After rebirth, I was bound to the academic system

"The feast lasted until three or four in the morning, and then everyone left in twos and threes."

"Old people like grandma and grandma can't stay up late, so they go to bed early."

"It was not until now that I discovered a big problem: I finally understood why some people, as soon as they have money, want to tear down their old houses in the countryside and rebuild them, and they build them bigger and bigger, and the decoration is getting more and more luxurious."

"One is for face, and the other is for the comfort of my family. There are more people in rural areas. If you don't build a few more rooms, there won't even be a place to sleep."

"When promoting it, I always thought that this old house in the countryside was fine as long as it was habitable. After all, everyone would move to the city soon. There were already such big villas to live in, and the city had bought so many houses, so it didn't seem to make much sense to renovate this old house."

"I have to admit that my idea was a little wrong. Previously, my parents wanted to build a big villa in the countryside to show off their wealth, but I persuaded them not to do so."

"Oh, I regret it!"

"According to current prices and labor costs, it is most cost-effective to build a house now. If you build a villa of 2003 to 100 square meters, now is 100, even if the materials are the best, then at most million yuan is enough to build such a villa. If you wait until ten years later, prices will soar, labor costs will soar, and decoration materials and building materials will rise every year. I am afraid that if you want to build a villa of several hundred square meters, million yuan will not be enough? Unless you save on everything, then it is another matter."

"My family doesn't need the extra 1-2 million now, but renovating the house is really urgent."

"I was just thinking about it before, but I'm not going back to my hometown. My grandparents and other relatives and friends are all here. This old house is small and run-down. To put it bluntly, this old and run-down house is not worthy of our family's worth."

"Not to mention, if I bring a few good friends to visit my hometown and see such a shabby house, it will be embarrassing, and there will be no place for relatives to stay. I will definitely be laughed at by others. You drive such expensive Mercedes-Benz and BMW every day, but live in such a shabby house. People will definitely think that you have been kicked in the head by a donkey. What on earth are you thinking?"

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"Mom and Dad: I was wrong before. When you suggested rebuilding the house, I thought it was unnecessary. It was fine to live in the old house. I thought that in half a year, our family would all move to the city. We would not be able to live in such a big villa and all the houses we bought in the city, so there was no need to rebuild the house."

"Now that I think about it, this is our hometown, our roots. Besides, it's not like we can't afford to repair the house, and it's not like we won't come back in the future."

"After the Chinese New Year, we will build a big villa! It will be right next to our house. The land next to it happens to be ours. The area of ​​the land is large enough and looks about the same, about one acre. Then we will demolish the old house and build a three-story villa. Then we will build the wall and distribute the space. Which ones are chicken coops and which ones are pig pens? We will plant some fruit trees and various flowers in the yard... We will build a grape rack in the yard with grapes on it, and put some tables and chairs below. We will also build a fish pond and fountain against the wall. Anyway, it's up to everyone's preference... Then we will build the house into a combination of Chinese and Western styles. In this way, we will have a 1000-square-meter villa. When friends come over, we will have a place to live. When my grandparents come to our house, they will have their own rooms to live in. We don't have to squeeze in like we do now."

"is it?"

"My parents were so happy to hear me say this."

"I may not feel it myself, but my parents are a little afraid of me. I am the most capable person in our family, and almost all the money in the family is earned by me. Even if my parents want to do something, they are a little lacking in confidence."

"I've long wanted to demolish the house and rebuild it into a big villa, so that the neighbors, relatives and friends nearby can all see it. Things change over time. They were poor before the end of the dynasty, so when the time comes, decorate the villa a little more luxuriously, so that they can be proud of themselves and let the people around them see that although they and their husbands are not capable, their children are capable, so that they can enjoy happiness early. As for the house in Xinghai City, no matter how big and luxurious it is, it is far away and not as shocking as what everyone sees right in front of them. To put it bluntly, no matter how big and luxurious your house is, others can't see it. You want others to envy and praise you, isn't it in vain?"

"When they heard me talk about the size and structure of the new house, they were all very excited. They all hoped that the New Year would pass quickly so that they could start construction earlier and live in their dream country villa earlier. According to my description, that would be a real pastoral life, which would be so comfortable."

"My parents also said that when the time comes, they can let their own decoration team build and decorate the house. Although they are not very experienced in building houses, they will find a few experienced craftsmen to take the lead. After learning and working for a period of time, they believe that no matter how difficult it is, they will be able to do it. The more difficult it is, the more we have to face it head-on. Thinking of building a satisfactory villa with my own hands as my own home, my heart is filled with excitement."

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"Looking at my parents who were still discussing the new house, I didn't disturb them and went back to my room quietly."

"Thinking carefully, it seems that I don't have enough social experience in my past and present lives. It is inevitable that I am a little careless about some things, but this is not a big problem. I can just correct my mistakes!"

"But I know my biggest problem is indifference. I saw a lot before my rebirth, and I was most afraid of this kind of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, family matters, exchanges between relatives and friends, and the interactions between colleagues. I have seen so much chaos, and it has made me more and more understand the two sides of human nature. I am more and more certain of it. I can only say that I am afraid of being trapped in the grave of marriage. I don't believe in myself, and there is no one worthy of my trust who can make me tolerate another family for him and deal with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships that once scared me."

