I am in the courtyard, animals are just vegetables!

"Hahaha, Xianxian, how many years are you going to remember Qian Guo? Be generous, forgive him, and don't argue with him anymore?" Song Qianli laughed.

"I was just joking. It doesn't cost much to get married nowadays. I have only saved less than 10,000 yuan. I don't care!" Song Xianxian said very generously.

"Look at what you are capable of. After you get married, have a baby as soon as possible. Then you will be a good boy after you become a mother.

I'm annoyed to see you now.

Did you and Cao Dongfang tell us how many children you plan to have, boys or girls? If you can't have a boy, you won't even have time to cry. "Auntie Song is worried about Song Xianxian.

"Hahahaha! Mom, you're wrong again. I'm lucky and can only give birth once, regardless of gender.

And Dongfang said that since I am a twin, a boy and a girl, there is a high chance that I will give birth to twins, a boy and a girl.

It doesn’t matter whether you have a boy or a girl, it’s better to have a girl.

Boys are disliked and ignored when they are seven or eight years old. They are naughty and annoying. "Song Xianxian became excited when she heard about having a baby.

"Haha, if you give birth to a girl, how will you provide for her in her old age? Girls belong to other families." Aunt Song didn't understand.

"Hahaha, when I said this, Dongfang said that I suffered from my lack of education. Mom, the same goes for you. I will say this from any angle in the future.

Daughters are more suitable for old-age care than sons. Including carrying on the family line! "Song Xianxian was very happy about this.

"Nonsense! Raising children to provide for old age has been a tradition in our country for more than a thousand years. How can it be wrong?" Aunt Song said dissatisfiedly.

"Xianxian, tell me why, or why did Cao Dongfang say that? He must have his reasons for saying that!" Commander Song was also very curious.

Except for Song Chunyu and Song Chunsheng, everyone in the family was staring at Song Xianxian.

"Ahem, today I will tell you why the East believes that daughters are more suitable for old-age care than sons.

Everyone, take notes and I will check them. "

"Song Xianxian, are you itching for trouble again? Speak nicely, or I'll beat you up." Aunt Song's temper flared up!

“Hahahaha, Xianxian, be quiet!”

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"I'm afraid you won't remember it, right?

The main problem is that in the past women did not earn money and had no jobs, so how did they support their parents in their old age?

It is different now. Many women have jobs and are able to provide for their parents in their old age. This is more critical.

Next is why ancient women said that a daughter who is married off is like water spilled.

The main problem is changing the surname. Except for the son-in-law, everyone has to take the husband's surname. For example, if I want to be called Cao Song Xianxian, I have to change my surname!

How to enter the Song family's ancestral tomb, family tree, and provide for parents in their old age have become empty talk.

Bloodline inheritance!

And according to foreigners' research, human blood types are divided into four types: O type, A type, B type and AB type!

From a bloodline perspective, a child can only have one of the parents' blood types, with a 50% chance that the child will have AB blood type only if the parents have A or B blood type.

In terms of bloodline, boys and girls have the same chance of inheriting the bloodline.

In the West, blood transfusions are also based on blood type, not the relationship between parent and child.

I see. The following is the biggest difference between ancient and modern times.

At that time, women basically did not go out, and working was even more of a non-starter.

You have to tell your husband's family when you go back to your parents' home, which happens ten times a year because they live closer or your parents' family has more power!

Nowadays, many women visit their parents' home after get off work or go back to their parents' home every two or three days.

This is about time and women's autonomy, which is very important and very different from ancient women.

What remains is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law that basically everyone has to face when it comes to supporting the son in his old age.

The relationship between father-in-law and son-in-law and the daughter in her old age.

From the perspective of interpersonal relationships, the relationship between father-in-law and son-in-law has many benefits than the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Therefore, daughters should be the mainstream in providing for the elderly, rather than sons.

As for Dongfang and me, Mom, I'm sorry to disappoint you again. Dongfang is a congenital grandmaster and lives to be 200 years old.

You don't need your son to take care of you in your old age. Your daughter will have Dongfang to take care of her when she's old. You don't need your son or daughter. You're envious, right?" Song Xianxian said very proudly.

"Hahahaha, I finally understand why Cao Dongfang knows more about history than others?

He was looking at the differences between ancient and modern people. In my country, more and more people are taking care of their daughters in their old age.

The relationship between father-in-law and son-in-law is better than that between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. "Commander Song figured it out.

"Mom, it seems that what Xianxian said makes sense. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really not as good as the relationship between father-in-law and son-in-law.

