Turnaround Life: The Rebirth Elegy of the Wealthy Wife

"Wendy, were you crying just now?"

I had just hung up the phone and hadn't had time to wipe away my tears when I saw Luca and his family of three standing at the door.

"What's wrong with you, Wendy?" Sophia strode in, put her arm around her shoulders and asked worriedly.

Tang Wenwan's mood, which had just been somewhat calmed down, felt like it was about to burst again after being warmed up by their words.

"I~I~"

She chewed her tears and looked at the three pairs of eyes watching her, but she really didn't know how to start. Finally, she thought about it and cast a helping eye on Selena.

"I, I think I need to talk to Selena, is that okay?"

She asked a little embarrassedly, thinking that Selena was probably the only one who could understand her current feeling of loss and panic.

Selena immediately extended her hand to Tang Wenwan as if she had been waiting for a long time.

"Let's go to your reception room and talk, okay?"

"Oh, babe, of course."

She gently held Tang Wenwan, gave Luca and his daughter a look that reassured them, and walked out the door with Tang Wenwan.

Selena gently handed Tang Wenwan a cup of tea, wiped the splashed tea drops with a tissue, and stared at Tang Wenwan with her eyes, like a sharp blade that could penetrate into her soul.

"So, you're saying your lover left?"

Selena's voice echoed in the reception room, and this fact once again hurt Tang Wenwan's heart.

"Well, this is different from the dream. In the dream, he would not give up."

Tang Wenwan still couldn't quite accept the statement, completely revealing her inner panic to Selena.

Selena sat opposite Tang Wenwan and listened to her words quietly. She pondered for a moment, then said gently:

"Wendy, I understand your distress and inner confusion at the moment. Being abandoned by your loved one is indeed an extremely painful experience."

Tang Wenwan couldn't help but burst into tears. She clenched her hands and tried to calm herself down.

"You subconsciously feel that he will never give up on you. Perhaps, in your heart, this represents a sense of security and a stable love."

Selena picked up the pen and quickly made a few notes on the notebook in her hand, then said calmly:

"This tells us that you have a great need for stability, which may be why you are overly dependent on him in the relationship.

Wendy, I know you are troubled now. But you need to understand that everyone has his own choice, and we cannot make decisions for them. "

Selena's warm tone, coupled with her stable and professional expression, gives people an unquestionable sense of persuasion.

"But……"

Tang Wenwan was unable to refute, her eyes were pale and tired. There was a trace of confusion in her eyes, as if Selena's words hit the nail on the head.

Selena took in all her reactions, paused, and continued:

“When people are in love, they often expect the other person to become the ideal partner in their mind, and even change themselves to adapt to the other person. But this is precisely the beginning of the most painful thing.

True love is understanding and acceptance, not asking the other person to change or accommodate. "

Tang Wenwan listened, and her expression became brighter and brighter. It was obvious that Selena's words had triggered some new thoughts in her mind.

"Loss is painful, but it is also part of life. We cannot stop moving forward because of the fear of loss. Every setback is a surge of growth."

After the words were spoken, the whole room fell silent.

Finally, Tang Wenwan took a deep breath and looked at Selena in shock.

"You're right. I...I need some time."

Selena gently reached out her hand and stroked Tang Wenwan's back. Seeing that she was slowly accepting this fact, she started a new topic.

“Wendy, let’s try to analyze the possible psychological reasons why your lover left.

First, people usually leave because of some internal or external motivation. This may include seeking personal growth, pursuing new opportunities, stress or conflict, etc.”

Selena continued to explain in a gentle yet professional tone.

Tang Wenwan gradually calmed down and looked at Selena thoughtfully.

“As one party in an intimate relationship, we are often confused and puzzled by the other party’s decision.

We will question whether we have given enough, or even question whether it was our own wrong decision that led to the other person’s departure.”

Seeing Tang Wenwan's guilty expression, Selena continued to analyze:

"But remember, Wendy, love is created and managed by two people together. No matter what, you can't control other people's choices and behaviors. What's important is how to face and accept reality."

Tang Wenwan took a deep breath and wiped away her tears. She looked at Selena gratefully, feeling her support and guidance as a psychology expert.

"Wendy, I believe you have the courage and ability to face this situation, but this child~"

In the end, after Selena helped Tang Wenwan with sufficient psychological preparation and encouragement, she still couldn't escape the interconnected thinking brought about by the role of mother.

She looked at Tang Wenwan hesitantly, and found it difficult to give reasonable advice for a moment.

Tang Wenwan's thoughts gradually became clearer after Selena's professional analysis. She lowered her head, touched her belly, and murmured:

"Maybe I should go home."

After hearing this, Selena nodded in approval.

"I feel much more relieved when you think this way. No matter what, it is a more responsible choice for him to discuss the future of this little life with your family."

After Tang Wenwan made up her mind, she felt much better. She raised her head shyly and looked at Selena sincerely:

"Thank you Selena, without you, I really don't know how long I would have been in such a state."

Seeing that she had finally let go of her sadness, Selena leaned back on the sofa, feeling relieved.

"Don't say that, dear, life is a mess, and each of us accumulates experience in chaos.

In fact, at this uncontrollable stage, you insisted on keeping this child. I still admire your courage and confidence.

But you have to know that being a good mother is not much easier than being a good lover, and I hope you are really ready for this."

Selena finally expressed her concerns without any concealment. Tang Wenwan knew that she must be thinking about the missed opportunities in her mother-daughter relationship with Sophia.