Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

"No, you?"

"how?

You mean, why don't I object to Uncle Zhang introducing me to someone?"

"Yes?

Given your current conditions, you shouldn't have any trouble finding a partner?"

"Then how do you know what kind of partner I want?"

"That's right!"

"how about you?

Just like you said, with the same conditions as you, it shouldn't be difficult for you to find a partner, right?"

“It’s really not difficult, but finding a partner and dating is completely different from getting married.

You also know that we are all orphans without parents. It is easier to talk to you men. After getting married, you can live your own life behind closed doors and don’t need to worry about other things.

But we lesbians are different, especially those who don’t have a mother’s family.

The problems you face once you get married are not just about the relationship between a man and a woman, but more about your partner's family.

This would be fine if the parents-in-law were reasonable people, but what if they are not allowed to talk about it?

Not to mention marrying into a den of wolves, don't even think about living a comfortable life.

To be honest, I don’t want to live like that, especially since every day, besides working at the company, I have to face endless troubles when I get home! ”

"Although I haven't experienced the things you mentioned, I have seen a lot of them in the past. It is true that once you women get married, you will not live as well as you did in your parents' home.

But then again, not every family has so many messy things going on!"

“I know this, but I can’t afford it, and I don’t dare to gamble.

Originally, I was not planning to find a partner in such a hurry, but just because I’m not in a hurry doesn’t mean others aren’t in a hurry.

Logically, I don't need to tell you so much about this, but I don't want to hide anything from you?

Although I don't know why you agreed to watch it with me, I think it's better to be honest. "

“That’s true, but you don’t have to tell me. Several uncles in the hospital have told me something about you just now.

Although I don't care about this, to be honest, if I think about it from your perspective, it's not impossible for you to find a partner at this time.

At least you know in your heart that the people in your company right now are not the best fit for you."

"Indeed, if there is someone who really likes me, why not ask for my opinion instead of saying something behind my back?

What's even more coincidental is that I actually heard it. Even if I didn't have any extra thoughts before, I'm afraid I would have wondered in my heart after hearing what the other party said."

"That's true, but you should also understand that if we find someone with similar conditions to us, we will still face a lot of problems once we get married. Have you considered these?"

"Of course I have thought about it. It's just that without other people to help me, life will be a little harder, but what's the big deal?

Others can do it, why can't I?

Am I missing an arm or a leg compared to others?

I have everything I need, so why can't I just live a simple life?

No matter how difficult it is, can it be harder than the days before?

I was alone before, but once I got married, we lived together. As long as we two put our hearts together, I think my future life won't necessarily be worse than others?

On the other hand, for families with many brothers and sisters, will they definitely live a good life even if they have a lot of people?

I don’t think so?

From the people I know, or from the things I've heard, aren't they always arguing over trivial matters every day?"

"I really don't know what you are talking about. How should I answer you?"

"Then don't answer. This is just my opinion anyway!"

"also……"

Just at this moment, I heard Aunt Zhang calling everyone in the yard to eat.

It seems that I have to stay here for dinner today. Fortunately, I always bring something with me every time I come here, otherwise, I would be embarrassed to stay for dinner.

But come to think of it, Aunt Zhang also hopes that Lu Yuan and I will stay for dinner.

After all, we are all children who grew up in the orphanage. Not to mention myself, Lu Yuan has finally come back, so why can't he stay for dinner?

And I'm probably just a by-product, right?

After all, I seldom stayed for meals in the past, as the orphanage was not very well-off. But I won’t consider this issue today.

After finishing the meal, I sat in the orphanage for a while and was about to leave. At this time, I heard Aunt Zhang talking.

"Lu Yuan, you should have nothing to do today, right?"

"Auntie, I have a whole day off today, what's wrong?"

"Since everything is alright, then send Xing girl back to the No. 1 Cotton Mill!"

When I heard this, I was so angry that I spoke up quickly.

"Aunt, I don't know how many times I've walked this road back to the No. 1 Cotton Mill. You don't need to see me off!"

"You have no say in this!"

"that is!"

At this time, Lu Yuan was heard speaking again.

"Auntie, don't worry, I will make sure to send Comrade Wang Wenxing to the No. 1 Cotton Mill safely."

"That's fine, that's fine."

"no?"

“Okay, while there’s still time, the two of you can have a good chat.

Even though they were all raised in an orphanage, they still need to spend more time together after being away for so many years."

Just like that, I was kicked out of the orphanage by Aunt Zhang for the first time. I really didn’t know what to say.

When did I become so insignificant in Aunt Zhang's eyes?

I left the orphanage without knowing what to do along the way. At this moment, I didn't know how to talk to Lu Yuan about it.

And he didn't say anything else, just accompanied me and walked from the south gate towards the station.

It can be said that neither of them spoke during the entire journey. It was only after they got out of the car that Lu Yuan was the first to ask.

"Comrade Wang Wenxing, let me ask you a very serious question. Have you ever thought that one day in the future, you will marry a soldier?"

"Any questions?"

"Of course, this question is very important. You have to know that soldiers are always different from other people.

Soldiers are not like other ordinary people who will always be with their families. In other words, once you marry a soldier, you have to face the rest of your life by yourself.

And he can't help at all?

You may also face danger at any time, and you may even lose your life.”

“I haven’t really thought about it, but what I can tell you is that no matter what, now that I’ve made the decision, I won’t regret it.

Others may hesitate, but I won’t. I have lived through the hardest and most tiring days.

In my opinion, if she feels miserable because she is married to a soldier and does not have his help, it only shows that there is something wrong with her thinking.