Rebirth of Love: Jiang Ciyou's Counterattack Legend

As the baby grows day by day, like a young seedling breaking through the soil in spring, full of vitality and vigor, Jiang Ciyou and Lu Jingchen are delighted, but also gradually realize that the issue of education is like a new field that needs to be explored, quietly lying before them.

Jiang Ciyou, a woman who once overcame all difficulties in the workplace and achieved a gorgeous comeback after going through hardships, always maintains a gentle and firm heart in educating her baby. She firmly believes that a child's childhood should be like an endless blue sky, allowing the wings of imagination to fly freely; it should also be like a vast grassland, giving creativity space to run wild. In her opinion, putting rigid rules and shackles on children too early is undoubtedly damaging the innate spiritual light.

Every afternoon when the sun shines on the courtyard, Jiang Ciyou always takes the baby to sit on the soft lawn, surrounded by colorful flowers blooming. The breeze blows gently, and the petals flutter down like snow, like a dreamy flower rain. The baby stares with big round eyes, curiously looking at this wonderful world, and his little hands reach out from time to time, trying to catch the fluttering petals. Jiang Ciyou is on the side, whispering to the baby one by one full of fantasy stories, from the talking little animals living in the distant mysterious forest to the countless planets hidden in the vast universe. Each story is like a magical key, opening the door to the baby's yearning for the unknown world. She looked at the baby's attentively listening, her eyes full of expectations, and whispered softly: "Baby, you must always maintain this curiosity about the world, boldly imagine, and create your own beauty."

Lu Jingchen, a man who has fought hard in the business world and gained a firm foothold with wisdom and courage, has witnessed too many regrets of missed opportunities due to lack of self-discipline and tenacity, and knows the importance of these qualities in life. He believes that children are like uncut jade, and if they want to shine brightly in the future, they must be carved and polished from an early age. Self-discipline is the precise carving knife that keeps children on the right track in their growth; tenacity is the solid shield that resists the invasion of wind and rain, giving children the strength to move forward courageously.

On weekend mornings, when the first ray of sunlight shines through the thin clouds and gently sprinkles on the playground of the community, Lu Jingchen will bring his baby here. The little figure runs and plays on the green field, and Lu Jingchen follows behind, patiently guiding the baby to complete simple tasks, such as picking up scattered colored building blocks and arranging them in a specific order. At the beginning, the baby was always attracted by the novel things around him and had difficulty concentrating. As soon as his little hand picked up a building block, his eyes were attracted by the flying birds. But Lu Jingchen was not impatient at all. He squatted down, looked straight into the baby's eyes, and said in a gentle and firm tone: "Baby, let's do this little thing together. After you finish, Dad will take you to see something more interesting." Under his guidance, the baby gradually learned to focus, and a seriousness was revealed on his little face. Every time he completed a task, Lu Jingchen would give a warm hug and an encouraging smile, planting the seeds of self-discipline and tenacity in the baby's heart.

However, as the baby reached a critical point in her growth, the question of whether to send her to an early childhood education class, like a huge rock thrown into a calm lake, caused ripples, causing Jiang Ciyu and Lu Jingchen, a couple who usually had a tacit understanding, to fall into a fierce clash of ideas for the first time.

It was a night with lights just coming on. The hustle and bustle of the city could be heard faintly through the window. The lights in the living room were soft and warm, but shrouded in a tense atmosphere. Jiang Ciyou sat at one end of the sofa, holding a parenting magazine in her hand. It contained some experts' opinions on the free development of young children in their early years, which made her more determined in her own ideas. She frowned slightly, looked at Lu Jingchen who was sitting at the other end, and broke the silence first: "Jingchen, I have been thinking about early education for my baby recently. I still think she is too young now. It is the time for her to play freely and explore the world. Sending her to an early education class too early and studying step by step every day will erase her nature. Look at her now, she is dealing with flowers, grass, and insects on the grass outside every day. She is curious about everything and her eyes are shining. I don't want to lock her up in the classroom so soon."

Lu Jingchen put down the business information he was reading, rubbed his temples, and showed a tired but serious expression on his face. He knew very well that Jiang Ciyou's starting point was full of love for the baby, but he also had his own considerations in his heart. "Youyou, I understand your worries, and I also value the baby's happy growth. But think about it, the competition in society is so fierce now, and the early childhood education class can provide her with a systematic learning environment, allowing her to be exposed to knowledge and cultivate good learning habits from an early age. This is crucial for her future academic development. Just like when I was a child, if my parents hadn't urged me to learn self-discipline and cultivate the quality of tenacity to face difficulties, how could I have achieved what I have today? I don't want my baby to lose at the starting line." His voice was low and powerful, and his eyes revealed his deep expectations for the baby's future.

