An older single woman meets a domineering CEO on a blind date

After work that day, I thought about going home to confront my dad about the matter between me and the uncle, and then I packed up my things and drove back to my dad's place.

When I got home, my dad had already arrived and was sitting on the sofa looking at his phone. Then my aunt was preparing to cook. I also sat on the sofa with my dad, thinking that I would talk to him after dinner!

Then I ate this meal with fear and trepidation. I felt that everything I ate had no taste. Finally, I finished eating and sat on the sofa waiting for my dad to finish eating.

After a while, I saw my dad get up and go upstairs after dinner. Because my dad would go play mahjong with his good friends almost every day after dinner, I was afraid that he would go out, so I called my dad.

I said: Dad, where are you going? I have something to tell you.

When my dad heard this, he paused on the stairs and said, "Okay, tell me what you want to say." As he walked downstairs, he said to me,

Me: Come and sit here, it will be easier to talk.

My dad looked at me without saying a word and sat down.

At this time, I was very nervous, wondering how to start the conversation.

My dad: Hey, what's the matter? Tell me quickly! Why are you being so mysterious?

Me: Didn’t I tell you about a divorced man who was remarried a while ago?

Before I finished speaking, my dad said: Remember, is he still bothering you now?

Me: No, Dad, you are not pestering me. Oh, to tell you the truth, I am dating him now!

When my father heard me say this, his expression suddenly turned bad, his face turned dark, and he yelled at me: What did you say?

Me: Dad, I like him and I want to marry him, so I want to discuss this with you today.

My dad was so angry that he couldn't speak. He just started to scold me: What? You like him? You want to marry him? Are you sane?

Me: Oh, Dad, don't get excited! I'm old enough, I can make my own decisions.

Apart from being married and having a child, he is a good person in every other aspect.

My father stood up from the sofa, pointed at me and said, "I realize that you are really not smart enough. You want to be someone's stepmother?"

Me: His son lives with his ex-wife. He only comes to stay for a few days throughout the year. So what does it matter if we don’t see each other a few times?

My dad: Are you really stupid? Where is your brain?

Me: Dad, I really like him and want to marry him. We have been together for a long time and I have thought it through, so I told you today.

My dad was so angry with me that he didn't say a single nice thing the whole time: Give up on this idea and find someone who's been married for a while. No matter if there will be trouble in the future, I can't afford to lose face.

I looked at my dad's domineering attitude and felt that there was no room for negotiation.

I said: Dad, can you please calm down and speak nicely!

My dad: What are you talking about? What is there to say? Just break up with him right now. There is no point in talking about this.

Me: Dad, I really like him, I'm not kidding, didn't you say I was acting like a bitch before? I'm serious now, how about I find time to bring him back to you one day! Maybe you'll like him too after meeting him?

My dad: Whoever wants to see him, go ahead. Don’t bring him back to me. I don’t want to see him. I don’t want to embarrass myself in front of others.

Me: How come you are embarrassed? How come you can't hold your head up? Does divorce mean you will not live anymore? Do you think you are inferior to others?

My dad was so angry at me that he felt veins on his hands, but he still yelled at me: I said no, it's just no, don't tell me so much, I don't want you to be a stepmother to his child, do you think being a stepmother is that easy! You are crazy, right?

My temper flared up immediately and I thought that since we had already laid our cards on the table today, there was nothing to be afraid of. I also said: I don't care, I just like him and I want to marry him. How our life will be in the future is my business and has nothing to do with you.

My dad pointed at my forehead and yelled, "Don't even think about it unless I die."

I also yelled at him: "Can you please stop meddling in my business? I can think about things myself. I have the right to be with whoever I want! Why do I have to listen to you guys all the time?"

I'm almost 30 years old and I have the ability to think independently. Besides, did you get my consent before you separated from your mother?

You don’t have it either, right? You just follow your own ideas. I also want to follow my own ideas now, so why can’t I do that?

My dad: I am doing this for your own good. I am your dad. How could I possibly harm you? You are just being deceived for the moment. If you insist on following him, don’t come back and cry. If that happens, I’m afraid you won’t even have tears left to cry!

I didn't say anything, I felt very sad

My dad continued: You really think it's that simple. I don't look down on divorced people, but divorced people are more complicated, especially those with children. If you follow him, you will be the only one who suffers. In front of the children, he always stands by his children. You are really naive.

Being old is not a problem, and I don’t despise him or say that he has big problems. But having children will be a problem. And can you really treat his children as your own?

I lowered my head and said nothing!

That's definitely impossible. How many people can treat their ex-husband's children as their own? I definitely wouldn't dare tell my dad this!

My dad continued to talk: You are just in love now, he moves his mouth up and down, he can lie to you in any way he wants to make you happy, he must be good to you while you are in love now

I dare say that if he wants to pick the stars in the sky, he will pick them for you. He will use all kinds of means to trick you into his hand. When you are really married, will he still treat you like this?

It’s no use regretting after you get married. By that time, no one will be able to help you.

I never thought that you would find me a divorced woman. All the men in the world are dead!

Me: Dad, I didn’t tell you to accept him right away. I just thought it would be okay for you to meet him first and get to know him better. Can you help me see what kind of person he is?

My dad said excitedly: I'm telling you it's no use, don't even think about it, just give up on it.

Me: I live my own life, there is no need for me to care about other people’s opinions. Whether I live a good life in the future has nothing to do with them.

I feel like my dad is so angry with me that he wants to hit me

My dad: If you really want to be with him, I’ll say the same thing again, wait until I die, or we can just sever our father-daughter relationship, then you can be with him

I was really mad at my dad. I didn't expect him to be so tough.

He turned around and left without talking to me, leaving me here alone. I felt so upset and wanted to cry for no reason.