Siheyuan: How the Little People Live

The third uncle Yan Bugui stayed there thinking about what Ye Wenwu had just said.

As a Chinese teacher at Hongxing Primary School, how could he not know the meaning of the last two sentences Ye Wenwu uttered.

Don't persuade others to be kind to others without suffering.

This sentence means that if you have not experienced difficulties and setbacks yourself, you should not rashly persuade others to do good deeds or do something that seems easy. This sentence is often used to warn people to be self-aware and not to give advice to others lightly, otherwise it may cause more trouble and pain to others. Because some things may seem simple, but in fact they may require a huge price to complete.

“Don’t advise others to do good unless you have experienced their suffering” gives people a humble and practical attitude. When dealing with people, they should respect others, interact with others sincerely, not easily offend others with their own opinions, and be a compassionate and tolerant person.

Do unto others, do not impose on others.

What you want others to do to you, do not impose on others means: Even if it is something you want or something you want to do, you cannot impose it on others. This sentence tells people that no matter whether it is "what you want" or not, you cannot "impose" it on others. There is only one standard for giving things to others, that is, the willingness of others. It depends on whether others are willing to do it, and we cannot impose it on others based on our standards.

The saying "Do not impose on others what you would have them do to you" comes from the second chapter of "The Analects of Confucius - Yan Yuan", which corresponds to "Do not impose on others what you do not want others do to you".

The third uncle Yan Bugui sighed, thinking of Yi Zhonghai's salary, Liu Haizhong's salary, and their usual hospital-wide meetings. The Jia family donated the most.

But the Jia family’s fake things are all over the hospital, and their monthly salary is more than 30 yuan.

But there are still a few of their families who are not from the Red Star Steel Mill. Even if they don’t have a proper job, they can only go out to carry heavy bags. The money they earn in a month is sometimes not enough to cover the family expenses.

Are we really wrong?

For the first time, the third uncle Yan Bugui began to doubt their behavior.

"Old Yan, what are you doing here?"

Suddenly, a shout from afar startled the third uncle Yan Bugui, who was thinking about his life.

The third uncle Yan Buguigui looked over from a distance and found that it was Sha Zhu and Yi Zhonghai who went to Nanluoguxiang Police Station to cooperate with the investigation.

"Old Yi Shazhu, why are you back? Why didn't the Jia family come back?"

Seeing that they returned safely, the third uncle Yan Bugui felt a little happy.

After hearing what the third uncle Yan Buguigui said, he was already in a low mood and became even more unhappy in the past two years.

"Xiao Yan, this matter has become complicated now. Although we finally signed the letter of understanding and confirmation, Bang Geng was still sent to a juvenile detention center for a month."

Hearing this, the third uncle Yan Bugui was a little confused.

In this era, as long as you have the slightest connection with prisons, juvenile detention centers, and then a serious job, it's gone for you anyway.

"How could this happen? What about Jia Zhang and her mother-in-law?"

"Alas, the public security comrades have determined that Jia Zhang and Qin Huai were attacking police officers, and now the case has been reported to the higher authorities. They will face imprisonment for at least 8 to 10 months while waiting for the approval from the higher authorities."

The first uncle Yi Zhonghai sighed and explained the situation in detail to the third uncle Yan Bugui.

After all, such a big thing cannot be concealed, and Old Yan happens to be here too, so one more person means more strength.

"Alas, this whole thing happened. I guess the problem is that Bang Geng saw you, Lao Yi, taking out the money last night."

Yan Bugui got drunk early last night. When he woke up in the morning, he heard the third aunt telling him what happened last night.

He was still wondering at that time, but he had to go to work in the morning and didn't care about these things. In the evening, he didn't expect that the matter would become so serious.

Uncle Yi Zhonghai's face changed. He remembered that he had taken 400 yuan to compensate the Jia family last night and had not told Sha Zhu about this yet.

Although Sha Zhu knew that the 400 yuan was taken away by an old man named Yi Zhonghai, he believed Yi Zhonghai quite a lot. I haven't asked him what the 400 yuan was used for yet.

"Silly Zhu, if you really want to save your sister Qin and Jia Zhang, you may have to ask the deaf old lady to come forward, what do you think?"

Uncle Yi Zhonghai thought about it and decided to find the deaf old lady.

He knew that the deaf old lady particularly liked Sha Zhu. If it was Sha Zhu who begged for help, the deaf old lady might still have a hope of getting out. But if it was Yi Zhonghai who begged, the deaf old lady would really become deaf by then.

The look in the third uncle Yan Bugui's eyes changed when he looked at Yi Zhonghai. He also knew the background behind the deaf old lady, but sometimes favors are of little use.

It had been used once before, when the entire compound was taken to the police station.

And the bad things that Sha Zhu did in the factory were also done by the old lady herself.

This happens over and over again, and it won't happen more than a fourth time.

This will be my last favor.

And some things are obviously very easy to handle, just like this time, with Yi Zhonghai's status, he could ask the factory director to find out who the director of the Nanluoguxiang Police Station is and have one more dinner with him.

Moreover, with Yi Zhonghai's financial resources, it would be easy to get things done if he just gave a little bit of his hands.

But Yi Zhonghai didn't say any of these, instead he used his last golden medal of immunity from death.

After all, as I just said, we have to wait for approval from above.

The operability here should not be too great.

As for why Yan Bugui in the original novel did not find a legitimate factory job for himself but Yan Jiecheng.

Having money is useless for this thing, you also need connections and relationships.

But Yan Bugui had none of these. The main reason was that he was still worried, and he was used to being stingy.

Later, when his eldest son Yan Jiecheng wanted to open a store, did he also take out 2000 yuan without hesitation?

"Old Yi..."

The third uncle Yan Bugui opened his mouth but still couldn't express what he was thinking.

"Old Yan, what's wrong?"

Yi Zhonghai was somewhat surprised by Yan Bugui's performance today.

The third uncle Yan Bugui shook his head.

Since the seeds of doubt have been planted, sooner or later they will grow into big ones.

"Then you guys go find the old lady. I have to go to work tomorrow, so I'm going back to rest first."

Yan Buguigui really didn't want to get involved in this matter. He always suspected that Yi Zhonghai had other plans, but he couldn't put his finger on this feeling.

Yi Zhonghai nodded. He actually hoped that Yan Bugui would not go so that he could fool Sha Zhu better.