Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

Our children are all filial, and I am afraid that when they hear that we want to live in a nursing home, what will they do? "

"Don't mention it, this is really a big deal."

“So, let’s wait until the Chinese New Year when the children come back to ask about this. If they don’t want to, then we can talk to them about the property distribution in advance.

As I said, it's up to us to decide when to give it to you. What do you think?"

"Why do I need to say more?

That's what I mean, even though our children don't care, we can't give it to them in advance.

It’s not that I’m afraid that they won’t be filial to us after they get the money, but by putting it in our hands, we can at least feel confident.

After all, we have already retired, and it is more reassuring to keep the little money in our own hands."

“Isn’t that the truth?

But then again, when people reach a certain age, sometimes their memory is not as good as it used to be.

Sometimes just talking may not work, and we don't want three children, because with the little things we have, it will be too embarrassing in the end, do you think we should go for notarization?"

“That’s right. Even though our children won’t cause trouble in this regard, the things we have are not a small number after all.

Although it can't be compared with those rich people, it is not a small amount in the eyes of ordinary people.

I think we really need to find someone to notarize it, so that the children can avoid conflicts if the things we have are not divided equally.

Although this situation is unlikely to happen, to be honest, no one can predict it, so it is better to make plans in advance to avoid the possibility of it happening in a few years when we are old and confused.

They are busy with other things and see the good stuff we have. What if they make a fuss too much?"

"That's exactly what I mean. But then again, let's not let the children know about this. Let's consult with someone privately and hear what the professionals say.

We will discuss it carefully later and come up with the most fair plan. After all, we only have three children, and it is better to divide the things we have equally. What do you think?"

"That's true. Not only will our three children have a share, but the younger generations, like grandchildren, even the great-grandchildren must have one too. They are old now, so it would be nice to give them one separately as a keepsake.

As for the daughter-in-law and son-in-law, what do you think about this matter?"

“How do you say this?

Logically speaking, if we give it to our children, they should also have a share, but after all, it is still not the same, so I think we might as well give them a separate share as well!"

"No, aren't you afraid that one day they will ..."

"Tsk, at my age, why would I care whether they get divorced or not?

So what if we get divorced?

Over the years, their significant others have also been very filial to us!

Then we are no worse than our biological parents. Even if that day really comes in the future, after so many years of living together, they will be no different from our own children.

Among the children in our family, only the eldest son's wife's family is pretty good. As for the other two, each family has their own things to do.

When that time really comes, we will give them some confidence and they won't have it too difficult in the future.

What's more, they are all of the same age. If there really is something, giving it to them wouldn't be giving it to the younger generation as well, right?

In their eyes, are outsiders less important than their own children? "

"Yes, then do you want to explain it separately when the time comes?"

"It doesn't matter whether you say it or not, their relationship is very good, there's no need to separate them so clearly.

It is not a good thing to be too clear about the differences. It is better to keep it like this."

"That's right, so they don't have to worry about us when they get confused."

"Really? Then we'll find someone to notarize it later."

"it is good."

Not long after, he notarized all his property without telling his children, and waited until the day he passed away to give all the things under his name to his children.

In fact, with the abilities of their children, they really have no shortage of money to spend.

But no matter what, leaving them something is better than nothing.

Even though the eldest brother is in the army, he doesn't earn as much as his younger brothers and sisters.

But to be honest, in the first few years, I didn't get much dividend from investing.

Moreover, over the years, I used the dividends to buy houses and shops, and now I have saved a considerable sum of money just from the income from renting out the houses.

Not to mention, their family of three, apart from the expenses for the child, basically eat and live at the company.

Even if even the underwear is provided by the company, it doesn't cost much throughout the year.

Unlike the second and third sons, even if they earn a lot, that is only relative. Compared with those who earn a lot of money, that is nothing?

In addition, prices in Beijing are already high, and it is difficult to save much money throughout the year.

Otherwise, if they both had good vision and started investing early to earn some dividends, it would be impossible for them to live a comfortable life in Beijing, let alone.

As for my wife and I, we are able to live a relatively comfortable life because of the decision we made when we first moved back to Beijing. Otherwise, we wouldn't be like this now.

Even though there is a pension every month, in the final analysis, the pension added up for that little length of service is just that, not worth mentioning.

The retirement salary is far from that of other people of the same age, but fortunately I made the right decision.

But even so, in the eyes of some people, my life is the most enviable.

Yes, compared to those country people, we do live a good life.

Compared with those rich people, we really can't compare, but fortunately we can still make a living, otherwise I wouldn't dare to say that.

The only thing to be thankful for is that even though I am getting older, my health is still pretty good in the eyes of my peers.

There were no minor illnesses or major disasters, the only problem was my spouse's leg.

Ugh!

There is nothing that can be done about it. The injury he got during the war is different from other injuries.

Another thing is that he suffered a lot on the battlefield and his stomach is not in good health.

Fortunately, life is pretty good now, and I can cook some nourishing soup for him from time to time.

It's okay to drink this once in a while, but it's really not good if you drink it every day.

Every time the children cooked soup and brought it to me, I would hear him talking about it.

“I’m not like a lesbian lying there in confinement, there’s no need to make soup for me.

If you have the time, you should just make your own soup and stop sending it here. If someone doesn't know, they'd think something is wrong with me."