Siheyuan: Get the system at the beginning

"Girl, if you don't like it, don't drink it. Just ask your aunt to make you another cup."

How could the old lady not know what Zhang Xiaoyan meant? The little girl was doing this for her own good and was being nice to her in every way she could. Naturally, she was happier and more obediently drank the cup of malted milk.

"Where did you put sugar in this, girl? You are really clever. How is work going recently? Is anyone bullying you? If someone bullies you, go find your uncle and let your uncle deal with them."

"Don't worry, the workers are pretty good, no one bullies me."

"That's good, that's good. By the way, are you dating someone now? Can grandma introduce you to someone?"

Zhang Xiaoyan felt overwhelmed when she heard this. Why do people in this place like to introduce other people to partners so much? After the last incident was resolved, the aunties and grandmas in the factory did not surround her, saying that they would introduce her to a partner or something like that.

But Aunt Wang and Aunt Zhao from the street office had just said this, and she had just fooled them away, but the old lady came back and brought up the topic again.

Zhao Yufen was listening with great delight, and her eyes said: Little girl, let's see how you can hide now.

"Grandma, I'm still young and don't want to think about that. What's the point of finding a partner? Wouldn't it be uncomfortable for me to live alone?

You can spend your own salary however you want. You can eat whatever you want and buy whatever beautiful clothes you want.

Look, if I get married, let’s not talk about the other party’s family conditions?

I think I won’t be as free as I am now in terms of spending money. I will spend my own money, but after I get married, my mother-in-law might say that I am wasting money. She might even say that I am extravagant and want to cheat her son of money. How can I live like that? So I think I am most free now.”

After all, the old lady belongs to the older generation and has old ideas. Although she thinks what Zhang Xiaoyan said makes sense, she always feels that something is wrong.

"But what will you do when you get old if you don't get married? No children? Besides, you can discuss it! I'll find you a family with good financial conditions and no mother-in-law. Then no one will say you spend money recklessly, right?"

The old lady asked with some reluctance,

"Oh my god! Even if it's like this, I won't do it. I worked so hard to get pregnant and give birth to a child, but I want him to give someone else's surname. Isn't this a loss-making deal?

I am such a smart person that I will not do a business that will make me lose money. Besides, isn't there a saying that only those without children can enjoy happiness? If I have no children in the future, I will enjoy the most happiness.

You see, from the time the child is conceived to the time he is born, I have to worry about whether he will be missing arms or legs or disabled.

Even if I give birth to a healthy baby, I still have to worry about what he eats and what he wears. When he grows up, I still have to worry about his studies and whether he will be bullied.

When he grows up, I still have to worry about his marriage and work. What do you think I am doing with my life? Why am I so depressed?

So I'd better not get married. Just thinking about it makes me cry!"

Zhang Xiaoyan and the old lady were sitting next to each other and talking happily. She completely forgot about Zhao Yufen who had just been diagnosed with pregnancy and was still reveling in the happy news.

Fortunately, Zhao Yufen was firm in her thinking. Even though Zhang Xiaoyan's words made sense, she was not led astray by Zhang Xiaoyan's ideas.

On the contrary, I don't understand why Zhang Xiaoyan thinks this way. Isn't it good to have a soft child? Isn't it happy to have a home that can shelter you from the wind and rain? Isn't it happy to have a husband who understands your feelings?

Although Zhao Yufen had many questions, she did not speak them out. After all, she knew that everyone has different thoughts and she could not impose her own aspirations for life on everyone.

"You girl, okay, okay, I'll let you play for a few more years."

The old lady just thought that Zhang Xiaoyan was still young and couldn't control her thoughts, so she thought that after two years, when the child grew up, she would naturally think about starting a family.

After chatting for a while, Zhang Xiaoyan, as usual, checked everyone's pulse after dinner, left some prescriptions for conditioning, and went back with the local specialties given by the old lady. Of course, they would take the car back, and as for the bicycles, they could just walk to the factory tomorrow.

After Li Huaide and the others left, he turned around and looked at his mother and said speechlessly:

"Mom, didn't I tell you? This girl doesn't want to get married. You didn't know before that there were so many people in the factory who wanted to introduce her to a date. She came to my office specifically to ask me to solve this problem. Otherwise, I don't think I would have this fate."

"Why is she so resistant to marriage? Is there something going on?"

The old lady didn't understand and even wondered in her heart if the child had encountered something bad and was hurt. If so, should she let her son catch the person and kill him?

"What are you thinking? She simply doesn't want to get married. She thinks it's a hassle. Plus, she's obsessed with medicine. After getting married, there are so many things to do at home, such as socializing, having children, and a lot of things to do at her in-laws' house. How can she have the energy to study her medicine?"

Li Huaide is quite clear-headed and naturally thinks a lot. In addition, with this relationship, to put it bluntly, they are the ones who are asking for it. If they talk too much and annoy others, what will they do if the relationship becomes distant?

The old lady didn't say anything. She meant well, but was also afraid that her good intentions might lead to bad consequences.

"Well, maybe Yan Zi's fate hasn't come yet. Who knows what will happen in the future? Maybe she won't need anyone to introduce her to someone. She will find someone on her own. You don't have to worry too much. Yan Zi is a sensible and capable person. It's not good for us to say too much."

Zhao Yufen was naturally an understanding person, but her family members all meant well, so she just gave a few words of advice and then changed the subject.

*******

Zhang Xiaoyan took the car back to the gate of the courtyard, got out and walked into the yard carrying her things.

Zhang Xiaoyan came home every now and then carrying large and small bags of things. The third uncle was used to it and didn't think of taking advantage of her every time. He would just close the door and go back to rest.

Zhang Xiaoyan had just returned home and was about to take out a book she had borrowed from the library to read when she heard a knock on the door.

"Auntie, it's so late, is there something wrong?"

Zhang Xiaoyan never expected that an old lady would come to visit her at this time. It was now past eight o'clock in the evening. If it were in her previous life, it would be a good time to visit the night market with all the lights and wine, but in this era, people who had nothing to do would have already gone to bed at this time.

The auntie's name is Zhou Xiaolian. Ever since Yi Zhonghai became the uncle in the courtyard, everyone has called her auntie.