After being reborn as a top student, she made it onto the Forbes rich list

Girls from poor families are mostly raised as daughters-in-law of other people's families rather than as daughters from an early age.

A family that truly loves their daughter will educate her to study hard, nourish her both materially and spiritually, and advise her not to fall in love at an age when she shouldn't, and never give up her job and sacrifice her career for the family.

Encourage her to fight for her career like a wolf.

Because their elders know that only when women gain power and voice will they be recognized and respected by everyone.

If you can only do housework, no one will recognize you, and you can't even cook delicious food.

A wealthy family that truly loves their daughter will raise her as an heiress rather than a pet.

Just like Luo Jinxin.

Another female dilemma is girls from poor families.

Having not received a good education since childhood, lacking mental support, and not knowing how to work hard, she was pushed into marriage.

Everyone will tell you to get married, just get married, and have a baby.

If one doesn’t work, try two. If two doesn’t work, try three.

Then the family became poorer and poorer, and life became bleaker and bleaker.

Whether it is a boy or a girl from a poor family, the best thing to do when they reach the age of 20 is definitely not to get married!

It's about escaping poverty and finding a career that you truly love.

Having said that, this lecture is over.

Start post-class live question and answer session.

There were comments of curses below.

Scolding Zhu Heyi for deliberately provoking confrontation between men and women.

Zhu Heyi smiled and faced the camera and asked the netizen: "You 'heartless person' netizen, you said that I deliberately provoked gender confrontation. I beg you to disagree with your statement. What is gender confrontation? I did not mention anything about boys in the whole article. I just encouraged girls to be like normal people, fight for their own interests, study hard, work hard, and don't give up improving themselves and return to their families. Save money to buy a house and a car for yourself and live a better life. This is what every boy here does for himself every day. Are you asking them not to focus all their attention on the family and poking your sore spot? Are you afraid that more and more girls will wake up in the future and you won't be able to find a girl willing to be a free babysitter in your house?"

When he said this, Zhu Heyi's smile disappeared without a trace.

Look, in fact, every vested interest group knows it clearly in their hearts.

Whoever sacrifices, benefits.

But they will never admit that they have gained any benefit.

Because men from ancient times to the present have benefited in this way.

They have become accustomed to this preferential treatment.

Now with the development of social networks, more and more girls have become aware of the situation, and more and more men are panicking.

There are a lot of cursing comments on the barrage, and judging from the IDs, most of them are defense-breaking.

Luo Jinxin asked a relatively normal question amid the dense barrage of insults: "Excuse me, UP host, what suggestions do you have on how to improve myself and become excellent?"

Zhu Heyi's smile returned to his face.

She answered the netizen at a moderate speed: "There are several ways to improve yourself. First: have a regular work and rest schedule, eat in moderation, eat and sleep well, exercise three to five times a week, and maintain a good mood and body. Second, find something you love and are good at, a career you can work hard for your whole life and improve your abilities. Third, don't stop learning and reading, read for yourself, think more after reading, review more, understand what you want, set life goals, and then work towards your goals unswervingly."

There are fewer abusive voices in the barrage.

It starts to appear above: Thank you for the advice from UP.

Zhu Heyi looked at the comments and his smile widened.

Her original intention in making videos was to enable a few sisters to think about and grow in all aspects of their lives.

But unexpectedly, many netizens also saw her video and expressed ideological resonance and reflection.

Zhu Heyi thought this was a good idea.

The benefits that the great women of the last century fought so hard for cannot be lost from their fellow women just after a few decades.

The opportunity to compete with the world is finally obtained, but it has to be given up because of family, allowing the other gender to benefit.

They continue to stare at women from high positions, look down on them, bully them, and squeeze their living environment.

Then, from a moral high ground, they accuse them of not contributing to their families and society.

She didn't care about the insults.

What’s important is that the girls who see her videos, or the boys who are in a disadvantaged situation and want to change into better people, hope that the videos can inspire their lives.

Instead of complaining on social media every day about how the sister-in-law is taking advantage of you, how your parents-in-law are sick, how your husband is cheating on you, and how your children are disobedient.

In reality, he is submissive, but online he strikes hard at netizens.

The core contradiction has been identified in the wrong place.

If you are a housewife, you do not have financial power.

Then everyone in the family will look down on you, even your beloved children.

But if you are a strong woman in the workplace, with money and power in your hands and the world at your feet, you clearly know your advantages.

What do those trivial matters matter?

Your husband's cheating can be exchanged for a younger brother who is clean in mind and body.

When your in-laws quarrel, you can use money to buy a new house to keep distance from them.

If your elder and younger sisters-in-law are looking for trouble, and you are strong enough, why don't you just scold them back?

Zhu Heyi gave implicit encouragement to every female netizen during the live broadcast: "Come on, every girl, work hard, learn, fight, and open your eyes to see the world. Never give up your dreams for anyone. Your own likes and feelings are the most important."