Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

“It depends on the nature of the job. If the job is very good, I can give up the business.

Even if our family may not be able to come up with that much money when our children are getting married?"

“There’s no rush for this. The children are still young, and even if you want them to get married, they may not have that idea.

When they really get married, it won’t be too late for us to think of other ways.”

"How can that be done?"

"It's okay. Don't worry about the money. I'll talk to the kids about this when I see them again.

We can’t just rely on my husband and me to help them save money, they don’t even realize it.”

"this?

Will it affect the children’s studies?”

"No, I don't know about the eldest brother, but the second and third brothers publish articles from time to time, and the royalties they get, to be honest, are higher than my salary in a month.

Judging from the current situation, as long as they can hold on until they get married, I think they may not need to use the family money when they are about to get married. "

"this?

It’s hard to say, right?

After all, we are their parents, and we can’t let the children pay for everything themselves.”

"We have to communicate with them. We can't let them think that they can spend the money however they want just because they make it. We have to make them realize how hard it is for us.

But we can't let these three children develop the habit of spending money lavishly. I'm not an unreasonable father, but sometimes I have to talk to them properly."

"That's right, then let's do as you said.

If that doesn't work, we'll think of other ways after we move to Beijing. Anyway, we should make more money while we have the ability and energy to relieve the pressure on our children."

"I know. Don't worry. I will work hard with you after we move back to Beijing.

I dare not say whether I can make money from other businesses, but at least in the food business, even if I make less money, I can still make some money.”

"That's right. When cooking, the most important thing is not only to make sure the ingredients are clean, but also to ensure sanitary conditions, otherwise it's easy to go wrong."

"Need I tell you that? Everyone knows that eating bad food can easily cause stomach upset.

Once this happens, forget about making money, and it’s good enough if you don’t lose money.”

"Yes, we'll see how the situation plays out. No matter what, we have to find a way to make some money.

Even if our children don't need the money they have when they get married in the future, we still have to save money for their retirement in advance.

Before we become capable, we cannot rely on our children for everything. To be honest, when they have their own families and careers and children, they may not know more clearly than we did when we were parents.

"What do you mean?

Aren't they all the same in terms of being able to raise a child?"

"You can raise your children, but have you ever thought that if you want them to be able to adapt to society as quickly as possible, do they need to learn more?"

"this?"

"If we hadn't been unable to continue staying in Beijing, I would have sent the children to the Children's Palace to learn something. Only when they learn something can it be theirs!

Fortunately, you and I both know a few tricks, so we can teach them to the children. Otherwise, can you rest assured when the eldest brother goes out to serve in the army?"

"That's right. It seems that if you raise a child according to your idea, the cost is not small."

"No matter how much it costs, at least we are doing it for the good of the children."

"That's right. Since they didn't have the chance to properly train their three children before, they have to properly train their own children when they have them."

"That's right. Nothing is more important than this."

"Of course, it seems that we really need to find a way to make money.

If you don’t have money, how can you raise your children to be successful?”

"Who says it's not?"

In fact, there is no need to make myself so tired. After all, there is still a lot of money in the space. It’s just that I don’t want to use this money now. I want to keep it and divide it among my three children in the future.

In addition, when one has the ability and energy, one really cannot sit idle, as doing so can easily lead to health problems.

It would be better to find something to do. Even if it doesn't make you tired, can't it help improve your body's coordination?

At the same time, it's better to see the outside world and chat with others than to lock yourself at home.

Just like that, according to what the couple had discussed, they handled things one by one.

Before the school was on vacation, I had already boarded the train to Beijing. This time I returned to Beijing, I can say that.

There will be nothing to do in the future, and I probably won’t come back.

Even if I come back, I won’t stay too long. At most, I will stay for three or five days to meet up with old friends.

Regarding work, the team leader's family bought the teacher's job in the commune school, and his own job was bought by his neighbor.

It’s not that people we know don’t want to buy, it’s just that each family has its own difficulties.

Although we have money, once our children get married and start their own families, there are many things to deal with, and money is involved, so our relationship is not as good as before.

This is not for the sake of avoiding disturbance at home, so I simply did not buy the job.

In fact, the most important thing is that the children of several of their families, even if they went to the countryside, were admitted to university last year, but they did not perform as well as their own children, and the worst they could do was to be junior college students.

No matter what university it is, as long as you have a job upon graduation and the job is not bad, why should you spend a penny more?

Besides, buying a job for that daughter-in-law is not even worth it, so it’s better not to buy it and save trouble at home.

In the end, they had no choice but to ask the neighbors. Not to mention that the neighbors were very happy about it, but not long after the purchase, the family could hear noisy noises every day.

As for what they are arguing about, I really don’t have time to pay attention to it.

Not to mention the rush to move, but also the things at home that need to be dealt with?

This time when I moved, except for the furniture, basically everything was sent back to Beijing through the post office. As for some things that I couldn't bear to throw away, I secretly put them into my space.

Not to mention whether it can be used in the future, just put it in the space, what if it can be used someday?

It doesn’t take up too much space, so just put it inside!

Because it was summer, I didn't bring any food with me on the train except for a few changes of clothes.

The weather is really too hot, so I'd better spend money to buy some food on the train!

As for the things that were sent by mail, they must have arrived a long time ago. Fortunately, my eldest brother also had a holiday this year and came back early. He is already in Beijing, so there is no need to worry at all with him around.

The couple chatted along the way and didn't feel tired at all, and they arrived in Beijing.

I had just got off the train and looked around. I saw someone holding a sign in the distance with her and her man's name on it, so I quickly spoke.