With the system in place, who would spoil your whole family?

The family's financial power has always been controlled by Su Jiandang, and Song Yingxia rarely interferes in economic issues.

Su Jingchu is on the verge of collapse. If Song Yingxia doesn't say a few words to help him, he will go crazy.

"Achu has no ability to pay back the 30 yuan, so don't ask him to pay it back, otherwise you will drive him to death."

But Su Jiandang did not think that he would force Su Jingchu to death. Instead, he encouraged him and let him know at all times that he still had a debt of more than 30 yuan, thus spurring him to work hard to make money.

"You are the kind of person that a loving mother often spoils her child. You have an unshirkable responsibility for Ah Chu's transformation. When he lost his job, he should have continued to look for a job, but you told him to wait until Ah Yi was one month old before looking for one."

"It's been a month now, and he hasn't found a job after two or three months. He has developed a lazy habit. If you don't force him to pay back the money, he will continue to be lazy. He is so young, but he is lazy and doesn't want to work."

"Besides, if Ah Yan and his wife knew that he owed me more than 30 yuan and didn't have to pay it back, they would follow suit and ask me to pay more than 30 yuan. Then where would I get the money?"

Song Yingxia really didn't consider this issue. She had two sons, and one son asked for more than 30 yuan, so the other son would definitely have objections.

Knowing that she had not thought it through, Song Yingxia stopped talking and took the remote control to turn on the TV.

A reality show is being broadcast. A young mother discovered that her daughter, who was a few months old, was only interested in her hands and would make butterfly hands when she was unhappy. The mother took her daughter to see a doctor, and her daughter was diagnosed with autism.

Song Yingxia was scared because she had also seen Jinjin do the butterfly hand gesture.

Song Yingxia comforted herself that butterfly hands do not necessarily mean autism. It should take a combination of many symptoms to be confirmed, right?

She stared at the TV, wanting to take another look at the doctor's summary, but Su Jiandang suddenly turned off her TV.

"I'm talking to you, but you're just watching TV. You idiot! You never have anything to say to me in your entire life. Every time I talk to you, I can't even finish three sentences."

Song Yingxia knew Su Jiandang's bad temper very well. If she spoke to him in a nice tone, he would not take the remote control back.

So she stood up quickly and went straight to grab the remote control.

"Take back!"

Su Jiandang gritted his teeth and glared at Song Yingxia. What happened to the mother and son today? They both yelled at me.

They have never dared to speak out before, but now they are rebelling. You want to watch TV, but I won't let you.

So he raised the remote control high and then threw it hard to the ground.

With a "snap", the remote control broke into two and the battery fell out.

If the remote control is broken, you will definitely have to spend money to buy a new one.

Song Yingxia, who was used to saving money, really felt sorry for spending those few dollars.

"You bastard, you always throw things around. If they break, you still have to pay to buy them back."

"Who told you to ignore me?"

Song Yingxia squatted on the ground silently, picked up the broken remote control, and installed the batteries to see if it could still be used.

The remote control is broken.

I have lived with Su Jiandang for more than 30 years. During these 30 years, many things in the house were broken by him, and I had to spend money to buy new ones after they were broken.

Their family used to use mercury kettles, which are very easy to break.

Once, Song Yingxia forgot to put the lid on after pouring hot water, and the water inside became cold.

Song Yingxia ignored it and put the lid back on.

Su Jiandang poured hot water to drink, but found that it was actually filled with cold water. He thought that the kettle was no longer able to keep water warm, so he suggested buying a new one, but did not explain why.

Song Yingxia didn't want to buy a new one, after all, this one worked well.

"The tuition fee will be paid in two months. There are many places to spend money. You are so extravagant. You want to buy this and that. Don't you think about your own conditions? You can't make money, but you always spend money."

Su Jiandang knew that Song Yingxia was scolding him for being incompetent, and he got so angry that he swept the thermos to the ground.

