After a simple rebirth

After planting the seedlings, it's time to consider farming. Although Fu Ying has been persuading Fu Yu not to work so hard, they both know that they still have to plant some. Not only does it save money, but it's also nice to have fresh produce for their family.

Her family was late in planting crops. Normally, they would start planting potatoes around the Lantern Festival, and then prepare to grow corn seedlings. However, because the family had to buy land and build a fence, Fu Ying and Fu Zhe started school after their father went to Guangdong Province, so Fu Yu was unable to do anything by herself.

Second Aunt Fu came to Fu Yu's house several times to ask whether Fu's family wanted to plant the land. If not, she would plant it. Her family still had some potatoes left for seeds, which could be planted.

In fact, he not only wanted the land, but also wanted Fu Yu to help.

Fu Yu hadn't made up her mind whether to plant it or not, so she could only wait and see. When Fu Ying came home from school and heard Fu Yu talking about this, she quickly advised her,

"Sister, I think it's enough for you to plant a large piece of land and a small piece of land at home, interplant corn and potatoes, and plant the rest for my second aunt's family, or plant something simple and trouble-free."

Fu Yu was a little confused, "So little planting is not enough, right?"

"Of course it's not enough. Just those two plots of land, it will take you at least two days to finish planting them, even if Fu Zhe and I go there.

But if Fu Zhe and I were both going, what would we do with the three little ones? Wang Ruizhong and Wang Ruiya could play by themselves, and they could just watch TV together at Fourth Aunt's house. But Wang Ruixuan was too young to be taken care of by others, so we had to carry him on our backs. If we carried him on our backs, he would not be comfortable, and his speed would definitely slow down.

It's okay to lend a few plots of land to my second aunt's family. It's not good to leave the land idle. Lending it to her family to farm is a favor, but you don't have to help her family.

You know Second Aunt, you helped her this time, but next time she will definitely keep calling you. It was like this before, she kept calling mom, and when mom said she didn’t want to go, she called me for being lazy. She also kept calling me, and I would never go. "

"It's not good not to go even if Second Aunt asks you to!"

"Then think about it, if Fu Zhe and I go to school and Second Aunt asks you to help, will you go? Then the question arises again, who will take care of your third child? Rely on Second Uncle? How is that possible?

Second Aunt would definitely say that they can just put it on the bed as long as it doesn’t fall off, and she would let Wang Ruizhong and the others play with the third and fourth children of his family. But think about it, how could Second Uncle control them? It’s good enough that he doesn’t scold them.”

Moreover, Fu Ying didn't want Wang Ruiya to go to Fu Ergu's house.

She didn't like going to other people's homes, and she hated going to her second aunt Fu's home even more because she hated her second uncle.

Fu Ying clearly remembered the disgusting behavior of her second uncle. Strictly speaking, he was guilty of child molestation.

Fu Ying remembers that when she was a child, she went to her second aunt's house with her friends in the village. At that time, her family didn't have a yard. Her second uncle would deliberately push the little girl's butt from behind when her second aunt was not around and there were not many people around. He didn't dare to touch her, but he would pull the little girl to the bed and push her a few times on purpose, which was also indecent behavior.

I forgot the exact time, but it was probably before elementary school. I guess I saw that the little girl was confused and didn’t know what it meant, so I didn’t dare to spread it.

Fu Ying was sure that he did this to more than one child, but there might not be more actions, and because everyone was too embarrassed to speak up, the matter did not become a big deal in the village.

During the two years that Fu Ying lived at her second aunt's house, she lived in her own home. But Fu Ying remembered that there were a few times when she stayed in bed and couldn't get up, and her second uncle deliberately scolded her all the way to her house to wake her up. The way he woke her up was to call her impatiently and directly lift the quilt as soon as he entered the door.

Fu Ying's first reaction was that she was lucky she wore clothes when she went to bed, otherwise she would have been seen naked. Then she became angry, wondering why he had lifted her blanket.

The second uncle lifted her quilt and immediately scolded her, saying that she was procrastinating. Then, as if everything was her fault, he turned around and left.

Looking back now, he did it on purpose, just to excuse his disgusting behavior.

Although Fu Ying was not sure whether his behavior was right or wrong at that time, she had learned to be vigilant. As long as she heard his voice, she would get up immediately, answer that he was awake and would not stay in bed, nor would she give him the chance to enter.

Does Fu Ergu know about these things?

Fu Ying was sure she knew what was going on. She knew what kind of people around her were like. Whenever she and her second uncle quarreled or fought, she would always call him "old pervert, shameless." How could she not know?

But she did not tell the little girl not to play alone in her house, nor did she keep a close eye on her second uncle to prevent him from doing anything inappropriate.

Standing by and watching may not be a crime, but it is wrong.

Fu Ying didn't know whether Fu Yu had the same experience as a child.

There's no way to ask about this kind of thing.

But Fu Ying wants to prevent Wang Ruiya from suffering the same thing and leaving bad memories.

So now Fu Ying has to avoid asking Fu Yu and Wang Ruiya to go to his house less often or even not at all.

"Sister, think about it again. If we leave the child at his house to help her farm, then why do we have to lend the land to my second aunt's family? We can farm the land ourselves.

If the second aunt wants to plant, then let her plant, but you can't spare the time to help her, this is a condition. Giving her the land and helping her, how can it be possible that all the good things are taken by her family?

If she really asks for it, you can also ask her to help take care of her third and fourth children. You see, those children are definitely more reliable than her second uncle, and this will also help her family. Are you not satisfied with that?

Similarly, if someone around you is having a wedding banquet and needs help, don't go. You are representing your parents anyway, so as long as the money is there, don't go if you can. Think about those who don't work outside the home, aren't they also taking care of the children at home and not helping out? We haven't failed to give the gifts we should have given, so it's okay if one person is missing.

Don't be silly and go whenever someone calls you. You are too diligent. Some people will deliberately ask you for help for no reason. "

Fu Yu suddenly laughed.

"The tone of your words would make someone who doesn't know think you are the older sister and I am the younger sister."

Fu Ying choked.

"I'm reminding you that you're too hardworking. Others ask you for everything, including your parents, and you don't even have time to rest.

Do what you should do, and don't do what you don't need to do. It's just like going to work. Ask your brother-in-law, he can't rush to do everything. Mom will be lazy at work, and you will be lazy at home. If you do everything, you will tire yourself out. Helping is a favor, and not helping is just what is right."

Fu Yu said sternly, "Okay, I know. I will decide based on the situation. I won't do anything that's not my job. If Second Aunt asks me to do it, I will push it."

Fu Ying nodded and reminded Fu Yu to keep it in mind. According to Fu Yu's personality, she must have done more than others, but she should be told not to do things for free, and not to wait until she has suffered a lot of grievances before she wakes up.

Afterwards, Fu Yu called Fu's mother and decided to lend the two large, narrow plots of land on the ridge to Fu Ergu's family. He would plant the large plot himself and sow vegetable seeds on the other small plots.