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Chapter 164: It seems that being too sensible is not a good thing

Qin Qiushui also nodded slightly: "Yes, Ah Chu has been thoughtful since he was a child. He has a reason for everything he does and will not do something without reason. Since he said so, he must have his reasons."

"Then let's do as he said and put aside our prejudices. If Ah Chu is right, then we really have received a favor from him without realizing it. He didn't ask us to repay him, so we can't repay kindness with hatred."

Mother Qin's eyes were slightly red. "I know this, but, but, when I think of what Ah Chu has gone through in the past few years, I can't help but feel distressed, and I can't help but blame that woman for being cruel."

"I can't help but blame her."

Qin's father held Qin's mother in his arms and comforted her softly, "Because we are normal people, not saints, and we can't be as open-minded as Ah Chu and distinguish everything clearly."

"Ah Chu asked Ah Yao to tell us this, probably just to let us choose according to our hearts. You love her and her family, and it's not wrong to be prejudiced against her because of Ah Chu's affairs, but you can't be too prejudiced."

"No matter what, she is Xiaoqi and the others' mother. She is not the kind of person who would abandon her children and not care about them at all. She is also shameless in the end."

"I don't know what happened between them, but if we go by what A-Chu said, then A-Chu might really know everything. He has his own plans. All we can do is to make choices according to our own hearts."

"Ok, I know……"

Mother Qin wiped the tears from her eyes and said, "But, I suddenly thought of how sensible and understanding Ah Chu has been since he was a child, and I couldn't help but feel distressed."

"I didn't feel sorry for him before, I just thought it was what he should do as the eldest son. Now it seems that it is because of his past experiences that he is so open-minded, sensible and reasonable."

"But now I feel that Ah Chu is too sensible and open about everything. Being too sensible is not good. It's good for others, but how much grievance must he have suffered in his heart?"

"I hope he can be more willful sometimes and let his temper run wild. At least he'll feel better then."

"I often think now, if one of us had stayed at home to look after the children, then these three children wouldn't have to be left behind, and A-Chu and the others would have someone to rely on. Wouldn't he have suffered so much injustice and hardship and become like this?"

Mother Qin felt so distressed when she thought about how her eldest son was helpless when they were not at home or working outside, and how he had to hold himself up and be a support for his older sister and younger brother, bullying those who bullied them back so that no one would dare to bully them again!

During those ten years, I don’t know how much injustice I suffered and how much abuse I endured.

During this period, there were many misunderstandings and blames from them. The bamboo whip that she had used to beat her eldest son again and again was still on her mind now.

Qin Qiushui sighed slightly and said, "There's nothing we can do about it! We all moved here before, and we didn't get much land. We just farmed, so how could we raise several children?"

"I'm fine. The child's father got more land, so he can stay at home to farm while I go out to work. But your family can't do that! If one person stays at home to take care of the child and farm, it's hard to say whether the three children can have enough to eat, let alone go to school. You guys are amazing."

"Besides, even the children in our family, when they were young, the older one stood up to protect his younger brothers and sisters and was scolded and criticized. I feel sad and guilty just thinking about it now!"

Yang Qianming smiled indifferently and comforted her mother, "Okay, Mom, let's not talk about the past. Besides, didn't those people say that I was a bad person and would never get married? Now, not only have I married a good husband, I also have a child."

“Although we are not rich, we live a good life.”

"Unlike their children, either the boys can't get married or the girls have to get divorced after getting married. In this respect, their children are just like your children."

"That's true."

Now it was Qin Qiu Shui who felt secretly happy. Didn't those people say that her daughter was too fierce and would be a shrew when she grew up and no one would want her?

Now her eldest daughter has married into a good family and gave birth to a big fat boy. Her husband loves her and the child is sensible. What about them?

Those who have sons cannot get married, and those who have daughters either marry far away or get married early and divorced early.

This kind of thing is not uncommon among them, especially the younger generation.

"Besides, Ah Chu, didn't those people look down on him before? But now he is the most capable one. Not only can he give his uncle and aunt the life they want, and help his sister and brother, but he also has the energy to help our relatives and cousins. It's good enough for their children not to rely on their parents!"

Hearing this, Qin Qiushui was slightly surprised: "A Chu, have you helped us too?"

"What do you think!"

Yang Qianming explained: "Where do you think my husband and I got the jobs that are close to home, with high salaries, ten days off a month, and only eight hours a day with no overtime?"

"Where did you think you got such a great bargain that you found a shop that only needs a thousand dollars in rent to open a small restaurant?"

"How do you think my dad's past affairs, the compensation and pension were so easy to come by? And a reliable job that can support him until he retires?"

"How do you think your little daughter opened that milk tea shop?"

"Your youngest son is just a technical secondary school student. Why did a national chef give him all his knowledge and teach him to become a chef at a star hotel?"

"Why do you think your second daughter, who has average abilities and ordinary looks, can live as a landlady, live in a big house, and drive a small car?"

"All these were secretly helped by Ah Chu. If Ah Chu hadn't helped us and remembered us a little, would our family have been so successful and lived such a good life?"

After hearing what his eldest daughter said, Qin Qiushui suddenly realized: "So that's how it is. I was wondering why things have been so smooth in the past few years. It turns out..."

But the next second, Qin Qiushui turned serious and said to Yang Qianming, "Even if Ah Chu remembers our kindness and helps us, we can't keep bothering Ah Chu. Don't bother Ah Chu for everything, understand?"

"I know, I know. We understand these principles better than you. Ah Chu took the initiative to help us. We also told him not to go through so much trouble, but Ah Chu didn't want to. There's nothing we can do!" Yang Qianming said helplessly.

"That's not OK!"

Father Qin smiled and tried to smooth things over: "Xiaojie, don't worry about it. Ah Chu is willing to help you because you are good to him. He knows how to be grateful. It's okay."

Qin Qiushui sighed slightly and said, "How could I not know this? I'm just afraid that these children will become too dependent on Ah Chu in the future and want to trouble Ah Chu for everything. Think about it, Ah Chu must have spent a lot of effort to help us. We can't help Ah Chu now, but we can't drag him down, right?"

"Oh, Mom, I know. We brothers and sisters have talked about this and we all know it. What you think will not happen."

"That's fine, that's fine."