After a simple rebirth

What can I do? After going through so much, I am no longer the sensitive teenage girl. I won’t cry silently in my room after a big fight with my parents, or doubt my life because of it.

Fu Ying sat down and started studying right away.

A friend once told her that as long as she doesn’t die from studying, she should study until she dies.

His college life was very extravagant. He hardly studied and barely passed the final exam by staying up all night studying. He had no knowledge, no skills, and no attitude.

He got into a big company with the reputation of his school, only to find out that his time wasted had paid off. He couldn't submit a proposal before the deadline, and he didn't know what others said. Not only his knowledge and ability were questioned, but also the reputation of the school and his own future. In order to work well and live, he began to study hard. What the school couldn't teach, he took the initiative to learn within two months of working. He said that in the first few months of his work, he studied as soon as he opened his eyes, and tried his best to make up for the knowledge he didn't learn in college.

At that time, Fu Ying didn’t quite understand the meaning of the saying, “Study hard until you die.”

Later, Fu Ying failed the self-taught exam without preparation, and failed after cramming before the exam. It was not until she prepared seriously for a long time that she finally learned thoroughly and passed all the subjects. After years of bitter lessons, Fu Ying finally understood the meaning of this sentence.

Only if you study hard will you not worry about whether you can pass an exam, because you know in your heart that the experience of reviewing this time will be the foundation for passing the next one.

After giving herself some chicken soup, Fu Ying continued to copy the geography homework. She had already finished more than half of it and hope was in sight.

There was a moment when Fu Zhe wanted to open the door but couldn't, so Fu Ying told him to stop making noise and go in through another door.

Maybe Fu Zhe's test made Fu's mother realize that she couldn't get in, so she simply didn't try. No one knew where she went and she didn't hear much.

After copying for several hours, Fu Ying felt tired all over, and her butt was a little sore. She simply took a pillow and sat on it.

Finally, the finishing work was done. Fu Ying sighed and sorted all the materials by page number. Because she was afraid of mixing up the order, Fu Ying wrote the word "地" in the upper right corner before copying a new piece of knowledge, and then marked the page number clearly. Now it is very fast to sort.

It's already six o'clock. I don't know if Fu's mother has cooked yet, but Fu Ying decided not to go out yet. At worst, she can just have some fried potatoes for dinner later.

In rural areas, people don’t pay attention to every meal and most people just eat casually.

The only time I really cook is when I invite people to dinner, during festivals, or when there are a lot of people at home.

Fu Ying couldn't sit down anymore, so she put her feet on the windowsill and stretched them. Whether her legs would become straight was secondary. It was really comfortable to stretch her legs like this.

Another task completed, Fu Ying’s next task is to make a study plan.

Fu Ying used to scoff at things like making lists and setting study plans because she would not follow them and was a procrastinator.

But work and failure taught her.

For example, when I am a full-time tour guide and lead a group to the capital for five days, I need to learn about the local culture in advance, inform the guests, check the itinerary with the local tour guide, and pack the luggage, including how many clothes to bring, company documents, and medicines to carry, etc. These must be written down, or at least form a fixed process in my mind, and check them one by one. If any step is missed, it will be a disaster.

Fu Ying once took a guest back from Hunan Province by high-speed rail. She forgot to inform the driver of their arrival time and exit one day in advance, and only remembered it when she was about to arrive at the station. She was scared and broke into a cold sweat. The signal on the high-speed rail was not good, and she finally contacted the driver. Fortunately, the driver's company notified him of the time and place. Even if he didn't receive a call from the tour guide, the driver would have waited at the exit of the high-speed rail station in advance. Although the incident did not cause a big mess, Fu Ying was very impressed and paid more attention to the process and checking the unfinished items.

Of course, there were also self-righteous plans, but in fact, the completion rate was less than 50%. Fu Ying started self-study in 15, and naively made plans for herself: to complete the college degree in 17, to pass the intermediate Chinese tour guide certificate in 17, and to pass the advanced Chinese tour guide certificate in 20. In fact, she only got the intermediate Chinese tour guide certificate in 18, and she passed it by chance after reviewing half of it. The exam was passed according to the percentage of the number of candidates. But at the end of 18, she left the industry with a cold heart, so she didn't take the advanced exam again. As for the self-study? In 17, she registered for the whole year but didn't take the exam. It wasn't until 19, when she was one subject and a practical course away from graduation, that she found out that the major had stopped taking the exam, so she had to change her major and take the exam again.

So after experiencing countless failures, Fu Ying learned to make reasonable plans, respect the random changes in reality, but must implement them.

The fact that she successfully obtained her self-study diploma was also largely due to her strengthened execution ability.

She began to study in fragmented ways, setting herself phased learning tasks, further subdividing daily learning tasks, and forcing herself to carry them out.

When she was taking the Japanese language test for her degree, she would watch videos every morning when she had half an hour of free time, and practice questions on her phone when she was slacking off at work. She would take notes after work and practice questions again before going to bed. She was able to meet these requirements almost every day because she, an obsessive-compulsive disorder patient, gave herself the order to complete these tasks every day. If she failed to complete them, she would be obsessed with them and feel very uncomfortable.

So, she passed.

Now, Fu Ying decided to continue making a study plan and post it on the wall. Although it would be embarrassing for others to see it, it can remind her to complete the task at all times.

First, daily tasks: 1. Try to complete your homework at school and don’t take it home. 2. Review the new knowledge of the day as soon as possible and do questions based on the materials. 3. If the teacher doesn’t arrange for evening self-study, recite the materials and make sure to memorize the knowledge points.

Secondly, weekend and holiday tasks: arrange review time according to the difficulty of the knowledge and the number of holidays, organize collections of wrong questions, focus on reviewing Chinese, mathematics and English during holidays, and leave half a day for cleaning.

Once the general direction is determined, it will be easier to refine.

Daily tasks: No study during lunch break, finish classwork after school in the afternoon, do homework first during evening self-study, review the subjects learned that day after finishing, do mind map after completing all the above. On Monday, biology first and math second, on Tuesday, geography first and history second, on Wednesday, chemistry first and history second, on Thursday, politics first and Chinese second, on Friday, physics first and English second.

History and geography do not require much time for daily homework and note-taking, so they should be completed first. Chinese and math require a lot of time for recitation and exercises, so they are more suitable for holidays when there is more free time.

Holiday tasks: Complete the homework of each subject first, then prioritize the review and organization of Chinese and mathematics. Remember to submit the geography materials to the teacher at the end of the month, and then follow the review rhythm from Monday to Friday.

Extra daily tasks during the holidays, suitable for completion at night: memorize an ancient Chinese article every day; memorize all the formulas of a lesson every day, including those of several science subjects, in order starting from the first lesson; memorize all the words of a unit every day.

This study plan needs to be refined and reviewed again near the end of the semester, because the final review is the main focus, and by then you will know which subjects will require more time and effort.