After a simple rebirth

As the wedding was approaching, the bride could not come to the groom's house, but the woman also called to express her concern for Fu's mother, showing that she was quite worldly-wise.

So Fu Ying and Fu's mother took turns to talk to him, but the eldest young master got angry and acted as if it had nothing to do with him, and spent the whole day surfing the Internet.

Later, the two got married. In rural areas, people would hold a wedding banquet first and then get the marriage certificate. They had planned to get the marriage certificate in the first month of the lunar year, but they separated before getting the certificate.

After the Lantern Festival, the Fu family went out to work, and the woman returned to the city to open a shop. But Fu Wei was embarrassed because he had no place to live and no job in the city. The woman shared a house with others, and it was not realistic for Fu Wei to go back and forth between the county town and the town every day without a job.

A month later, Fu Wei asked for a breakup.

Fu Wei said that the woman looked down on him because he couldn't find a job when he went to the county town and had no stable income, so she despised him for having no money and refused to let him touch her.

Fu Yu tried to mediate, but it was of no use as Fu Wei was determined to leave.

But Fu Yu later became disillusioned and stopped caring about their affairs because the woman had been saying bad things about Fu Yu to Fu's mother behind his back. But in the Fu family, Fu Yu's words were the most effective. After Fu Yu found out, he simply stopped getting involved.

More problems were discovered only after the marriage, that woman owed tens of thousands in debt from her business, and with the intention of asking Fu's family to help her pay off the debt, she accepted the bride price and immediately paid off the debt, and the dowry she bought from the Fu family was only a few thousand.

The temporary couple lacked trust, communication, and a proper solution. Fu Wei also kept resisting and refused to continue the marriage.

In the end, Fu Wei went to Zhejiang Province to work, and the woman stayed in the county, and then the two divorced.

During the second year of the Spring Festival, when they heard that Fu's family had returned, the woman's uncle came to persuade the two to reconcile, but his words were not very nice. He said that if Fu Wei was willing, his family would not care. If Fu Wei came to apologize and asked the woman to come back, they would agree to let her continue to marry him, but Fu Wei had to be more responsible and protect his wife.

The Fu family was so angry about this that they just kicked the person out and would rather find someone new.

Later I heard that the woman remarried and gave birth to two daughters.

Fu Wei, on the other hand, has been struggling and still single.

Fu Wei's troubles include but are not limited to micro-business, selling women's photo albums, and learning massage. If he has no money, he asks Fu's parents for money, or borrows from Fu Yu.

At the most, Fu Wei owed Fu Yu 30,000 yuan. This 30,000 yuan was the pocket money Fu Yu had saved from working on construction sites and doing part-time jobs, and he lent it all to him.

None of the business projects he had tried was successful, and none lasted more than half a year, including his job.

Every time he owed a lot of money, he would run back home, eat and sleep at home, smoke cigarettes and use Fu's dad's money, pay people back when he made money, and run away when he had paid off all the debts.

When he has no money, he borrows it, and the cycle continues. It's not like he hasn't defaulted on the loans. Fu Yu said that Fu Wei has so much debt that he has no credit at all, and few people are willing to lend him money.

Fu Wei also asked Fu Ying to borrow money, but Fu Ying refused and she had no money either.

Moreover, Fu's mother sometimes asked Fu Ying for money, which was all used to subsidize Fu Wei. Fu Ying got angry when she thought about this.

Every time she heard that Fu Wei was doing some business, Fu Ying sneered, and Fu's mother said that she didn't respect her brother.

But Fu Wei never does housework when he is at home, but he acts like an older brother and says that Fu Ying is not good at this or that. Fu Ying would directly retort, "If you can do it, do it. If you can't, shut up."

Fu Wei had asked Fu Ying for help with his business before, but Fu Ying had directly refused every time.

When Fu Wei was doing WeChat business, he said he wanted to get goods from Las Vegas, and Fu Ying could earn tens of dollars by helping him get them through the border. Fu Ying thought to herself, this kind of channel that she didn't know where it came from might be illegal, so she didn't want to die.

