Rebirth: From being expelled from the imperial court to becoming a high-ranking official
Chapter 194 It is too difficult for women to establish themselves
"Awen, Ruyi, let's eat."
Qin Yunhe was thinking about how to tell his daughter when Yuru came in and called the father and daughter to eat.
"Okay, Ruyi, let's go eat first." Qin Yunhe took his daughter to eat with a heavy heart.
At night, Chi'er took Ruyi back to her room to sleep, and Qin Yunhe also went back to her room with Yuru.
It was nearly June and the weather was getting hotter and hotter. Yu Ru was even more afraid of the heat as she was pregnant. Qin Yunhe helped her onto the bed and took a fan from the side to fan them both.
And talked about this conversation with his daughter.
"...She is used to running around and playing with Shi'er and An'er at home, so she must find it boring here. We should have let Yu'er take her there. She wouldn't have felt constrained so early..."
Yu Ru comforted her, "Don't think too much. Ruyi is just a little kid, how could she know what restraint is? She probably just complained because she felt sorry that she couldn't go with Yu Ge'er at that time."
"It's definitely more than just a pity. Ruyi is older now and has her own ideas. Yuger said that, and I stopped her from going out to play twice, so she must have known something."
Yu Ru was silent for a moment before she said, "Girls...have a lot of rules to begin with, so it's not a bad thing to understand them earlier..."
They are not the same as they were before. If my daughter wants to marry someone in the future, it will probably not be a farming family, so her words and actions will always be restricted.
It’s not a bad thing to adapt early.
"But I don't want her to be restricted at such a young age. In fact, I have also thought about what Yu Ge'er said. Why not let her play to her heart's content while she is still young?"
Qin Yunhe actually had many contradictions in his heart.
He knew that those rules would be imposed on his daughter sooner or later, and it was not a bad thing to know it earlier. But he did not want his daughter to be boxed in so early and not have freedom.
Since he was reborn, he only hopes that his daughter will be safe and happy.
But if I really let her go completely, it doesn't seem to be entirely for her good...
Alas, my daughter is only six or seven years old. Am I thinking too far ahead?
“Yuru, have you ever thought about what your daughter will look like when she grows up?”
"I have thought about it." Yu Ru casually took the round fan on the other side and fanned it gently: "I thought about it before, I don't expect my daughter to marry into a high-class family in the future, a well-off one will be enough.
It would be best if you could have some academic title, even if it's just a scholar. Then when your daughter gets married in the future, her in-laws will probably be afraid of her and won't dare to bully her.
If he could pass the imperial examination, or even be elected as a teacher or county magistrate, that would be even better, and would be a great support for my daughter..."
Qin Yunhe's heart tightened, and he asked, "Why haven't I heard you say this before?"
Yu Ru patted him lightly with her fan and glared at him: "Why didn't you tell me? It's just that you didn't take it seriously."
So much time has passed from the last life to this life that he can't remember exactly what Yu Ru said at that time.
However, based on his understanding of Yu Ru, Yu Ru was very dependent on him at that time. If she had thought about it in her heart, she should have told him.
Qin Yunhe felt mixed emotions.
He never thought that Yu Ru hoped that he would pass the imperial examination for the sake of her daughter.
Yuru felt that now that she had achieved fame and success, she should be able to support her daughter better. Could it be... could it be that she was thinking these things because she felt wronged because of the criticism she received from her mother?
Yu Ru must be feeling aggrieved.
After all, when Yu Ru was a child, her mother loved her very much and always praised her for her good looks and good temper.
But after getting married, he became a different person. How could Yu Ru not feel aggrieved?
"Yuru, you...you have been wronged in those years. In fact, mother is just sharp-tongued, don't blame her..."
"Mom is my elder, I dare not blame her, I just..."
Yu Ru didn't say anything else. Qin Yunhe thought, maybe she just couldn't figure it out.
After such a long time, Yu Ru didn't want to bring up the past again, and continued with what she had said before: "Then I thought, if it really doesn't work out, it would be good to save more dowry for my daughter. With a dowry, I will have confidence..."
Qin Yunhe recalled that Yuru was so busy weaving day and night. He didn't want her to weave at that time, as it was tiring and she didn't make much money.
So this is what Yu Ru thought at that time.
Later they quarreled and divorced. Yu Ru went back to her parents' home but did not even take the cloth with her. She had never thought of leaving.
Why didn't he understand?
He was... such a jerk...
"Yuru, you actually thought so much?"
I never told him.
Maybe Yu Ru did say that at the time, but he didn't take it to heart.
As for reconciliation...
After reconciliation they seemed to be better than before, but in fact they became more cautious.
In the past, Yuru would occasionally complain to him. They had been together since childhood, and Yuru was used to telling him everything that was on her mind.
But after coming back, Yu Ru rarely complained and became more gentle and considerate than before.
As for him, he did not dare to miss any of Yu Ru's words, for fear of failing to understand her thoughts.
They all look much more stable than before.
"Yuru..."
Qin Yunhe thought for a long time, wanting to say something, but in the end he just pulled her closer and asked, "What else have you thought about?"
Yu Ru leaned on him and continued softly, "I was just daydreaming. In the past, my mother always said that I wanted a younger brother for Ruyi, but I was always afraid that if I had a younger brother, I would ignore Ruyi and I didn't really want one.
But later you passed the imperial examination and became an official. I also thought that Ruyi would not look for a husband in the village in the future. But there are many rules in a wealthy family, and there are no brothers in her family. What should Ruyi do if she is wronged? So this time when I got pregnant, I thought, if it was a brother, it would not be bad.
Over the past two years, I have seen my daughter become more and more independent, and after hearing what happened today, I feel more relieved. "
Qin Yunhe was puzzled: "Why?"
"Because I found that my daughter is better than me. She has her own ideas and thoughts, and she is also generous..."
Qin Yunhe really wanted to tell his wife that you are also very strong.
In the previous life, Jin Biao killed Yu Ru because she was insane and wanted to murder her husband. Jin Biao had no choice but to fight back and kill her.
Yuru had planned so much for her daughter, but she didn't expect that in the blink of an eye, her daughter was secretly sold by Jinbiao. How could Yuru not go crazy when she knew about it? How could she not fight him to the death?
She must have thought of many ways, cried, begged, and complained, but nothing worked, so she went crazy.
Qin Yunhe fanned his wife: "I always felt that our daughter was still young and never thought so far ahead. How could you think so far ahead?"
Yu Ru leaned on Qin Yun He, and was speechless for a long while before she finally said, "How can I not think about it..."
Dongyue was unmarried and her husband's family had a funeral, so she broke off the engagement and was criticized by others; Yunniang had a skill but couldn't make a living on her own, and was even despised by her unmotivated husband and in-laws; Tan came from a scholarly family and was well-read, but she could only hope that her husband would be more motivated...
If they were men, why would they be like this?
It is so difficult for women to establish themselves.
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