A comrade-in-arms of mine was drinking with his father-in-law. After they drank too much, they decided to become sworn brothers.

It can't be stopped.

After sobering up, the father-in-law and son-in-law were so embarrassed that they could dig out a villa with their feet. A few days later, they started drinking together again.

Don't even think about the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law." Song Qianli smiled and agreed with Song Xianxian's statement.

"Hahahaha, second brother, your comrades-in-arms are also talented!" Song Xianxian laughed.

"Humph, his comrade's last name is Song Qianli. He was drinking with my dad at my house. Although he couldn't hold his liquor, the two of them insisted on drinking.

After two bottles of wine, they become good brothers.

My mother and I were almost too embarrassed to face people, but the two of them got more and more excited as they drank, and they did it every few days.

After drinking, they sang at my doorstep with their arms around each other’s shoulders!

I was so embarrassed that I almost dug out half of the country! How embarrassing! "Wu Qingyan said contemptuously.

"Hahaha, second brother, you are awesome! You can do this, awesome!" Song Xianxian laughed.

"Qianli, drink less with your father-in-law. He is not young anymore!" Commander Song tried to smooth things over.

Aunt Song, "I didn't expect it! I never expected it! You, Song Qianli, are amazing. You drank with your father-in-law and became sworn brothers. You deserve a beating just like Song Xianxian."

"It's a small matter. It's normal for a son-in-law to drink with his father-in-law. He drank too much and acted out of control. Be careful next time!" Song Qianli felt a little embarrassed.

Wu Qingyan, “But what Xianxian said about daughters being better for old-age care than sons should make sense.

Favoring sons over daughters, it seems that the women favor sons over daughters even more! "

"Dongfang also said that in foreign countries, whether in the East or the West, there is no such thing as favoring boys over girls, so it doesn't matter whether you have a boy or a girl!" Song Xianxian was educated.

"That was Cao Dongfang's idea, and what about his mother?" Aunt Song asked the key question.

"Aunt Cao is more open-minded than you. Boys or girls, they are all good children if you raise them well.

She also knew that Dongfang could live to be 200 years old and didn't need anyone to take care of him in his old age! "Song Xianxian explained.

Song Qianli, "In the future, we are only allowed to have one child, which is troublesome. It is better to have two children in one family. At least a son is worse than one child!"

Song Xianxian, "Haha, second brother, you are wrong. Our country is a society based on favors. Having two children will open a loophole, and things will be difficult to deal with.

Just one child or several twins at a time, no one can make use of loopholes, only then can our country's population go down!

my country implemented family planning in 55, allowing two children per family. The result? In ten years, another million people were born.

The country really can't afford to support too many people. This population calculation is not difficult. A large population is really terrible! "

"How do you know it so clearly? You are not like before!" Song Qianli asked puzzledly.

"Cao Dongfang has proposed that there will be more than 7 million people this year, at least 81 billion by 10, more than 2011 billion by 17, and it will take several years to reach billion.

There are too many problems here. There is not even enough food. Even if the harvest is good, there will still be famine. There is never enough food!

The country will also collapse. "Why did Commander Song say that?

"Damn, the population problem is so serious and no one understands it. Many people are criticizing this policy!" Song Qianli was surprised.

"Haha, Cao Dongfang doesn't care whether these people scold him or not. The population in his mind is between 200 million and 300 million people." Commander Song said.

"Cao Dongfang is so scary, Xianxian, you have to be careful!" Song Qianli said with a smile.

"Dongfang separates work and life, and Dongfang has always put his family first and then the rest of the family. It's okay for me to be at home!" Song Xianxian didn't care.

Commander Song, "Xianxian is safe. Cao Dongfang is a person who puts his family first and then the rest of the world. This is a good thing. At least he will not treat Xianxian badly."

"That's all that matters. As long as Dongfang treats Xianxian well, it's fine. It's not my turn as a woman at home to take care of other things!"

"It's almost ten o'clock, time to rest." Commander Song said.

Song Xianxian, "It's only ten o'clock, no rush, I only work half a day tomorrow, I can just not go!"

"I don't care about you anymore. I'm going to wash up and rest!" Commander Song was very conscious.

"Old Song, you clean up and take a rest first. I'll chat with them and rest later!" Aunt Song didn't want to sleep.

No one in the family has to go to work, and the person with the most free time wants to spend more time playing with his grandchildren.

It doesn't matter if you go to bed late.

My eldest grandson is the most important!