With a loud "bang", all the liquid inside the kettle broke into pieces.

Song Yingxia was so angry that she almost fainted. The thermos cost her more than ten yuan.

It was difficult to earn more than ten yuan in the past, and with three children in school, there were many places to spend money.

Song Yingxia wanted to break a penny into two, but Su Jiandang had no pressure at all, just muddled along, smashed things when he was unhappy, and had to spend money to buy them back. Even though he was told not to smash things, he just couldn't change.

Nowadays, buying a new remote control will cost dozens of dollars.

Song Yingxia felt tired, so she quietly got up and went downstairs to chat with her neighbors.

But she had no mood to chat with her neighbors and was always thinking about the content of the reality show.

Chen Suyi took Jinjin back to her parents' home. Song Yingxia waited for them downstairs until they came back. She wanted to observe Jinjin's condition carefully, hoping that Jinjin was not autistic.

Before dark, Chen Suyi came back carrying Jinjin on her back.

Song Yingxia carried Jinjin into the house. When Su Jiandang saw his precious grandson coming back, he immediately smiled like a happy date.

Su Jiandang opened his mouth wide and moved closer to Jin Jin's face, wanting to get face to face with him.

Su Jiandang's big mouth was like a black hole, and it smelled really good, which scared Jin Jin.

Jinjin started screaming and making butterfly hands.

Normal children will seek comfort from adults when they are threatened.

But Jinjin's reaction is different from that of normal children.

Song Yingxia's heart skipped a beat and she had a bad feeling.

"Ayi, when was Jinjin's last physical examination?"

Jinjin’s last physical examination was 42 days after giving birth.

During that examination, no abnormalities were found, and both mother and child were healthy. The doctor told her to take Jinjin for regular physical examinations in the future.

Chen Suyi felt that she was young and there would be no problem with the child she gave birth to. Facts also proved that no problems were found during the 42-day physical examination. She felt relieved and never took Jinjin for a check-up again.

After hearing what Song Yingxia said, Chen Suyi became alert.

Song Yingxia has always been very frugal. If the child is fine, she usually won't let him go to the hospital. Even if there is something wrong, she doesn't support taking the child to the hospital.

When An An was more than seven months old, he was sitting on the ground playing with toys and stuffed a piece of cardboard into his mouth. Later, the cardboard kept sticking to his palate and wouldn't go away.

That night, when Chen Suyi came home from get off work and fed An An porridge, she felt like there was something in his mouth.

But after he scooped a spoonful of porridge into his mouth, he swallowed it in two or three gulps. Then he asked for more porridge, but Chen Su was afraid that he would not pry open his mouth to see.

After eating most of the porridge, An An always pressed his tongue against his palate, so she put a finger in and picked out a piece of paper from his palate.

This kind of cardboard is the cardboard of express boxes.

Song Yingxia was very lazy, so Su Jiandang went out that day and asked her to take care of An An.

Song Yingxia put An An on the ground and gave him a bunch of toys. An An played with the toys alone the whole afternoon. Seeing that he didn't cry, Song Yingxia didn't look at him.

An An played with his toys while Song Yingxia lay on the sofa watching TV. The two of them did not disturb each other.

Chen Suyi was very worried that the cardboard was not clean, and An An’s resistance was so poor that she was worried that he would get sick.

Song Yingxia said, it’s okay, don’t be nervous.

The next day, An An indeed had diarrhea.

Chen Suyi wanted to take An An to see a doctor, but Song Yingxia said that it was normal for children to defecate three times a day. Besides, going to a place like a hospital would make people sick even if they were not sick.

So he strongly prevented Chen Suyi from taking An An to see a doctor.

For the next four or five days, An An had watery stools three or four times a day.

Chen Suyi had to go to work, and seeing that An An only had watery stools and no other abnormalities, she did not take him to see a doctor.

By the seventh day, An An not only had diarrhea but also vomited.