After a simple rebirth

After dinner that night, Fu Yu was on the phone.

First, I called Fu's mother to find out whether Fu Wei had asked her for money. Fu's mother said that he had given her fifteen hundred yuan. Fu Wei's reason was that he needed a deposit to rent a house, two deposits and one payment, so Fu's mother gave him cash.

After Fu Yu hung up the phone, he called Fu Wei angrily and asked him what job he was doing. Fu Wei said he was working as a clerk. Fu Yu asked for more details about the job, and Fu Wei had to say that his boss was not good and was very stingy. He had worked for half a month and then quit. Because he was absent from work, he did not receive any salary.

And now? Fu Wei is still looking for a job. Many jobs require education and skills, so he is eager to attend night school to improve his academic qualifications.

Fu Wei is not that tough now, so he answered Fu Yu's question vaguely but still.

Fu Yu cursed a few words and hung up the phone, but he was still angry.

If Fu Ying hadn't pointed it out, she would still be thinking that it was not easy for Fu Weigang to work, and although she didn't have any money, she would borrow money from a friend and give it to him first. But he actually didn't have a job. Could it be that he was really a rich young master like Fu Ying said?

Fu Ying came over to get some water, and seeing Fu Yu so angry, she had no choice but to comfort her.

"Sister, to be honest, I think you guys are too supportive of him. He is already 20 years old, and it is time for him to experience the hardships of society. When you were 20, you would have been working, contributing to the family, and preparing to get married.

If he is still studying, then his studies are indeed the most important thing. However, since he gave up studying and chose to work, he must bear the consequences of this choice.

His biggest problem now is that he cannot see clearly the real situation in life. To put it more seriously, he lacks the sense of responsibility and the responsibility that a man should have.

If he is working hard but really needs help, it is good to help him. Not to mention his closest family members, even friends will lend a hand.

But there is a saying that goes 'help in emergencies but not in poverty'.

I don't know how he was doing during those two years in Su Province, but it is obvious that he hasn't changed his bad habit of having high expectations but low skills. There is no such thing as a free lunch.

No matter who you are, when you work, you have to face various problems from your boss and colleagues. There is no job that is not hard, and there is no really good boss. There are only things you can tolerate and things you cannot tolerate.

He is already this old, but he still doesn’t know how to judge the importance of things. If he can’t listen, let society teach him.”

After listening to Fu Ying saying a lot of bad things about Fu Wei, Fu Yu started to explain.

"Your brother just went to Guangdong Province. He really doesn't have any money. I'm here to help him."

“Yes, you want to help him, but I think you have to consider the method and scale.

Otherwise, you will be like in the dream, where he asks you to borrow money, and you can do so, but you must stipulate when to pay it back.

I remember when you hadn't made up your mind with him at the beginning and you still trusted him, he borrowed more than 20,000 yuan from you over and over again, but he delayed paying it back for three years. Because of this, your brother-in-law had a few arguments with you, and he almost said that your family was holding you back and deliberately borrowed money and didn't pay it back.

Later, it was because of you that he put pressure on him and he worked in a factory near his home for a year and then paid you back.

After paying off the debt, he goes out to make trouble again and asks you to borrow money again. Is this fun? Is it worth it to make your family unhappy because of him?

So it’s not that the factory can’t make money, nor that he is really completely incompetent, but that he deliberately procrastinates and works for three days and rests for two days.

To be honest, Fu Zhe also changed jobs frequently in the beginning, but he was more realistic and knew that at least he had to work hard, and changing jobs frequently did not mean he would stay at home for several months or half a year without working.

Moreover, Fu Zhe knew that his parents had a difficult life, so he never asked them for large sums of money, nor did he force them to give him any money. This is a very fundamental difference.

Later, Fu Zhe got married. It may be because of the need to support his family that Fu Zhe's job became stable and he became more sensible, but his personal character is still very important.

Fu Wei always said that because of the existence of Fu Zhe and I, his parents could not fully support him in doing business. However, his parents also supported several of his businesses. Then, when he failed due to his own problems, he thought it was because his family was not supportive.

But to be fair, have his parents ever lacked anything for him since he was a child? He wants to go to high school in the county town, and they agree to let him rent a house, even though it is difficult for his parents to give him living expenses on time every month. If his parents are really so unfair, like some families in the village, he can't even go to high school, right?

He had no living expenses or travel expenses, so we gave him all the money.

Although his mother's words were harsh, she always urged him to work and to consider starting a family soon. Did she pressure him to work and support the family? Did he support the family?

He said that Fu Zhe and I lived a good life with our parents, and he was a left-behind child, but did we really live a good life? What about the days of living under the roof of my second aunt and sixth uncle? And you also know the living and food conditions in Guangdong Province, was it really a good life?

Fu Zhe and I are still studying, but we have been working part-time to support our family. I also work during the winter and summer vacations. We spend a lot, but we also earn money for the family.

He said that his resistance paved the way for us, and made his parents give in on many things and not control everything. But why didn't he say that his struggles made Fu Zhe and I's lives worse. Fu Zhe also thought about starting a business and tried to ask his parents for help, but his parents couldn't come up with the money. Where did the money go? He spent all of it. Isn't it because of him that Fu Zhe has no more possibilities?

Fu Zhe and I both understood the difficulties our parents faced, so we didn't make a fuss.

You know me. I try to rely on myself if I can and try my best to understand the difficulties my parents face.

But our consideration is not a reason to be bullied all the time. He has a temper so he can keep making trouble. But Fu Zhe and I don’t have tempers so we should feel wronged, right?

My mom always says that I should give in to Fu Wei, but why?

Family harmony should not be purchased at the expense of other children.

Why do you think I worry about whether the family buys the land behind? Because if the family money is used to buy the land, there will be no money for Fu Wei to start a business, and it is also an extra guarantee for Fu Zhe. While it is still possible to buy land, my parents will be comfortable when they return home in the future. If they want to raise pigs and chickens, there will be space and they can choose.

If you can get more by fighting and competing, who would be willing to give silently?

The human heart is made of flesh.

I won't quarrel with him in front of you. I will ignore Fu Wei during the New Year and pretend that he doesn't exist. This is already suppressing my temper."

Fu Yu became even more silent.

Fu Ying also used this opportunity to vent her emotions.

After venting, each person needs time and space to be quiet.

Fu Ying didn't ask about it later, but she heard Fu Yu talk about it with her mother on the phone.

Let Fu Wei find a stable job first. He cannot come up with money at this critical juncture and really wants to improve his academic qualifications. He can wait until the second half of next year when he can save some money and his family can relax a little.

Fu Ying didn't know what the young master said, nor did she care.

Without mentioning him or seeing him, Fu Ying really treated this person as if he didn't exist.

His business has nothing to do with her.