Harry Potter: Who cares about belated motherly love?

"Yes, that's right!"

"Isn't that true? Such fathers often cause their children to rebel strongly, leading to the collapse of the family. They are so outstanding themselves that they naturally demand that their children be equally outstanding. To some extent, they regard their children as an extension of themselves. They completely fail to understand that children are independent individuals."

"Actually... my name is the same as my father's."

"Ah, maybe he thinks that what he can do, his son can do as well. Although he doesn't completely ignore his son, unlike our family, at least he still cares and pays attention to him. But he is not at home most of the time, so he doesn't understand that his son is different from himself. He has no idea that his words and actions hurt his son or put pressure on him. He can only judge everything by his own standards. However, this is not intentional. I think he does have expectations for his son, and it is because of this expectation that he takes a harsh attitude towards his son, right?

Also, he may think that even if he nags, his son will definitely understand what he thinks is important, after all, he is his son. In contrast, my father has no interest in me, but at least he cares about his child and is not indifferent. It's not that he doesn't think his son is cute, but he may fantasize that his son will understand even if he doesn't say anything. But this is a fantasy. Even among family members, everyone is an independent individual. If you don't communicate well, you can't understand each other. If you don't spend much time together, you need to express yourself clearly. Well, in my opinion, Mr. Batty may be a person who is not good at expressing himself. He may be very good at work, but he can't find the right way to get along with his beloved family.

However, it is true that some parents simply cannot understand that their children are independent individuals and always treat their children as an extension of themselves. My mother has this tendency, but she and my sister are always together, and the two of them are almost one. However, they don't think this is a problem. They are like cast in the same mold and understand each other without saying anything. It's a little scary, but they spend a lot of time together, which may have led to this feeling. But Mr. Batty doesn't share much time or thoughts with his son, but always equates his son with himself, which has no other effect except to make people angry. No wonder my son has a rebellious period. In comparison, it makes more sense than Sirius's rebellious period."

“Yes… I will also think about these things more and digest them carefully.

It's great to be here today. Can I come again in the future?"

"Of course! You're welcome to come anytime!

My brothers have all gone to Hogwarts, and the oldest one has already lived independently. Although I am studying, my life is relatively leisurely, and you are welcome to come anytime. I am still trying the recipes given by my friends. Tell me in advance and I will prepare delicious snacks. Of course, Winky can also come along. "

When he left, his expression was much more relaxed than when he first came. Since then, he has come from time to time. I often make dim sum with Auntie An, and he knows this, so every time he comes, he brings super high-quality tea as a gift. This tea is so expensive that even I can't afford it, but if I accept it as a gift, I will use it without hesitation.

After a while, he found a job as a secretary at the Black family, lived independently, and seemed very happy. He mentioned that the place he lived in was much smaller than his original home, and he was even a little embarrassed, but he still moved out with Winky. Basically, he lived a life similar to a prisoner, going back and forth between home and work. Winky would help him with shopping, so there was no trouble in his life. He said that the only time he went out was to come to my house for tea. When he came to play on the weekends, we would cook together. Usually Winky would help, but he would say, "Winky, just watch!" Although his movements were clumsy, he worked very hard.

Although he didn't do any work that required magic, Bill said that he was very capable at work and had a lot of knowledge, so he helped them a lot. Speaking of Crouch, it turns out that his father was the one who caused the "Crouch Shock"... The Ministry of Magic is still talking about it. It is said that the vacancy left after his departure was so large that even the newspapers reported it. At that time, I saw the headline "Crouch Shock!" in the newspaper and thought, what is this? Later, I thought that one person could take on so much work, and it turned out that he contributed so much to the wizarding world... So I also reflected a little and wondered if I had said too much about him before. His family life may have been completely sacrificed. The wizarding world seems to always rely on those outstanding people, and this structure may be the reason for the family discord. "