I am in the courtyard, animals are just vegetables!

"Don't you and your aunt dislike my gossip?" Song Xianxian was worried about this issue.

"No, my mother and I don't like to gossip about others. We like to see nothing wrong and say bad things about them. We don't like gossipers. That's what bored women at home do!

It’s okay to say it at home, but if you say it outside, it will easily offend people and it will not do you any good!

I watched it out of boredom. My sister has liked watching it since she was five or six years old, but she is too young. "Cao Dongfang explained.

"That's true. It's boring to watch and it's not good to say anything. It seems like we women all like to watch the fun!" Song Xianxian also thought that what people outside said was not good.

“Women seem to be more curious than men, but as long as you know the right balance and the person doesn’t have bad intentions, that’s fine.

No one is perfect, and no gold is pure! "Cao Dongfang actually thinks that there is nothing wrong with liking to watch the fun, it's still boring.

"Aren't your requirements high? They seem to be similar to those of ordinary people!" Song Xianxian was a little curious.

“I am just an ordinary person. There is no need to make myself high and mighty and end up like an ancient emperor.

It’s boring to be alone, without even a friend. “Cao Dongfang doesn’t like that.

"fair enough!

......

"You've been walking for such a long time. Are you tired? Do your feet hurt?" Cao Dongfang asked Song Xianxian.

"I'm not tired and my feet don't hurt. I'm in good health. Before I went to college, my father gave us military training!" Song Xianxian replied.

“That’s pretty much what life is like for a military family.”

Song Xianxian: "It seems to be true. Seven or eight years ago, almost all the children in the compound received military training, including the girls, as long as they were not too young.

Li Yunlong, the commander of the army, was training his children at home. His children were young and had very loud voices, so they could be heard even without leaving the house.

"He is over 50 years old and a senior general of the country, but he is still almost like a bandit. It's interesting!" Cao Dongfang thought of Li Yunlong.

"He's interesting and very outgoing. He's not afraid of anyone and he often brags to kids our age." Song Xianxian said with a smile.

"Of course he's not afraid. He's that kind of person. The people he's afraid of are dead now. No one can control him. He's made as many mistakes as he's accomplished. He's a pure warrior!"

......

"Why didn't you take the college entrance examination? Couldn't you pass? That shouldn't be the case!" Song Xianxian was quite curious about this.

"I studied very well! I scored 699 points in the high school entrance exam, just one point away from a perfect score. I can be said to be the top scorer in that year's exam!

I didn’t take the college entrance exam because I didn’t need to go to college. I was always self-taught! And I was taking care of the family! My sister was less than five years old at that time! "Cao Dongfang explained.

"You are learning Mark language now, will you continue to learn it when you come here?"

"Learn when you have nothing to do and learn when it is useful. As I get older, I need to learn more. Next, I want to study world history or international economics and trade!"

“It takes so much time to learn so much!”

"One or two years for each course, depending on my schedule!"

"So fast, don't you want to learn our medicine? As long as someone is sick, you just cut it?" Song Xianxian teased.

“Haha, that was just a joke. I didn’t study medicine because it’s a bit of a niche subject for me and not very useful in national construction.

I studied nuclear physics, dynamics, and materials science because the country at that time was in great need of these raw materials and technologies.

If I go abroad to look for a job, but I don't know anything, it will be bad for my job and I will be completely in the dark.

History is something I have been learning since I was a child. Just like the Mao Xiong language, I also learned the Eagle Sauce language.

Learning Mark language means I want to truly understand the country of Mark!

Of course, the most important thing now is to get to know you first. I have a good impression of you. What are your criteria for choosing a partner? "

......

"Ah, why do you think I'm a good person? What if...what if it's not what you think? You will regret it." Song Xianxian didn't quite follow Cao Dongfang's train of thought.

"One is intuition, and the other is that everyone has some flaws. We are not saints. As long as it's not a serious problem, it's fine." Cao Dongfang knew his choice.

“I may have some minor problems, but not any major ones. At least my parents, classmates, and colleagues have never told me about them.

I haven’t thought about my mate selection criteria carefully. I think it’s OK if I don’t hate someone. My mom always says that after marriage, both of us have to accommodate each other in life. "Song Xianxian replied.

"Aunt Song is right. The more you interact with each other, the more you will understand each other's faults. Just tolerate each other. Um... you don't seem to have severe mysophobia!"

