more bookish and scholarly. They also like the changes they have made. At the same time, they also understand that in the future we will all come into contact with a higher level world and people, and will also come into contact with the center of power in this world, and at the same time, we will become part of this center."

"If they don't want to be looked down upon by others, or be called country bumpkins, nouveau riche, or useless, then they should start to change themselves bit by bit from now on. One day, they will become what others imagine them to be, and they will become someone that others cannot reach."

"When my parents were quietly making progress, they understood a truth: time waits for no one. In fact, now every year, prices are rising, wages are also rising, but not as fast as house prices."

"Originally, the plan was: Didn't our family buy a few houses before? The others have been rented out, and the rent will be deposited into Dad's card every month, but there are still three rough houses that have not been rented out. I thought that during the winter vacation, everyone would move to Xinghai City to live for a while, and then find a decoration team to decorate these houses."

"But during this period, I don't know what my parents were thinking. It could also be that my second uncle and his wife were helping out in the store, so my parents had some free time. So they thought about going to the city to renovate the three houses in advance."

"After dinner, everyone sat around the fire watching TV and chatting, and talked about this matter."

"Yueyue, my parents have always called me this."

"I have discussed with your father recently and we are planning to renovate the rough houses in the city in advance. At the same time, we are also planning to form a decoration team. It won't be a large team, just a few good friends and relatives, so we can help them."

"Mom and Dad, do you want to get into decoration in the future?"

"We haven't thought about it that much yet. We'll talk about it later. You know that our relatives and friends are not very familiar with decoration, and they are not skilled workers. That's why I plan to take them to practice in our house and find some professional decorators to decorate together. They can help and learn. This kind of opportunity to learn from others is rare after all."

"What do you think?" Dad looked at me and said.

"Sure, I fully agree."

"After all, I know that for decoration, you don't need any profound cultural knowledge, just practice makes perfect, and you also need a guide. As long as you are willing to work hard and endure hardships, your daily salary will be higher than those white-collar workers in the future. If you have some ideas, you can become a small contractor and organize a decoration team. You can easily make hundreds of thousands of dollars every year. After all, the real estate industry will be the world in the next few decades, and decoration is really popular."

"Mom and Dad, just go for it. Don't be afraid of trial and error. We have the cost of trial and error. Besides, real estate and decoration are together, and there are really too many tricks involved. When you watch the professional decorators, you will know that there are many profound things involved. Maybe after decorating a few houses, you can become a master yourself!"

"I'm not lying. Before I was reborn, I often watched short videos on how to decorate a house. Although I can't say I understand everything about decoration, I know about it 7788."

“Some things really seem difficult until you try them. But once you try them, you’ll realize that they are actually very simple, but you just haven’t taken that step yet.”

"Besides, decorating is actually very profitable. Maybe you will be a big boss in the decorating industry in the future! At least those who learn decorating from their parents may become rich people in the future, and every family can buy a house in the city and a car."

"After hearing what I said, my parents felt relieved. They believed that what their daughter said would come true in the future."

"I don't interfere too much with my parents. After all, they are adults now. Although I can give them some advice, I still have to let them do more. After all, they are now in contact with more people and encounter more complicated things. They will only become more and more comfortable with it."

"Although there will be difficulties in the process, don't you still have me?"