"Maybe I didn't have enough confidence and courage! I had no car, no house, no savings, and my looks were average. I couldn't marry a rich man, and I wouldn't settle for a poor man. I always thought that having money would solve all my problems, and then I would just have to find someone I truly loved. But when I was over 30 and had my own house, I saw the complexity of society and became less and less interested in getting married and having children. I always thought that after so many years of hard work, I finally had a house of my own. Although I still had to pay off the loan every month, I was content with such a life."

"I'm afraid that I won't give up, or I'll be in love and get entangled with another man, and finally I'll get married because I can't let it go."

"My family understands their own affairs and their own abilities. The man I find must be of equal status. It must be sweet at the time, but life requires food, clothing, housing, and transportation. I have to pay off my mortgage every month, and my monthly salary is only a few thousand yuan. The same is true for the man's family."

"After getting married, you have to have children. At our age, we are considered to be older mothers. Not to mention the damage to ourselves and the series of expenses for the child, it is a huge amount of money. Not to mention that both of our parents are now in their sixties and are suffering from aging and illness. This is also human nature."

"But you can say I'm timid or cowardly! I'm just afraid. I only have so much ability. In the past few years of the epidemic, it is becoming more and more difficult to make money. If something really happens that is beyond my ability, what should I do? Although it is said that having a partner can help you bear everything together, and two people's shoulders are always easier to support than one person, you have to know that everyone has selfish desires. There is never a perfect marriage in the world. That is when nothing unexpected happens. What's more, at this age, you must have met someone through a blind date. How can you withstand a long-term relationship for several years? There is enough time to understand this man, all his qualities, and discover all his good advantages and bad shortcomings."

"Not to mention: I have seen so many real reports of wife-killing cases in my previous life. Even if the couple had been together for more than ten years, when it was time to kill, the raised dragon-slaying sword was never merciful. The beast in human form was fully demonstrated at this moment."

"I never underestimate human nature. After all, people in this world are scarier than ghosts."

“The human heart is unpredictable”

"So I'd rather be single than plunge into the swamp and struggle in the whirlpool. Life is short and people are most afraid of regretting. But there is no regret medicine in the world. In just a few decades, which will come first, tomorrow or an accident?"

"Perhaps the people I feel most sorry for are my parents. What they are most worried about is how I will live alone when I am old. To put it bluntly, there will be no filial sons by the bedside of a long-term patient. When you are healthy, everything is fine, but if you have any problems, even when you need help to eat or drink, your own children will despise you, not to mention your siblings, nephews, and nieces. No matter how great the family affection and human feelings are, they will slowly fade away with time. People will only forget the past and focus on the present."

“Raising children to provide for old age”

"After working hard to raise children for decades and worrying about them all their lives, those with a little conscience will definitely run around for their parents and do their best to ensure that they don't have to worry about their lives when they grow old. Those without a conscience will not only respect their parents and provide for their parents until the end of their lives, but will also wish to scrape a layer of skin off their parents. If the day comes when their parents really can't move and need someone to take care of them, they will definitely show a hideous face."

"I am very happy that I was suddenly killed by someone when I was in my 30s. Although my parents experienced the pain of losing their son, since I was killed by someone, there will definitely be a compensation for my parents. It will serve as capital for their retirement. This can be regarded as the last filial piety offered to me, a daughter without conscience."

"I think I have depression, because I have the greatest malice towards everyone and everything. I never think that human life is precious. This is just for me. I often think, people like me who have not contributed any value to society, have not made any contributions to the country, are just ordinary and invisible. I repeat this kind of life every day in my life. When will this endless and boring life end?"

“What’s the point of me living?”

"But at the same time, I am also a coward. I dare not commit suicide. I often hear old people say that people who commit suicide will become earthbound spirits forever, suffering torture in the underworld. This is God's punishment for everyone who does not cherish his or her life."

"I am also afraid that I can't die completely, and I am afraid that I will live half-dead, which is really worse than death."

"It's hard enough to survive in this world, but when I think about suffering after death, I get scared. Is life really that hard?"

"I live a miserable life in this world, drifting with the flow, gritting my teeth and holding on, for fear that if I slack off, I will fall down and never get up again."

"This world is too bitter, and life is too hard! If I can, I don't want to come back in the next life."

“But now I have a new life.”

"I have a chance to start my life over again. I have a goal I want to work hard for in this life, and I have the confidence to start all over again. I will no longer live in a muddle-headed way. There is a road leading to heaven in front of me, which radiates light, guides and accompanies me."

"Thanks again: Baozi, I really love you, I said to the system."

"Is it him, her, or him?"

"It gave me a path to become a celestial being. The system is my second parent, and that's not an exaggeration."

"The system said shyly: Host, I love you too. I will always be by your side, so that you will never feel lonely. No matter where you are, no matter how far you go, or how far you cross time and space, you will always be my host."

"Me: "It's great to have you here, my dear."

"System: Host, you have a system like me who is considerate, rich, versatile, and approachable. This is the blessing that your ancestors of 18 generations have cultivated in your previous life. The system said proudly: With me, you will not only be rich, but also become an immortal in the future. Thinking of this, do you love me more?

Listening to the system's boast, I couldn't help but smile. This system is definitely a second-generation unified person with a good background. Sometimes he is naive, sometimes a little arrogant, and sometimes reveals some clear stupidity. I really want to know who created this arrogant little guy. He is like a child who has not grown up. He has parents and a brother who spoils him. Only then can he grow up like this.

It makes people want to pamper her a little.

"I am really lucky to be bound by the system. This is the treasure that gave me a surprise and life."

"It is my great honor to know you, Baozi."