Jiang Ciyou listened to Lu Jingchen's words, and her heart was slightly moved. She understood his good intentions, but her insistence on the baby's free growth in her heart made her unable to compromise easily. "I'm not saying that the baby should not learn knowledge, but I think it's not the right time now. Her cognitive ability is limited, and forcing knowledge into her will only make her feel bored. Moreover, I don't want her childhood to be filled with learning pressure and lose the happiness she deserves." There was a hint of urgency in her tone, and her eyes were full of attachment to the baby's innocent smile.

The two of them argued back and forth, each holding their own opinion, and the argument gradually heated up. The atmosphere in the living room became more and more solemn, and the warmth of the past seemed to be temporarily obscured. At this moment, the baby, who had been sitting quietly in the stroller playing with toys, seemed to feel the tension between his parents, and pouted his little mouth and cried out "wa".

The crying instantly broke the deadlock. Jiang Ciyou and Lu Jingchen stood up at the same time and hurried to the baby. Jiang Ciyou picked up the baby and coaxed him softly, his eyes full of heartache; Lu Jingchen gently stroked the baby's head, his face full of self-blame. Looking at the baby's aggrieved face, the two felt bitter in their hearts and realized that this argument should not happen in front of the child, and they should not let emotions control their reason.

After the baby's emotions gradually calmed down and fell into a sweet dream again, Jiang Ciyou and Lu Jingchen returned to the living room and sat down face to face. This time, there was no longer any spark of dispute in their eyes, but they were full of understanding and tolerance for each other.

Jiang Ciyou sighed softly and spoke first: "Jingchen, I'm sorry, I was too excited just now. I know you are doing this for the baby's good, but I got a little panicked when I thought that the baby might lose his carefree childhood." Her voice was choked with sobs and her eyes were slightly red.

Lu Jingchen held Jiang Ciyou's hand and squeezed it gently, his tone full of apology: "No, it's my fault. I didn't fully consider your feelings. I was too eager to plan a good future for the baby, but ignored her current happiness."

The two smiled at each other, and at that moment, all the unhappiness disappeared, replaced by the determination to jointly find the best education path for the baby. They began to calm down and deeply discuss the pros and cons of their respective ideas, read a lot of parenting books, consult professional educators, and even communicate with experienced parents around them.

In this process, they gradually discovered that free growth and rule-based education are not incompatible, but can complement each other. Just like the yin and yang of Tai Chi, only by blending with each other can the power of harmony be nurtured. Babies need to stimulate creativity and imagination in free exploration, and also need to introduce rule awareness in a timely manner to cultivate self-discipline and tenacity, laying a solid foundation for their future life.

After countless days and nights of discussion and adjustment, Jiang Ciyou and Lu Jingchen finally reached a consensus that satisfied both of them. They decided to combine the family's educational resources to tailor a set of exclusive education plans for the baby.

On weekdays, Jiang Ciyou still takes her baby to get close to nature, go to the park to feel the change of seasons, watch the leaves change from tender green to golden yellow, listen to the melodies of birds singing on the branches; go to the museum to appreciate the vast history of mankind, appreciate the stories behind the ancient artifacts, and let the baby's imagination swim in the endless ocean of knowledge. Lu Jingchen will use the weekends to create a small "learning world" for the baby at home, through interesting parent-child games, such as jigsaw competitions, building block castles, etc., cleverly integrating the learning of basic knowledge such as numbers, colors, and shapes, so that the baby can cultivate the qualities of concentration and persistence in joy.

At the same time, they also focus on cultivating the baby's social skills, regularly inviting friends from the neighborhood to visit their homes, or taking the baby to participate in parent-child activities organized by the community. In the process of getting along with friends, the baby learns to share, cooperate and help each other, and the little heart gradually understands how to integrate into the group and how to shine in interpersonal communication.

In order to better follow up the baby's growth progress, Jiang Ciyou and Lu Jingchen also specially made a growth record book to record in detail the baby's learning achievements, interests and hobbies, and changes in personality characteristics at each stage. They will adjust the education strategy in a timely manner based on these records to ensure that every step is in line with the baby's growth needs.

As time goes by, the baby thrives in this educational environment full of love and wisdom. Her smile becomes more brilliant and the light in her eyes becomes more dazzling. Jiang Ciyou and Lu Jingchen look at the changes in the baby with joy and pride. They know that as parents, this educational journey has just begun, and there are countless challenges and surprises waiting for them in the future. But as long as they work together, always maintain their love and respect for the baby, and continue to learn and grow, they will surely be able to support a broad sky for the baby, allowing her to fly freely in the journey of life and chase her own sea of ​​stars.