Fu Zihao's reputation grew, and the number of patients in the hospital increased. The one that gave him the most headache was a schizophrenic patient. Her symptoms were very serious, but she herself was unaware that she had two personalities in her body.

Fu Zihao once let Hanbao secretly look at his patient. He began to suspect whether there was another soul inside her.

After examining her, Hanbao said, “There is only one soul in her body! She doesn’t have polysoul, she has a mental illness!” In the end, it was confirmed that she had split personality.

The girl's mother is a very strong woman. After she divorced her husband, she lived alone with her daughter. Her daughter became all the emotional comfort in her life.

Liu Minjun made another appointment today. Every time she made an appointment, she had an argument with her mother and came to him to talk.

Fu Zihao walked in wearing a white coat. She had seen him more than a dozen times. Every time Liu Minjun saw him, her eyes would light up! However, every time Fu Zihao had a pen on his chest pocket, there was a sign under the pen, which read: "I have a boyfriend"!

Fu Zihao greeted Liu Minjun enthusiastically: "Ms. Liu, good morning!"

Liu Minjun: "I'm not good, you know, every time I come to see you, I'm very bad."

Fu Zihao sat down and asked Liu Minjun to lie on her favorite recliner. Fu Zihao played some soothing music for her.

Fu Zihao: "Tell me, what happened?"

Liu Minjun: "I recently fell in love with a boy, but my mother found out! She beat me and asked me to break up with him. I was secretly in love with him and didn't even have the courage to confess my feelings. How could I break up with him? As a result, my mother actually found our university and my teacher and told the teacher about this. The teacher talked to me and asked me to communicate more with my parents at home and be more considerate. She said that it was not easy for my mother to raise me alone and asked me to be more sensible. Doctor, am I wrong?"

Fu Zihao: "You are already eighteen, it is normal to have a vague affection for the opposite sex!"

Liu Minjun: "Can you persuade my mother to see a psychiatrist? I feel her mental problems are more serious than mine."

Fu Zihao couldn't tell her that her other personality had a violent tendency and once, her other personality almost beat her mother to death.

Liu Minjun's mother also hopes that Fu Zihao can keep it a secret from Liu Minjun.

Liu Minjun continued, "I had a dream yesterday. In the dream, I killed my mother. There was blood all over the floor and my hands were covered in blood. I was very scared!"

Fu Zihao: "Have you been keeping a regular schedule recently? Are you under a lot of academic pressure? How is your diet? Have you been exercising properly?"

Liu Minjun said: "I go to bed before 11 o'clock every day as you said. The pressure of studying is a bit high. After all, it is my last year and I will graduate soon. I eat well, but I have a poor appetite. I don't have time to exercise. I am too busy!"

Fu Zihao: "Everyone has stress. For example, some people like to eat when they are stressed, and food can relieve their stress. Some people like to exercise to release stress. Some people like to dance, and some people like to sing. You have to find a way to relieve stress that suits you.

Your body is also very thin, I still suggest you to do some exercise. After exercise and sweating, people will feel very good. When we have time, let's go to the gym and give it a try!"

Liu Minjun: "I feel very tired every day! Every time I return home, I feel it is difficult to breathe. Others say that home is a warm place, but my home is particularly suffocating and makes it difficult for me to breathe.

So, sometimes, I wanted to kill my mother. I was also angry about why my father didn't fight for me when they divorced, and instead left me to my psychopathic mother.

Her desire for control is particularly strong. She wants to control what I eat every day and even how much I eat. She also wants to control what clothes I wear every day. She doesn't agree when I want to go out and play with my classmates. She interferes in everything I do!

I feel like I'm just her doll!

And then there is the machine that makes her dreams come true. She imposed everything she didn’t do on me, and I was really tired.”

Fu Zihao: "Have you told your mother about your thoughts?"

Liu Minjun: "She only said one thing: I am doing this for your own good! I am doing this for your own good! I am doing this for your own good!

But, what you think is good! Is it what I want?

I lost my freedom, like a bird with broken wings!

Sometimes, I really feel that maybe I can be free if I die.”

Fu Zihao: "I will talk to your mother about the problem you raised today! You and I are about the same age, and I understand your thoughts."

The two chatted a lot more, and the purpose was always: to establish a trusting relationship: Psychologists establish a solid trusting relationship with patients through listening, empathy and understanding, which is the basis of the counseling process, making patients feel accepted and supported, and willing to open their hearts.

Cognitive restructuring: Guide patients to identify and challenge the irrational beliefs and thinking patterns behind anxiety. Through education, discussion and practice, help patients learn to look at problems in a more realistic and positive way, reduce excessive worry and negative predictions.

Relaxation training: Teach patients relaxation techniques such as deep breathing and progressive muscle relaxation to reduce physical tension and anxiety. It is easy to learn and can be applied at any time, becoming an effective tool for patients to manage themselves.

Finally, drug treatment can be used as an auxiliary measure: when necessary, the psychologist will consider drug treatment as an auxiliary measure according to the doctor's advice. Drugs can help quickly relieve anxiety symptoms, but it should be noted that drugs are not the only solution and must be combined with psychotherapy for comprehensive treatment.

After talking with Liu Minjun, Fu Zihao called Liu Minjun's mother: "Ms. Song, Miss Liu's psychological pressure is getting heavier and heavier. I want to know about her preference for boys!"

Song Yun asked: "What did she tell you?"

Fu Zihao said: "Can you tell me the truth?"

Song Yun said: "She liked a boy, but the boy had a girlfriend. She not only pestered the boy, but also threatened his girlfriend. So the teacher taught me a lesson, and I beat her when I got home! I usually manage her a little more strictly, because I'm afraid she will suffer! I also want her to use all her energy on studying, and wait until she gets a job before dating, so that it will be more reliable. I'm afraid she will be cheated by a man like me!"

Fu Zihao was speechless. Such a mother was indeed suffocating! He felt that his mother was really good in managing her children like a hands-off shopkeeper!

Fu Zihao: "Ms. Song, I know you love your daughter very much. Love is the most important nourishment for a child's growth. But if you love in the wrong way and don't know how to measure it, it will ruin a child. However, if love is too full, it will overflow. Please think about this issue carefully."

Song Yun: "Thank you, doctor! I will think about it carefully." Fu Zihao sighed. Song Yun would say this every time. After she finished speaking, the sound of the waves remained the same. No matter what she did, she felt that she was loving her child and never considered whether her love would suffocate the child.

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