After rebirth, I was hugged and kissed by a crazy boss

Sorry everyone, been busy disconnecting from home this weekend.

Haha, it turns out that I have little connection with my relatives.

I envy Qingqing so much for having a family that loves her so much.

It turns out that you want what you lack.

But I've never experienced this kind of love.

Maybe...it's not written very accurately.

Haha.

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 The road to a misunderstood child's breakup with his family

 1. The Seed of Loneliness

In a seemingly ordinary family, Xiaolin is like a lonely seed that is deeply buried. He has been full of curiosity and unique understanding of the world since he was a child. He likes to look up at the starry sky, wondering what stories are hidden behind those twinkling stars; he likes to walk alone on the forest trails and listen to the truest voice of nature. However, his inner world is incompatible with this noisy world.

Xiaolin's parents are typical traditional parents. They want their son to be successful and their daughter to be successful. They have extremely high expectations for Xiaolin. They hope that Xiaolin can follow their plan and become a "successful person" recognized by society. However, they ignore Xiaolin's inner desire and uniqueness. They always require Xiaolin from an adult's perspective and standards, and ignore his interests and ideas, and even deny and suppress them.

At school, Xiaolin's situation did not improve much. Although he studied hard and his grades were pretty good, he seemed a bit out of place among his classmates. His way of thinking and hobbies were very different from those of his classmates, which made it difficult for him to integrate into group life. He often felt lonely and misunderstood, as if no one around him could understand his inner world.

As time went by, Xiaolin felt more and more lonely. He began to isolate himself and was unwilling to communicate his inner thoughts with the outside world. He felt that no one could truly understand him, and no one could enter his inner world. This feeling of loneliness and misunderstanding gradually eroded his soul, making his heart become heavier and heavier.

 2. Silent resistance

Facing the dual pressures of family and school, Xiaolin began to fight silently in his own way. He was no longer satisfied with the outside world's views and expectations of him, but began to pursue inner truth and freedom.

He began to indulge in his hobbies and interests, looking for things that could make him happy and satisfied. He immersed himself in the world of books, experiencing various adventures and challenges with the protagonists in the books; he also liked to search for topics of interest on the Internet and discuss and communicate with like-minded people. These activities allowed him to find a sense of comfort and release to a certain extent.

However, in real life, he has not completely escaped the constraints and influence of his family. Whenever he returns home, he has to face the blame and pressure from his parents. They don't understand why he is so obsessed with these "useless" things, and even think that he is wasting his time and energy. This contradiction and helplessness makes Xiaolin feel tormented.

He began to try to communicate with his parents, trying to explain his inner thoughts and pursuits to them. However, this kind of communication often turned into a quarrel and even caused family conflicts. His parents always judged Xiaolin's thoughts and behaviors based on their own experience, thinking that he was too idealistic and unrealistic. This state of being unable to communicate made Xiaolin feel more lonely and disappointed.

In order to vent his inner emotions and pressure, Xiaolin even began to look for some extreme ways to seek pleasure and excitement. Although this short-term pleasure made him forget the pain and pressure temporarily, it could not fundamentally solve the problem. On the contrary, this method would only make him sink deeper and deeper, and have a more negative impact on his physical and mental development.

 3. The moment of breaking through the cage

As time went by, Xiaolin's inner repression and rebellious emotions reached their peak. He seemed to be trapped in an invisible cage, eager to break free and pursue freedom and truth. And this day, the opportunity finally arrived.

It was a gloomy afternoon, and Xiaolin returned home as usual. However, the atmosphere at home was unusually heavy. His parents quarreled over some trivial matters again, and the sound was sharp and piercing. Xiaolin hid in his room, trying to block out the outside noise with earplugs, but the irritability in his heart could not be eliminated.

At this moment, his cell phone suddenly rang. It was a text message from his best friend online. The friend said, "Xiao Lin, I understand how you feel. I know what you have been enduring. If you feel that you can't stand it anymore, why not go out for a walk and see the world together."

This message was like a ray of light in the darkness, illuminating Xiaolin's inner world. He suddenly realized that there were people who could understand and support him. He was no longer a loner fighting alone, but a partner with whom he shared common pursuits and beliefs.

Driven by this impulse, Xiaolin made a bold decision: he would run away from home to find his own world and freedom. He packed some simple luggage, took his mobile phone and wallet, and quietly opened the door.

The moment he walked out of the house, he felt an unprecedented sense of ease and freedom. He took a deep breath, as if to release all the turbid air that had been suppressed in his heart for a long time. He knew that he was stepping into a brand new and unknown world. Although it was full of challenges and difficulties, he was ready.

During the time he was away from home, Xiaolin traveled to many places and saw all kinds of people and things. He saw the diversity and complexity of society, and felt the warmth and kindness of human nature. He began to think about the value and meaning of his life, and had a clearer plan and expectation for his future.

 4. The decision to sever the relationship

During the days of living alone, Xiaolin deeply experienced the difficulties and hardships of independent living. Without the care of his parents and the warmth of his family, he had to face all the trivialities and challenges of life alone. However, it was these difficulties and hardships that made him more determined to break off relations with his family.

Although running away from home gave him a brief moment of freedom and catharsis, he was soon surrounded by the pressure and loneliness of life again. He had to face a series of trivial and complicated problems such as finding a job, renting a house, and dealing with interpersonal relationships. In this process, he deeply felt the gap and gap between himself and his family.

He recalled that when he was at home, his parents always arranged everything for him, and he only needed to live according to their expectations. However, when he really stepped into society, he found that he was not well prepared and capable enough to cope with the various challenges in life. This feeling of helplessness and loss made him more determined to sever ties with his family.