Cao Dongfang asked Song Xianxian very carefully. He had seen such people in his previous life and was really afraid of them.

Song Xianxian, "Hahahaha, you can't stand this? Does everything have to be clean? I don't. Although I'm a doctor, I've only seen one person since I went to college to study medicine.

One of our teachers, a female teacher, is in her sixties. She is too fond of cleanliness and washes her hands twenty or thirty times a day, which is considered too few. She also asks us to be clean too.

She basically has no friends and lives alone now. I have only been to her house once and never again.

She thinks we are not clean enough, so when we enter her house, we have to do things according to her requirements from the moment we change our shoes to the moment we enter the house, and she even mops the floor in front of us.

This is rude to guests!

Some teachers said she was sick, and that cleanliness had become a disease!

"Being too clean makes others like her bad. I just heard that doctors are too clean and some people seem to have mysophobia.

Forcing yourself to be clean and others to be clean as well, it exceeds the limit of a normal person! "Cao Dongfang is very afraid of people with mysophobia. He had seen too many doctors in his previous life.

"Hospitals are not clean. There are many patients and many kinds of bacteria. It is normal to wash your hands more often. It is not good to force others to do the same to you."

"People have different ideas. As long as they don't go too far, there's no need to make them the same as you. If they all do, the consequences will be terrible." Cao Dongfang said with a smile.

"Terrible consequences, what consequences." Song Xianxian had never thought about it.

"Everyone is the same, there is no need to understand. Just look at their appearance, whether they have any disabilities, their height. It's all fine, there is no need to understand.

Everyone is the same, what do you know? Just like your father and brother, this is a husband or a brother! "Cao Dongfang complained.

"Hahaha, it's better if people are different. If they are all the same, I can't imagine what that would be like!" Song Xianxian also found it ridiculous.

......

"It's half past nine. We've arrived at the military compound. It's about time. I'll take you back!

I'll go to your unit at noon tomorrow. What do you want to eat? Braised pork, fish, chicken stewed with mushrooms! What time is dinner? "Cao Dongfang sent Song Xianxian back to the military compound.

"Not too much. Aren't you afraid that others will see us eating too well? From 12 o'clock to 1 o'clock is the dinner time." Song Xianxian was still a little worried.

Cao Dongfang, "I don't care. If you dare to say that I eat well, then they eat badly. What does it have to do with me? I went to see you. It has nothing to do with others!"

"That's right. Then I won't bring any lunch tomorrow. I'll wait for your meal and have some braised pork!" Song Xianxian said happily.

"good!"

......

"Dongfang, how do you feel about Xianxian?" Mother asked Cao Dongfang when she got home.

"It's OK as long as there's nothing wrong with it. I'm not the picky type!"

"Yes, Xianxian is very good, she doesn't have any temper, except that she can't learn to cook, which is a small matter in our family.

"If you think it's a good idea, then talk about it and get married. It's not good to drag it out!" Mom approved of Song Xianxian.

"I won't delay. The sooner we talk about it, the sooner we can get married. My schedule is not fixed."

"That's right, it's up to you to decide. Jiajia, wash up and get ready to rest!"

......

Chen Xueru, "I am with your girlfriend today. What do you think of her? Is she suitable for marriage?"

"I've met her twice and I feel like it should be okay. We'll know whether it's good or not over time. It's not a big deal. Today I'm at her house mainly to talk to her family.

I only talk to her more at my house at night, so it shouldn't be a big problem." Cao Dongfang explained the situation.

"You don't care about finding a wife yourself. You're better than me. I never even met anyone before. I got married as soon as I got a marriage contract."

"In your era, it was your parents' words and the matchmaker's words that arranged the marriage. Most people got married that way, and it was good enough if they met each other before the marriage."

"That's true, but there don't seem to be many divorces. Everyone is just making do with their lives."

"If there wasn't such a big gap between you and Hou Jie, and if you weren't so strong, Hou Jie wouldn't necessarily go to the Northwest. It's hard to say.

Therefore, it is better for two people to marry each other with equal status, with small differences in all aspects, and they can basically have a common language when talking, and the rest of the time they just need to be less irritable! "

"Alas! That's possible. I just looked down on Hou Jie's work and liked to talk about him!

He ran away, and he admitted that he went to the northwest, and a big reason was to avoid me. Why would he go to the northwest if a divorce was not enough?