An older single woman meets a domineering CEO on a blind date

After we had been sitting in the back for a while, the uncle's mother said: The driver is here to pick her up, she's going back. After the uncle and I sent her to the car, his mother took my hand and said: Jiajia, we'll meet next time when we have time, we're in a hurry this time.

I smiled and said: Okay, auntie, be careful

After saying goodbye to each other, the uncle and I sat on the sofa until we finished lunch and took a nap. It was almost time for me to go back.

Then when we were leaving in the car, I handed the red envelope that my uncle's mother had given me in the morning to my uncle.

Then the uncle was driving and asked me: What happened?

Me: Your mother gave it to me just now. I tried to refuse it, but your aunt was very enthusiastic and I had no way to refuse, so I had to accept it. Now, take it back and give it back to her!

Uncle: I gave it to you, just take it, why do you have to give it back?

Me: This is not nice. You were the one who bought everything when I came here. I didn’t spend a penny. Now I’m still taking red envelopes from Auntie. This is not nice.

Uncle: Your mother-in-law gave it to you, so just take it. Don’t be polite.

Me: We don’t even know if we will have a future together, so I can’t take this red envelope

Uncle: Hey, what do you mean by that? You don’t want to be with me, so you don’t accept it, right?

Me: That’s not what I meant. Anyway, I can’t accept it.

Uncle: Even if we don’t end up together in the future, giving it to you now is my mother’s recognition of you, so just keep it.

When I heard this, I asked the uncle: Hey, have you ever met other women in your life before?

The uncle was probably a little confused by my question and said: Yes, just bring back one, he is the employee of the company who I told you about before.

Me: Did your mother give her a red envelope?

Uncle: No

Me: I don’t believe it: You must be lying to me

Uncle: Why would I lie to you? My mother didn’t like her, so she opposed me being with her. Later, due to some reasons, plus my mother’s opposition, we broke up!

Me: Why don’t I quite believe it?

Uncle: Well, I tell you the truth, but you don’t believe it, so there is nothing I can do.

I said that the auntie was so nice and seemed easy to get along with. She didn't ask any questions like other parents and she even gave me a red envelope.

Uncle: That’s why I called you here earlier, but you still said you were scared. Now you have passed this hurdle today!

Me: If you encounter such good things in the future, just call me!

The uncle smiled and said: What a little money-grubber

The uncle then dropped me off at the company building, and then he returned the same way, and I drove back to my home.

After I got home, I saw that my dad hadn't come back yet, so I packed up my things and

Thinking of my best friend contacting me yesterday, I called her and asked her, "Where are you? I said I'm back.

Girlfriend: She said she was in the hotel, and after a quarrel with xx (her husband's name), she contacted me. I was not in the city, so she went to the hotel and stayed there

I said: Send me the location and I'll pick you up.

Then my bestie sent me the hotel location, and when I got there I sent her a message saying I was not going up, and asked her to pack up and come down. Then I asked her to cancel the room.

After my best friend came out with lots of bags of things, she got in the car and asked me where I was going.

Me: Come to my suite, don't stay in a hotel, it's a waste of money and it's not clean

Later, I drove my bestie to the apartment near my company. I asked her if she had eaten lunch. She said she had and ordered takeout.

Me: What did you two quarrel about? What made you pack up and come out this time?

Girlfriend: It's really a hopeless situation. You know, it's fine if you don't make progress at work, but let's at least keep our feet on the ground! He, on the other hand, daydreams all day long and wants to get something for nothing.

Recently, he always tells me that his colleague is investing in stocks and how much he has earned. Every time he mentions this, I feel overwhelmed and annoyed. I am tired enough after working all day, and I have to listen to him nagging about these unrealistic things when I get home. Especially recently, he keeps talking about investing in stocks around me almost every day.

He said that he also wanted to follow his colleagues to invest in stocks, so that he could work less for many years. Yesterday, I couldn't stand it anymore, so I had an argument with him about this.

Then, the quarrel was particularly ugly. He talked about how he had such a good way to make money, but I, as his wife, did not support him. Then he said that he did not get rich because he married me. Just listen to how ugly it was!

What he meant was that he was poor, but he still thought he was right, and he directed the blame on me, saying that I didn't support him. What was even more infuriating was that at the end he said that if he had always been with me, he would never get rich.

After I had an argument with him, I packed up and left. I had had enough.

Hey: Jia Jia, what kind of life do you think I am living?

After hearing this, I didn't know how to comfort my bestie: when you quarrel, both of you are angry and your words are really without limits, so don't take it to heart, just communicate with him properly.

My best friend: There is no way to communicate. I was so angry yesterday that I wanted to hit her but I held back.

Anyway, I can't see any hope in my life. I've been thinking about it all night. I want to get a divorce. Now that we don't have children and we don't have any worries, it's useless to reason with such a person.

Me: Don’t say angry words, don’t talk about divorce all the time, has he contacted you since you got out?

Girlfriend: No, he might want a divorce too! People say that being with me is a barrier to his wealth! Maybe if we divorce, he can realize his daydream.

Me: I was just saying that out of anger. Don’t take it to heart. Since he didn’t contact you, he must know that you are with me! He knows that you are with me, so he can rest assured!

I really don’t know how to comfort my best friend. This is the only thing I can say in front of her. But my best friend’s husband is really not a good person. After they had a fight, his wife left and he didn’t even look for her all night!

Girlfriend: I don't want to go back for the time being, so I can stay at your place for a few more days! If it's not convenient for you, then I can only go to the hotel.

Me: It’s convenient. What’s inconvenient about it? I don’t live here. Besides, if you need me to accompany you, I will move here to accompany you. It happens that this place is closer to my company!

Girlfriend: Thank you for your help. Can you stay with me for a few days?

Me: Why are you being polite to me? Don't worry! You can stay as long as you want.

Girlfriend: Sigh, hey! Why did I choose such a person in the first place? He has nothing and a bad temper.

Me: It’s no use regretting now!

Best friend: Who said it’s useless? Now that I have no children and no worries, I really want a divorce. I have seen through him and I will just follow him for the rest of my life.

I don't want to live like this for the rest of my life. Life is short and we have to live for ourselves. It's not too late for me to withdraw now. If I have children, I will really ruin the children!

Me: Don’t think it’s that easy, just calm down. It’s normal to have quarrels. Everyone has quarrels. I also had a quarrel with my uncle a few days ago, but I didn’t dare to tell you.

Girlfriend: You guys never quarrel over money, right? I have to consider money in my life! I can’t do anything without money, it’s better for me to be alone! I don’t have to think so much, okay?

Me: I don’t know how to advise you, anyway, calm down and think about the future, don’t be impulsive, impulse is the devil!