I am in the courtyard, animals are just vegetables!

"Dongfang, don't you need help from others when you cook at home? It's not fast enough for one person, right?" Commander Song's second brother's wife asked Cao Dongfang.

Cao Dongfang, "No need for help, I cook very quickly and I know how to manage my time."

Song Wanjun, “Time management, what is this?”

“Time management refers to the flexible and effective use of time through advance planning and the use of certain skills, methods and tools to achieve the established goals of individuals or organizations!

Mainstream business management education in the West includes time management ability as a basic requirement for business managers.

Time management is important!

It allows a person to do things in an orderly manner without being disorganized.

Learn to save time so that you can have time to do other things. "Cao Dongfang had to popularize science again.

"Is that so? It seems we are also using it, but we haven't learned it specifically!" Song Wancheng understood.

"It should be, but it hasn't been theorized!" Song Wanjun also knew.

.......

"Dongfang, you have time, what do you usually do after dinner?" Song Wanjun's wife asked again.

Cao Dongfang, "I go out for a walk, check out the neighborhood, study at home, watch TV with my mom, and talk to my sister. I'm pretty much like a normal person!"

"Don't you have to work when you go home?" Sister-in-law Song Wanfang was a little surprised.

Cao Dongfang, "No, public affairs are public affairs, private affairs are private affairs. If I can't finish my public affairs, I can stay at home or do them the next day. I won't bring my work home. It's not good for the family!"

Commander Song, "Why? Isn't it okay to do some work at home?"

"There are many reasons, the main one is that you are just like normal people. The reason I keep saying that you are not ordinary people is that -

No ordinary people take their work home.

Over time, you get used to it and you are no longer an ordinary person.

I never used martial arts in our courtyard. I often talked with ordinary people and boasted with them.

Uncle Song has done this several times.

We are generals only when we are working, and we are just ordinary people when we go home.

This is family life.

Going to work is office life.

Second, bringing work home has a huge impact on the family, especially for senior officials.

When we return home, we are just an ordinary member of the family, not a general. I am just my mother's son and my sister's brother, that's all.

If you bring work home and it doesn't go well, you won't be happy. Once it's revealed, your whole family will be in a bad mood.

Home is a place for rest and a safe haven, not a place to vent your emotions.

Sometimes yes!

Vent your dissatisfaction, depression and other emotions with people close to you! "Cao Dongfang\Speak your mind.

"Just be careful not to let your family know about your emotions!" Song Wancheng still felt that the problem was not serious.

Cao Dongfang, "It's impossible. For example, you have lived with Third Aunt for many years, and Third Aunt knows all your habits.

Touching your nose or frowning can reveal your mood without saying it.

I studied psychology, and a person’s body language can tell a lot.”

"Old Song, Dongfang is right this time. We have been married for almost 20 years, and I know your little habits very well.

For example, if you touch your ears, you are lying because you feel guilty! "Song Wancheng's wife continued.

"Then don't you talk about any business at all when you go home?" Song Wancheng asked.

"No, you can say something, like someone bullied me, things didn't go well at work today, something wasn't done well, it wasn't as good as expected, etc.

If you are severely bullied or are in the right, you can help your family solve the problem.

As for not being satisfied with work, generally not understanding, or not allowing others to interfere, then there is nothing we can do but say a few words of encouragement!

For example, if Commander Song has problems at work, Aunt Song definitely cannot solve them. She can only encourage him and tell him to do better next time.

For example, Xianxian told me that a patient’s arm was not set properly today.

what can I do.

I really don't know how to set bones, so I'll just cut off the patient's arm and there won't be any need for bone setting.

impossible! Absolutely impossible!

I can only encourage you and learn some medical skills. Next time something like this happens, pay more attention and you will be able to do it beautifully! You are fine!

Of course you can! I believe you can do it! "Cao Dongfang said with a smile.

Everyone in the Song family: "......."

I've learned a lot! If the arm can't be reattached, it will be amputated. If it can't be cured, then all of it will be amputated.

Cao Dongfang is so talented.

How did you come up with this idea?

"Hahahaha! I'm dying of laughter. What if the arm can't be connected properly? It's cut off!"

