Reborn in 1940 and survived until the new century

“You are really amazing, but the content of this crash course is simpler than what you learn in school.

But even so, most people don't have that awareness, but since you've already signed up, I hope you can stick to it, right?"

"Don't worry, I will definitely hold on to the end."

"That's good. I don't have that kind of perseverance. It's a blessing that I can finish elementary school!"

"this?"

"nothing?

Even though I have many brothers and sisters, I am the only one who has no talent for studying. If I hadn’t been born in a good time and had a job in a factory, I would have been married and had children by now, right? "

"what?"

"Don't you?

If there weren't the current regulations that prohibit people from getting married under the age of 18, wouldn't people get married early?

Don’t you know?”

"I know, but I didn't expect you to say that?"

"What's there to not say?

Xiaohui and I are one year older than you. As early as last year, our families arranged for us to visit her!"

"this?

Didn’t you just say you have to be at least 18 years old?

Why do you want to watch it so early?"

"Don't you have to want to see it early?

Otherwise, what if you rush to find someone you are not satisfied with or whose conditions are not good?

Fortunately, my parents are relatively open-minded. For some families, their daughters’ marriage is entirely decided by their parents, and they don’t have the right to take full responsibility at all.”

"Hasn't this been advocating freedom of marriage for a long time?"

"Thinking of what?

Only educated parents or those who value their children would do this!

If a person doesn't take his daughter seriously, how can he possibly think more about his daughter?"

"Yes, but even so, you can't get married until you are 18 years old!"

"Otherwise, how can we say that we have arrived at a good time!

But even so, if you don't get married quickly after you turn 18, the spit of your neighbors will drown you!"

"what?"

"Don't you?

I tell you, this is not the end of the story. If you don't get married after you turn 20, you will not only become an old maid.

The neighbors will say even worse things. There is such a person near our home. Fortunately, the other party’s parents saw that something was wrong and forced their daughter to get married. Otherwise, someone might have died. "

"Then, is there no one in charge?"

"Tube?

How to manage?

Whether someone has mentioned you by name or not, it is just idle chat. You are just being selfish and like to take it personally. Who can you blame?"

"But?"

"Nothing but?

Even if there is something, is there nothing we can do about this matter?

Unless the day comes when our country's laws are sound and the people's mindsets are completely changed, this kind of thing is inevitable!"

"Think about it carefully, what you said does make sense!"

“That’s right, but you’re not too young anymore, so you should make plans early!

Just because you are alone now, you can't think that I don't matter?"

"this?"

“But you don’t need to worry. When Xiaohui has resolved the major issues in her life, she will help you solve them.

Even if we can't do it, after all, don't we still have parents and brothers and sisters-in-law at home?

I think they should be willing to do this? "

"what?"

"Ah for what?

I tell you, marriage cannot be delayed for too long, otherwise not only will your parents be dissatisfied, but your brother and sister-in-law will also be dissatisfied?"

"this?

So what kind of in-laws do you plan to find?"

“Is this why I’m worried?

Isn’t this still undecided?”

"What about Comrade Li?"

"Her?

There's really no need to worry too much. The person her family introduced to her is relatively good. I think it will be soon!"

"how about you?"

“I don’t know, I haven’t thought about it yet.

By the way, don’t just blame me, don’t you have any reaction yourself?

"Since you came to the wool textile factory, both gay men and lesbians have been coming close to you. You know this, don't you?"

“To be honest, I know that some people often pass by me or talk to me about some seemingly irrelevant topics.

I really didn’t think about this at first, but I have recently figured it out!”

"Then what do you think?"

“What do you think?

What else can I think? I am not even 17 years old yet, so there is no need for me to worry too much about my personal problems.

Even if there really comes a day when I need to worry, it is not something I can decide on my own!"

"No, what do you mean?

Aren’t you alone?”

"yes!

It’s true that I’m alone, but didn’t I tell you before that I lived in the South Gate Orphanage for a few years? "

"Do I know this?

No, did you tell me that?

But what does this have to do with your future partner? "

“Maybe it doesn’t matter to others?

But for me, not only do I have connections, but the other party who wants to date me has to pass the inspection of the elders in the orphanage. Otherwise, it wouldn't be that easy for anyone to marry me. "

"this?"

"Do you find it a little unbelievable?"

"There are indeed some, but if you think about it carefully, you can understand. Although they are not your relatives, they are better than your relatives. They are not very curious about your marriage!"

"That's just how you feel. If someone else were to think about it, they might not think the same way."

“What do you care what they do?

Isn't it nice to have someone care about you?

And when you get married, your in-laws won’t dare to bully you just because you don’t have parents?

On the contrary, if they really want to do something to you, they should think carefully before doing it, right? "

“You know what, if you think about it carefully, it’s really a good thing.

Even though I have left the orphanage now, I still regard the elders there as my own family.

If I really want to get married one day in the future, I have to treat those elders as my own family. If the other party disagrees in the future, I would rather not marry at all. "

"I didn't expect you to say that. It seems like they are really important to you?"

“Yes, they are indeed important to me!

If it weren’t for them, I wouldn’t know whether I would be dead or alive now, let alone have the opportunity to be recommended to go to school and have such a good job today.

I have no other way to repay them, I can only treat them as my own family!"

"Yes, since they are good to you, you should really treat them with empathy. Otherwise, what does it have to do with being an ungrateful person?"

"Indeed it is!"