Fu Wei also told this to his mother, and his mother asked Fu Ying to help Fu Wei so that she could earn some extra money.

Fu Ying directly told him not to ask him about the eldest young master’s affairs. Whether the eldest young master was rich or short of money, it had nothing to do with her. Anyway, the eldest young master should deal with his own affairs.

Then Fu's mother scolded her, saying that they were brothers and sisters, but Fu Ying didn't care. She never asked Fu Wei when she needed help, and Fu Wei never cared about her, so why should she help him?

Later, Fu Wei made a short video and asked Fu Ying to help him forward it to increase orders, but Fu Ying didn't care and said that she didn't need that software and didn't know how to do it.

Fu Wei always has troublesome ideas and excuses for failure.

The same goes for blind dates. There are always reasons to dislike them: they are not tall, so the children they give birth to will have bad genes; they have ugly facial features, so we don’t like them; we can’t talk to them, so there will be nothing to talk about after marriage; they are too old, so we suspect that they have remarried and had children.

From the virgin girl at the beginning to the remarried woman later, there was no one he liked. To be more precise, the one he liked despised him and looked down on him.

After Fu's father and mother lost their jobs, they could no longer control him. They kept nagging him to get married, but they were powerless.

Fu's father said that seeing the lively life of Fu Zhe's children, he was afraid that Fu Wei would always be alone. He was even more afraid that he would be like his uncle Zhao Yao who died young, without a home and descendants.

Fu's mother said that while they can still move, they can help Fu Wei raise the child, and Fu Wei can go to work without worrying about being so tired.

But Fu Wei refused to listen, and even quarreled with Fu Ma when he was angry, saying that when he wanted to get married a few years ago, Fu Ma had to stop him, saying that it was not good to find someone from Guangdong Province, and insisted that he find someone from Yunnan Province. He followed Fu Ma's wishes and found someone from the local area, but when they couldn't get along, she blamed him and kept urging him.

Fu Ying didn't know what Fu Wei was talking about at first, but after listening to Fu Yu, she knew the details.

After running away from home, Fu Wei worked in an electric motor factory in Guangdong Province. He met a local girl and started a relationship with her.

The girl was the only child in the family, and her family was well off. They didn't look down on men from other provinces, nor did they insist on marrying a son-in-law, but they still hoped that the girl could live in the local area. The girl's family just talked about the situation, saying that Guangdong Province had better development and education.

But when Fu Wei was about to bring the girl home to meet his parents, he was strongly opposed by his mother. She felt that Fu Wei's move was equivalent to marrying into the family, and she could not accept her son marrying into the family, so she insisted that Fu Wei find a girl near home, not far away.

In addition, Fu's mother felt that local women were shrewd and petty, and she was afraid that her daughter-in-law would control her son and alienate him from the family.

Anyway, Fu's mother strongly opposed it, and Fu Wei later broke up with the girl.

So much so that whenever Fu Ma urged him to get married too much, Fu Wei would use this matter to confront Fu Ma.

He also told Fu Ying that the freedom she had in choosing her life and the right to date was all due to the resistance of Fu Yu and Fu Wei. If Fu's mother had been so open-minded and agreed to his marriage, his child would have been in elementary school long ago.

Fu Ying admitted that Fu Ma's desire for control did retreat a little because of Fu Yu and Fu Zhe's resistance, and Fu Ying and Fu Zhe were the beneficiaries.

However, Fu Ying did not agree with Fu Wei's marriage.

As a man, who can I blame for not insisting on my own ideas? I want to get married and support a family, but I can't do these things. For the girl, it's actually good to break up, which can be regarded as an early relief.

Do you always listen to what your parents say? Then why does Fu keep changing jobs when his parents tell him to work hard?

You didn't get married yourself, why are you saying it's all because of Fu's dad and mom? It's so funny.