"Didn't you say you were going to enjoy the flowers? Why are you back so soon?"

Mrs. Xin looked at her daughter and asked, "Is the view not good?"

Xin An walked forward with a smile, "I'm thinking about the termite nest in the house. I want to see how powerful the termites are to build a nest in my house."

Madam Xin put down the book in her hand and nodded seriously, "The house is too big and the termites are cunning, I didn't even notice it before."

Facing Xin An's disapproving gaze, Madam Xin took her hand and sat down, "Huaijiang is not like the capital. The capital is the emperor's feet after all. Many things cannot be done too much. We have to consider our reputation. Look at Huaijiang, which family has a banquet without beauties accompanying them."

"If your brother hadn't been watching, there would be so many people who would want to send their beauties to my son-in-law. Our Xin family got a good son-in-law, and the Huang and Han families must be extremely envious. Don't they have such thoughts?"

"Putting all this aside, it's not appropriate for a young couple to live apart for a long time. If they do, problems will arise. Mom is an experienced person, how can she harm you?"

"At such a young age, we are living like an old married couple without any desires. How can we live like this?"

In Madam Xin's eyes, the relationship between husband and wife needs to be carefully maintained, unless there are interests involved in the relationship, otherwise sometimes even some tricks are needed. "I know that my son-in-law treats you well, but you can't take it lightly. It is common for ordinary families to have three wives and four concubines, let alone a marquis's mansion?"

"Doesn't your father-in-law have several concubines?"

"Even Tang Rong has three concubines after only one year of marriage. Although my son-in-law has not had such thoughts so far, there is no guarantee that he will not have such thoughts in the future. The world is like this. If he really has such thoughts, what can you do?"

"You should be more careful here. Don't be too bold or too strong. Life between husband and wife is not about the east wind overwhelming the west wind. It's not shameful to show weakness occasionally and to retreat in order to advance..."

In the past, the couple lived far away in the capital and Mrs. Xin could not see how they got along. This time when she came back, she observed them silently for a few days and found that her daughter still had the upper hand and her son-in-law was considerate and thoughtful in every way. Although it was a good thing, she also found some problems.

Especially with Wang, the mother-in-law, still around, every mother-in-law hopes that her daughter-in-law is docile and kind to her son, and cannot bear to see her daughter-in-law bullying her way in front of her son. "Your mother-in-law is treating you well now, so you should seize the opportunity and be more considerate to your husband in front of her."

"Why would someone treat you well? Isn't it just because they expect you to treat their son well? You have to make her feel that being nice to you is worth it."

"You should learn from your father in this regard. Although he may seem to be at a disadvantage, he actually gets a lot of benefits. People are willing to associate with him. Remember, make the other party feel that they have taken advantage of you and that they are superior to you. Only then can you gain the greatest benefit. Don't stand out or show off when you are not capable enough."

Mrs. Xin's words were sincere and Xin An took them to heart. It must be said that she seemed to always be in a higher position in the relationship between husband and wife, and occasionally treated Tang Mo as a subordinate. She should indeed change this.

"I got it."

Madam Xin nodded in satisfaction. "Mother knows that you are someone who can listen to advice. Some of the things I say may not sound good, but we women are already weak. If we want to live a good life, we have to put in more effort."

Xin An smiled and said, "Mom is right. I may not listen to others, but I can listen to what mom says. Who told dad to spend the whole day wandering around in the flowers without getting a single leaf on him? Mom is the only one at home."

As a big salt merchant, many people gave beautiful women to him, but her father was able to remain rational. Not only did he know the importance of the matter, but her mother also played a role in it.

He stood up while talking and laughing, "Do you need my help with your little brother's marriage?"

"No need. As a sister, your role is to watch the ceremony. Tomorrow we will hang red silk, and the day after tomorrow the Zhou family will come to display the dowry. In a few days, mother will also have a daughter-in-law."

Having a baby is indeed a happy thing. Madam Xin also told Xin An to take care of herself when she returns to the capital, and try to have a child next year. "Having a child will create a bond between husband and wife, and you will have a continuation of life, and you will find life very interesting."

Xin An suddenly asked, "Mom, if Tang Mo betrays me and I can't turn the tide even after using all my tricks, what should I do?"

This was a problem that had troubled her in her previous life, and she had never found a solution in this life.

Mrs. Xin pulled her to sit down again and talked to her about the differences between men and women. "Men and women in this world are different. Men are born with a lot. Even in the poorest families, men have the right to control a woman's life. Women are born to suffer a lot of injustice."

"Many women do not have a good life in their parents' home, and are not respected by their husband's family. There are many reasons for this, but the most important one is the woman herself."

"Do you know the difference between a woman's love for one person and a man's love for two people?"

Xin An shook his head, and Madam Xin sighed, "It's also your fault that mother didn't explain it to you thoroughly before you got married."

"Once a woman is in love, she will give everything to the man without reservation, mixing everything up, weaving all her emotions together, becoming anxious, suspicious, and reckless, weaving a cage for herself and tormenting herself."

"Men are different in that they can tell the difference. They are clear-headed. They like you in love, but that doesn't stop them from using you to achieve their own goals, nor does it stop them from using you as a stepping stone to climb up and eventually kick you away. You have to remember that in the hearts of most men, profit is far more important than love."

"Living together as a couple is also a game. Whoever gives all his love first loses. You can't give him the chance to betray you. Even if he does, what you should do is not to make a scene, but to take back everything you have given, minimize your losses and protect yourself."

"You still have to believe that your parents only have you and your brother as their children, and they will never watch either of you being bullied. You have your mother's family!"

Xin An's nose felt sore, and she thought of the help her parents had given her in her previous life. She smiled and leaned her head on her mother's shoulder. "They say a daughter who is married is like spilled water. What mother said really touched my heart."

I didn't know her mother understood men so well.

She didn't understand, so she failed miserably in her previous life.

In this life, she vaguely understood it, but had not yet fully comprehended it.

"Sister, why are you here? Brother-in-law has been looking for you everywhere."

Xin Huan came back in big strides and was very surprised to see the mother and daughter. "What's going on? Why are they still hugging each other?"

Xin An looked at him with a smile, "Mom was lamenting that she was going to be a mother-in-law, and said that you grew up in the blink of an eye."

Xin Huan didn't doubt it at all, and approached with a smile, "Mom, after I get married, there will be one more person to take care of you, you should be happy."

"When my father and I go out to do something, there will be someone at home to talk to you. When we go shopping, there will be someone to accompany us. We even have someone to watch a play with."

Xin Huan really likes the girl from the Zhou family. In the past two days, he has heard from his friends about many troubles after marriage, especially the fights between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. He feels scared when he hears them.

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