Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

“Fuck you?

You are so young, and it's like this. Make sure the elders don't hear you later, or you will be unwilling to stand when you are punished, and don't involve us in it.

"That's right. We don't want to stand with you during the New Year."

"That's right. We finally have a few days off. Why don't you try to cause trouble here?"

"How could I? Can't I just express my feelings?"

"Why not express your feelings a little, just don't let the elders hear you, understand?"

"Oh!"

Listen, they are still afraid of being heard. If it weren’t for the New Year period, they would have been punished countless times. Do they really think that no one heard what they said?

I just think that after being busy all year round, I can finally relax a little. I don't want to pay attention to them, otherwise they wouldn't be as comfortable as they are now.

Speaking of today's children, what can I say about them? Sometimes the study pressure is no less than the work pressure of adults, and sometimes it is even greater than that of adults.

In addition to comparing academic performance, we should also compare other aspects.

It's not just some individual children, but most of the children are like this.

To be honest, if you don't keep up, the gap between you and others will be huge.

And in this matter, even as an elder, you can't say much?

Especially some opposing words, once said, will not only affect the child's future development, but may also affect the whole family.

For this reason, when it comes to children's education, I never say too much and always stand on the same front with their parents.

This is also why our children never complain to their elders when they encounter problems. Instead, because they are in the same situation, the relationship between them is deeper.

The truth is that they have the same experiences and the same topics, and the more they talk to each other, the deeper their feelings become.

Their generation is better off, at least their parents are not only children. Even if their parents cannot have another child to accompany them, they still have other relatives with the same blood.

When they grow up, get married, start a family, and have children, it will be difficult to find a playmate.

But then again, each generation takes care of its own affairs. When they grow up, you will be old too. You don't have the experience to take care of so many things. It's better to just take care of yourself now.

At least at this age, not causing trouble to your children is a hundred times better than anything else.

It can be said that since moving back to Beijing, the meals at home are basically cooked by my husband, and I have fewer and fewer opportunities to cook.

So after retirement, I no longer have to cook for the family.

Another thing is that after retirement, the two of them rarely separate because they have nothing to do, let alone want to take advantage of other opportunities to make use of the space.

Another thing is that there is no need for it now. Whether it is small vendors outside or in the market, even if you don’t want to go out, you can have the goods delivered to your door with just a phone call.

They were still thinking about using the things in the space. Fortunately, the space had been filled with supplies early on, so there was no need to worry about the space not being filled up.

It is also because of this that, over time, if you don’t use space, you won’t think about this matter anymore.

Comparatively, you won't be on edge all the time. When life is good, who would worry about other things?

On the contrary, because I am busy with other things every day, my life is quite fulfilling.

I no longer worry about who can eat better. I just live for myself every day.

This is not only because I have plenty of time, but also because I have enrolled in a senior citizens' university, so I can learn a lot.

Just think about making good use of the rest of your life, so that you can prepare for any accidents that might happen again.

Who can guarantee that there won't be any accidents? My wife said something unpleasant when she saw that I was studying very hard.

"Do you really take attending the senior citizen university seriously?"

"If you don't take it seriously, can it be fake?

Besides, the children have already paid our tuition fees, so do we just have to come here and waste our time every day?

Don’t you see how many people are just here to waste their time?

If you want to talk about fooling around, why not fool around at home?

Why do you have to hang out in school?

You are not a child, so why should you be as ignorant as a child? "

"There's no need to push yourself so hard, right?

Look at the people around you. They all study when they should study and play when they should play. Why can't you be like them?"

"What do you know?

Just talking nonsense here?"

"If you don't tell me, how would I know?"

"If I don't tell you, don't you know?"

"I……"

"Forget it. I don't want to waste your time talking nonsense. I'll just tell you one thing: don't let the tuition fees your child paid go to waste."

"How could that be? I didn't."

"If you don't have it, then study hard."

"Oh!"

In this way, after learning one thing, I learned another, and I didn't need the children to help pay the tuition. When the time came, I had enough money and it was convenient for me to learn whatever I wanted, so I just paid the tuition.

Another thing is that there are people of the same age around you, and you can chat with them in your spare time or participate in other activities together.

Some even organize everyone to travel together, and some even act as matchmakers for children of acquaintances.

You know what, is there anyone who can really make this happen?

It can be said that the senior citizens' university is no quieter than at other times, or perhaps because you don't like the hustle and bustle, there are also quiet places.

As long as you like it, they can basically satisfy you. This is why when children are complaining, they are reluctant to say anything more.

Such days are really quite fulfilling and are the life we ​​long for.

It’s just that sometimes when you think your life is going quite peacefully, something else happens to disrupt your life.

One day, when I just got home from get out of class, I saw my third child rushing back and saying to me.

"Mom, I just received a call. My uncle said that my seventh aunt, Gu Jialan, is dying.

My uncle wants me to ask you if you want to go back and see him?"

"is it?"

"Mom, how could I possibly lie to you about this, you see?"

"What are you looking at?

Although she and I are both sisters from the Gu family, after all, we have the same father, not the same mother.

Even though your grandmother passed away for so many years, I will never forget the day when she had the accident.

You have to know that if nothing had happened to your grandmother, I would not only have a mother who loved me, but I would also have a brother in this world.

But because of her, I have nothing!

Even after your grandmother passed away, you received love from many people, but let me tell you the truth, it’s not the same, do you know?”