After being reborn as a top student, she made it onto the Forbes rich list

Because there is an unusual and extraordinary example around them.

Zhu Heyi's aunt, Zhu Xingzhu.

In that era, being the daughter of a teacher and a village cadre was considered to be of privilege.

Zhu Xingzhu has never known what restraint is since she was a child. She is beautiful and has a lively personality, and she never suffers any loss.

She ignored all her suitors.

As a result, in the late 1980s, she fell madly in love with a handsome middle-aged divorced man with a son.

There was no such thing as being in love in that era. Everyone said that Zhu Xingzhu was crazy, a lunatic.

Her behavior is different from everyone else. She pursues true love, a handsome, divorced man with children who likes to linger among women.

As a result, she got pregnant before marriage and used all means to force the man to marry her.

When I was pregnant, the man cheated on me.

Zhu Xingzhu went crazy from then on.

After torturing each other for three years, the two finally ended up divorcing.

Because of her pregnancy before marriage, Zhu Xingzhu did not graduate from college, was out of society for several years, and could not find a good job.

I can only take on some manual work in the local factory day and night.

To support myself and my daughter.

Her early experiences made her psychologically abnormal. She changed from a beautiful, lively and straightforward girl to a shrew who would argue with others over a piece of onion.

Later, someone tried to matchmake her for someone else. After all, she was beautiful and there was no shortage of lustful men.

For Song Xi, Zhu Xingzhu scolded everyone away.

The time when she just got back from the divorce was when Zheng Xiulan and Zhu Xingguo got married and had their first child.

How could Zhu Xingzhu's eyes have room for the tenderness and sweetness of other young couples?

Unable to target her younger brother who she grew up with, she turned her attention to Zheng Xiulan, who had just married into the family and was of a soft nature.

Zheng Xiulan was often made to cry by her words. If she said anything in reply, the entire Zhu family would point at her nose and scold her: "This is terrible. This daughter-in-law has a bad temper. She just got married and she wants to squeeze our daughter so hard that she can't even stand!"

"You gave birth to a money-losing child and you're still so arrogant!"

Whatever Zheng Xiulan did in that family was wrong, because Zhu Xingguo, the only one who stood by her, was not at home.

She also didn't understand why she was still her husband's even though they both gave birth to a daughter.

Qin Zhen was never accused of giving birth to a money-losing child. Even if she gave birth to a daughter, her mother-in-law would cook eggs and chicken soup for her and wash her clothes.

Zhu Xingzhu sometimes said a few words, and Qin Zhen defended her daughter, and no one ever scolded her.

Maybe it’s because Qin Zhen is a college student and she is a junior high school student.

Qin Zhen's family lives in the city. She has a younger brother who is also a college student and a civil servant, and her family is also well-off.

She was from the countryside, and her brother and sister were also from the countryside who had not received much education, and her family was very poor.

People are different.

The more you want to understand, the greater the gap in treatment.

Zheng Xiulan became more and more silent, and only occasionally looked at her daughter with a gaze that became increasingly deep.

She was scolded if her cooking was too salty, too bland, too much, too little, too little, too little, too little, too little. She was scolded if she washed clothes, if she bought things, and even if the child cried.

If it weren't for her family coming over from time to time to check on her, comfort her and support her.

At that time, Zheng Xiulan even thought about dying with Zhu Heyi.

The light of love in the eyes and the yearning for a better future were gradually worn away by personal attacks, insults and trivial matters day after day.

She also became like the materialistic Zhu Xingzhu and all the rural women she hated the most.

She also began to learn to quarrel with her in-laws and safeguard the interests of her own small family.

Arguing with others over a needle and thread.

He began to devote himself to having a child, thinking that only by having a son could he gain a foothold in the family.

It was not until five years later that Zhu Kezhen was born.

The Zhu family's attitude changed drastically.

It was rare for Zheng Xiulan to be respected in that family.

She drank chicken soup for the first time during her confinement period, and this time someone washed her clothes.

This time, Zhu Xingzhu said something to her, and Zhu Xingguo heard it, so he immediately took her out and rented a house.

They live their own lives behind closed doors.

For the first time, Zheng Xiulan felt the breath of freedom and happiness.

But because she didn't take good care of herself during those years of confinement, her health was seriously damaged.

In the hot summer, the body will sweat constantly and feel uncomfortable after doing the slightest thing.

He was only twenty-eight or twenty-nine years old, but his health was so poor that he looked like a haggard old man, or like a flower on a branch that withered overnight, and was in a dilapidated state.

Zheng Xiulan has been taking Chinese medicine for many years to regulate her body and emotions.

It wasn't until recent years that things got a little better.

After hearing this, Zhu Heyi couldn't describe how he felt.

My brain felt like it had been hit by something, my whole body was in a daze, and my heart felt uncomfortable as if it had been squeezed.

A dull pain.

She knew that Zheng Xiulan was not the only one who encountered this situation.

Millions of women have encountered this.

A girl is afraid of marrying the wrong man.

Postpartum depression.

Zhu Heyi suddenly couldn't help but breathe heavily.

These things made her feel very depressed.

Why do women have to get married and have children?

Do I have to marry into an unknown family?

Being tortured by all kinds of demons and monsters in her husband's family, she developed inner demons, which were then passed down from generation to generation after endless torture.

Generation after generation, they carry the blood, tears and unwillingness of women.

Why? They are both daughters-in-law, so why should one of them be treated differently?

Why should women waste their time doing housework and wasting their dreams and youth in a place where they can hardly see the future?

Why should men just sit back and reap the benefits in this matter?

Why do almost all men want to get married, while more and more women are starting to avoid marriage?

Because men are the direct beneficiaries in this matter.

Without any dowry or with a cheap dowry of ten to one hundred thousand, you can get a nanny, a reproductive tool, a bed partner to satisfy your sexual desires at any time, and you can also beat and abuse them at will without breaking the law.

It could almost be said that a slave was acquired simply by marriage.

In some families, women not only have to do their own jobs, but men not only don’t hand over their wages, but also have to do housework, educate the children, and support the elderly on both sides. What’s the point?

Because he is old, because he doesn’t take a shower, because he has a mistress, because he made you get a cerebral thrombosis because of the anger he caused?

You can be attracted by a boy’s looks, character, emotional value, and family background, but don’t just be attracted by love!

In marriage, a man invests 5% and earns 200%, while a woman invests 200% and earns 5% or nothing.