Sister-in-law Song Wanfang laughed.

"This time I think Dongfang is right. When we were rubbing shoulders with the Russian bear in February, you, Old Song, were gloomy every day and stayed in the study room until late at night!

I was also in a bad mood and couldn’t sleep at night!

It has a great impact on us. "Auntie Song thinks this is the truth.

"Our government officials all like to take their work home. Why?" Song Wancheng was confused again.

"In a country's system, we usually work in a certain system until we retire. For example, Uncle Song is a soldier, and Uncle San is a government official.

It's basically impossible to interchange!

It’s different in the West, they are elected and a term basically lasts four years, or at most two terms!

For example, in the United States, their boss may have been a doctor, lawyer, government official, or any other profession before becoming the boss.

Once he comes to power, he will also appoint government officials, who may not necessarily have been heads of a department.

For example, the Ministry of National Defense may be composed of civilians who have never served in the military in their lives.

The National Security Chief may just be the security chief of a large corporation.

Almost all senior officials of the previous government were dismissed and replaced by a new group.

A new emperor chooses new ministers! This is true in the West!

This results in two phenomena, one of which is job instability!

The work he does today may not necessarily be the work he does tomorrow!

Another reason is that foreigners care more about personal time and would be dissatisfied if work takes up their personal time.

Need more money!

This one is the most important!

The labor cost of foreigners is very high! But our country doesn’t care about labor cost! Let’s talk about dedication! It’s normal to bring work home!

There is another reason why I do not agree with senior officials bringing work home and discussing work at home! That is -

Leak!

Whether intentional or unintentional, if it is spoken out, it will hurt others and yourself.

So you can talk about some work at home, but you can’t talk about confidential work. It’s too harmful to the family! "Cao Dongfang told several people his thoughts.

"I understand what you mean. We need to be careful about leaks and talk less about work matters." Commander Song nodded in agreement.

......

"Dongfang, you don't have a big appetite. You only ate one and a half steamed buns and you didn't even eat them! Is the food not tasty?" Aunt Song saw that Cao Dongfang didn't eat much.

"My appetite is just one and a half steamed buns for lunch and dinner, regardless of the dishes.

This is the appetite. I can only eat two large meat buns weighing four taels! "Cao Dongfang explained.

Song Wanfang, "Your appetite is not good, it was just better in the past few years!"

“In the past few years, the monthly food subsidy from the East in 1958 was kilograms of flour. Is there a need to save money?

There are three people in the family, so we can’t finish it all! "Commander Song smiled.

"Just the food supply is 150 kilograms of flour a month, and I can only ask someone to buy 3 to 5 kilograms a month at most! What a huge gap!" Song Wanfang said with a wry smile.

"Don't compare people with each other. Has Dongfang ever eaten coarse grains?" asked Song Wanjun's wife.

"Occasionally I would steam some steamed bread to let my sister know what coarse grains are. In the end, the three of us ate one steamed bread and gave the rest away.

My family hasn't eaten coarse grains normally since August 53. The country should make efforts to remove coarse grains from people's tables.

Whole grains are too coarse and hurt your throat! They are also hard to digest! "Cao Dongfang told the truth.

"Alas! There are not enough coarse grains to eat, so there is no possibility of growing fine grains!" Song Wancheng sighed.

Cao Dongfang, "Uncle San, please also note the grain production in those pilot areas. They should be more than before, and no less than the peak production in 57."

“Is it possible? What’s the reason!” Song Wancheng didn’t understand.

"The world is bustling with people because of profit. Now it concerns their personal interests. It's different!"

"Let's talk about this matter when we get back. It's not a big deal. We need to record all the pilot sites! We need to summarize the experience!" Song Wancheng understood this point.

"Dongfang, you don't drink, so your alcohol tolerance is not good?" Song Wanfang asked.

Cao Dongfang, "I can drink quite well! Drinking is a waste of alcohol, so I usually don't drink."

Song Wanfang, "How much do you drink at most?"

"More than ten kilograms. The most I drank once was ten kilograms without any reaction. I drank with Army Commander Kong Jie and Army Commander Li Yunlong in this compound!"