In addition, he also realized that even if he went back, he could not change the fundamental contradictions and differences between him and his family. They always understood and demanded him in their own way, and he could never meet their expectations. This irreconcilable contradiction made him feel that the gap between him and his family was getting deeper and deeper, and he could no longer solve the problem through communication and compromise.

So, after careful consideration, Xiaolin made the decision to sever ties with his family. He knew it was a very difficult decision, but for his own freedom and future, he had to do it. He began to go through various procedures and cut off contact and relations with his family.

Of course, this decision also brought some changes to his life. He lost the protection and financial support of his family and had to rely on his own efforts to create a life. This change made him cherish his independence and freedom more, and also made him work harder to pursue his dreams and goals.

In the process of severing ties, Xiao Ai also went through a lot of mental journeys. He went through a process from hesitation, pain to determination. This experience made him think deeply about the relationship and differences between himself and his family, and also made him understand his inner needs and pursuits more clearly. He learned to face reality and bear the consequences, and became more resilient and independent.

However, this severance is not permanent. Xiaolin knows that one day he will reestablish a relationship with his family. But he believes that by then he will be able to face his family and family with a more mature, rational and independent attitude. He hopes that through his efforts and changes, his family can see his growth and progress, and that the family relationship can become more harmonious and happy.

 5. The road to reconstruction: self-growth and inner exploration

After breaking off relations with his family, Xiaolin embarked on a difficult road of self-redemption and growth like a phoenix rising from the ashes. He clearly realized that in order to truly get rid of the shadow of the past and find his own future, he must learn to face the challenges of life independently.

Xiaolin started from the most basic jobs and worked his way up the social ladder. He worked as a waiter, porter, cleaner and other hard jobs. Although these jobs were full of hardships and challenges, and often made him feel exhausted, he accumulated valuable life experience and social experience. He learned how to get along with people, how to communicate and how to solve problems. These experiences laid a solid foundation for his future life.

While working, he also actively seeks opportunities to learn and grow. He uses his spare time to teach himself computer, foreign languages ​​and other skills, constantly enriching his knowledge reserves. He also participates in some community activities and volunteer organizations, interacts with different people, and broadens his horizons and life experience.

In order to further broaden his horizons and cognitive boundaries, Xiaolin also began to read a wide range of books and articles. From literary works to philosophical works, from natural sciences to humanities and social sciences, he eagerly absorbed all kinds of knowledge and wisdom. These readings not only gave him a more comprehensive and profound understanding of the world, but also inspired his deep thinking and reflection.

In this process, Xiaosen gradually discovered his true interests and potential. He developed a strong interest in a certain field and decided to study and explore it in depth. He began to invest a lot of time and energy in this field, constantly learning and practicing. Through continuous efforts and attempts, he gradually formed his own unique insights and style.

Although this process was full of hardships and challenges, it also gave him a taste of the joy of success and a sense of accomplishment. His efforts and talents were recognized and appreciated, which brought him more opportunities and possibilities. At the same time, this process of self-discovery and realization also made his heart more fulfilled and powerful.

While growing up, Xiao Ai did not forget to think about and explore human nature. He interacted with people of all kinds, observed and analyzed their behaviors and thoughts. He gradually realized the complexity and diversity of human nature, and also understood the richness and depth of human emotions.

This kind of thinking and exploration of human nature not only made him understand the nature and laws of human nature and emotions more deeply, but also provided important guidance and reference for his future life. He learned how to get along and communicate with people of different personalities and backgrounds, and how to remain rational and calm in complex interpersonal relationships. These experiences had a profound impact on his future life development.

 6. Opportunity to meet family again

As time went by, Xiaolin gradually matured in his independent life. He learned how to take care of himself and how to face the challenges and difficulties in life. His heart also became stronger and more confident, and he was no longer easily influenced by the outside world as before.

However, in the process of growing up, Xiaolin gradually realized the importance of family. Although he experienced countless disputes and misunderstandings in getting along with his family, he could never erase the blood and emotional ties between him and his family. He began to reflect on his relationship with his family and realized that he might be too impulsive and extreme in the process of growing up. He realized that he might have some misunderstandings and prejudices in dealing with family relationships and needed to look at family problems more rationally and objectively.

Under the influence of this reflection and self-awareness, Xiaolin began to have the desire to reconcile with his family. He hoped to regain family affection with his family and face the challenges and difficulties in life together. This desire not only reflects his maturity and growth, but also shows his love and sense of responsibility for his family.

In order to achieve reconciliation with his family, Xiaolin began to take some actions. He first tried to have in-depth communication with his parents and express his inner thoughts and feelings. He tried to stay calm during the communication process and avoid emotional arguments. Through this frank communication, he established a deeper emotional connection with his parents, laying a solid foundation for further reconciliation.

In addition, Xiaolin took some proactive measures to improve the relationship with his family. He began to understand and care about his family and respect their opinions and decisions. He also took time to accompany his family and participate in family activities and gatherings to enhance the affection and understanding between them. These measures effectively eased the previously tense family relationship and created a good atmosphere for Xiaolin to reconcile with his family.

As time went by, Xiaolin's efforts gradually paid off. His family began to re-examine their relationship with Xiaolin and realized their previous misunderstandings and prejudices against Xiaolin. They began to try to understand and accept Xiaolin and respect his ideas and pursuits. On the basis of this understanding and respect, the relationship between Xiaolin and his family gradually improved, and the barriers and misunderstandings between the two sides were gradually eliminated.

 VII. Reconciliation and Rebirth

During the days of conflict and severance with his family, Kobayashi always retained a sense of attachment and love for his family deep in his heart.