Siheyuan: There are seven fairies in my house, I am so busy

"I am three years older than him, married, and have a little orchid. His family is well-off and he has a formal job. I don't think I am good enough for him.

If I were with him, people would gossip about me, which would have a bad influence on him.

The main reason is because of Xiao Lanhua. I am afraid that Xiao Lanhua will not be able to accept it. If I really agree to him, what if Xiao Lanhua hates me in the future? "

Zhang Jialiang found that what his elder sister said was exactly what he had thought. What his elder sister said was true, but not entirely correct.

The eldest sister was just caught in the middle of a situation and got stuck in a rut, so she couldn't see clearly.

"Sister, what you said is correct, but not comprehensive.

You have to understand that it was Chen Xiaoguang who liked you first, and he also knew your situation, so this was his own will, and you should not belittle yourself.

You may not know how charming you are. If I were Chen Xiaoguang, I would like you too.

First of all, you are very beautiful. You don’t have to deny that. All the girls in our family are beautiful, and you are one of them.

Secondly, you are kind and gentle, which are very good qualities that men like. Especially Chen Xiaoguang has lacked maternal love since childhood, so he may find a sense of home with you.

Besides, you have a formal job, so you are not a burden.

As for the most important little orchid, my opinion is exactly the opposite of yours. You should rebuild your family and give little orchid a warm home, which will be good for her healthy growth and will allow her to grow up healthy and happy.

As long as Chen Xiaoguang likes Xiao Lanhua and raises her as his own child, this is a good thing.

So the key now is not whether you think you are worthy of him or not, but to confirm whether he treats you sincerely?

The second question is whether he can treat Xiao Lanhua sincerely?

Also, do you accept him yourself, and does Xiao Lanhua accept him?

As long as these few issues are resolved, the rest are minor details. Other people's comments and opinions are not important. Living your life is your own business. Over time, as long as you live a happy life, others will not say anything. "

After listening carefully to what Zhang Jialiang said, Zhang Jiazhen felt that what her brother said made sense, but she didn't know what to do.

“How can we confirm these questions?”

Seeing that his eldest sister finally faced the matter head-on, Zhang Jialiang felt that the matter was half resolved. As long as his eldest sister could move on from her previous life and other people's opinions, she would have a new life.

“This is a simple question, and it requires you to face it yourself and test it over time.

It's easiest if you are sure of what you think in your heart.

If you want to determine Chen Xiaoguang's thoughts, you need to understand them through contact, and the same goes for Xiao Lanhua.

If you are sure of your idea, you can let Xiao Lanhua and Chen Xiaoguang get to know each other gradually. These problems can be solved after a period of time. As for how long it takes, it depends on the effect.

However, in this case, family members must know in advance. As for those in the compound and other people, it does not need to be made public yet. It will not be too late to make it public when the time is right. In this way, even if it fails, the impact will be smaller.

How about this? I'll go first. We two men have a good relationship. When we eat and drink together, no one will say anything. This way, our family will gradually become familiar with Chen Xiaoguang. What do you think?"

Zhang Jiazhen thought about it carefully and felt that what her brother said was very right and his considerations were very comprehensive. Of course, she couldn't just say yes directly, so she could only blush and agree in a low voice.

"I'll listen to my brother, so you can make the decision."

Zhang Jialiang did not delay and told his family about his eldest sister's affairs in the evening.

After hearing this, Zhang Jialiang's grandmother and mother did not oppose Zhang Jialiang's decision. They both supported their eldest daughter to move on from the past and start a new family.

When Chen Xiaoguang was suddenly called by Zhang Jialiang the next day and soon learned of the Zhang family's decision, he was of course overjoyed.

"Liangzi, that's great. I really like your elder sister. I'm so happy that your family can accept me. I don't know what to say!"

Seeing Chen Xiaoguang's overjoyed look, Zhang Jialiang still felt a little unhappy.

Although he now knows Chen Xiaoguang a little bit and he is indeed an okay person, he still feels a little uncomfortable when he thinks that his elder sister might follow him in the future.

Now he fully understood how every father-in-law felt about his prospective son-in-law. The more they looked at him, the more they disliked him. No one would feel comfortable watching their own cabbages being taken away.

"Tell the truth, when did you start to have feelings for my elder sister?

Don't try to lie to me, you'd better tell the truth, otherwise you won't be able to pass my test, and if you can't pass my test, then don't expect to be satisfied. "

Chen Xiaoguang didn't think much of Zhang Jialiang's unhappy attitude. He was still in an excited state. Besides, he understood that all his family members were like this. If his family members didn't care, it would be abnormal.

"Okay, then I'll tell you the truth. There's nothing to hide.

To be honest, I felt guilty at first. Your former brother-in-law had an accident, which was related to me after all, and caused your sister to suffer a lot.

Because of my guilt, I just wanted to make up for it at first, and use my ability to help your elder sister to the best of my ability. However, as time went by, I came into contact with your elder sister more and more, and I gradually fell in love with her. "

What Chen Xiaoguang said should be true. After all, he and the eldest sister didn’t know each other before, and he only met her after that incident.

"Okay, don't make it sound so noble. You said you feel guilty, and I believe it. After all, that incident did have something to do with you.

But I'm not unreasonable, and you can't be blamed for that. After all, you didn't do it on purpose, it was just a coincidence.

Now I'm talking about you and my elder sister. First, tell me whether you admit that you were attracted to my elder sister because of her beauty. Are you so dedicated to her because she is pretty?"

Zhang Jialiang first needs to confirm whether Chen Xiaoguang is attracted by the eldest sister's appearance. If he says no, Zhang Jialiang will reject the matter without hesitation. If he admits it, then the matter can continue to develop.

Zhang Jialiang believes that a man's interest in a woman begins with lust.

When a man is interested in a woman's appearance, he will have desire. When he has desire, he will have motivation and give his true heart.

If there is no desire at all, then it is hard to say. Chen Xiaoguang said that he felt guilty and wanted to make amends. If it is really just like this, it will not last long, and there is no need to continue to let the elder sister develop a relationship with him.