Transform into a fairy girl
Chapter 418 The Greatness of Women
"Yeah." Ji Ran nodded and admitted.
"Actually, you don't have to do this. As long as he likes you, it's enough. His family will be dealt with by himself. You should give him some time. If you leave him suddenly just because of this matter, have you ever thought about it? his feelings
When encountering a problem, escaping can never solve the problem. The only way out is for two people to face it together and solve the difficulty. "Ma Kai took a puff of cigarette and said.
"But, how to solve this kind of thing? His mother doesn't like me, she doesn't like me in her bones, and he respects his mother so much. How can he convince her? Even if he convinces her, I'm afraid his mother will also have feelings for me. There is a estrangement, thinking that I brought up his son and instigated the relationship between mother and son. How will I get along with his mother then?" Ji Ran explained to Ma Kai.
"Even if you broke up with him for this reason this time, what should you do if you encounter such a situation again? For example, you meet a boy you like again, but his mother doesn't like you either. What should I do? Are you going to bear it alone with your big belly like now?" Ma Kai asked looking at Ji Ran.
Although Ma Kai's words were very straightforward, they made sense. Now Ji Ran was facing such an embarrassing situation.
"Why don't you try to change all this? Try hard. It is impossible for everyone to fully understand a person through just one meeting. Only by contacting for a period of time and experiencing it with your heart can you measure a person's strengths and weaknesses." Ma Kai said to Ji Ran.
"I can't change it." Ji Ran was silent for a moment and said slowly.
Ma Kai has no understanding of the real situation, so although what he said is correct, it is not consistent with reality.
The more educated a person is, the more stubborn she will be about her outlook on life and values. What she thinks is right must be right, and what she thinks is wrong must be wrong.
Just like Su's mother, she is well-read in poetry and has her own philosophy on life and plans for the future, especially her son Su Jingxun's marriage problem, which is also part of her plan. She believes that with her son's conditions, It is absolutely possible to find a girl of the right family and let your son form a happy family.
Even if the girl's condition is a little worse, the difference in strength between the two families should not be too great.
This is not to say that Su’s mother dislikes the poor and loves the rich, but because only when the two families are of equal strength, they will have more common language. Otherwise, there will be many unnecessary troubles.
In the eyes of Mother Su, her son can choose a more relaxed emotional path, and as parents, they can also marry people of similar level to themselves. Helping and supporting each other in their careers increases the security and stability of the two families. More importantly, in such a family environment, children and grandchildren can also receive better education.
And if Su Jingxun and Ji Ran were together, then the gap between the two families would be too great. Su's mother and Ji's mother would have almost nothing to say and nothing in common.
When two in-laws are together, it will be very awkward. Let’s talk about some fashion topics. Mother Ji may not understand. She may not even have heard of some luxury goods or world-famous brands, and it may even make the other party think He was showing off on purpose.
However, if we talk about vulgar topics, Su's mother will feel that it is a waste of time. In short, such two families are full of gaps, which is not conducive to the long-term.
More importantly, if two people have a child, it would be fine if the child stays with the grandparents, but the child cannot not go to grandma's house.
What if I got into bad habits at grandma’s house and was spoiled by grandma?
Children do not have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Whoever dotes on them will feel good to them.
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bsp;In the end, grandma is the good person and grandparents are the bad guys.
This kind of thing is not groundless, it happens everywhere nowadays.
The worse off the party is, the more pampering the child is, while the better off the party is, the stricter the child is.
In short, Su's mother made a conclusion after comprehensive consideration. Her choice was not wrong. Even if Ji Ran is a good girl, her origin has already determined that her feelings can only be limited to the ordinary class. Maybe in the future She would marry an elite, or a Phoenix man, but not a wealthy family like the Su family.
Ma Kai didn't know this, so he didn't understand Ji Ran's helplessness.
If there was a chance, why would Ji Ran not go for it?
Who would willingly let go of their love?
Just as Ji Ran was thinking about it, her stomach suddenly turned upside down. She quickly got out of the car, held on to a tree, and vomited.
Seeing this, Ma Kai quickly got out of the car. He supported Ji Ran with one hand and patted her back gently with the other hand.
Ji Ran's pregnancy symptoms have become more and more serious recently. As the fetus grows, Ji Ran's belly becomes bigger and bigger. Even if she wears thick clothes, her legs will be exposed if she is not careful. .
Ji Ran feels that her body is much bulkier. The body that was so flexible in the past is no longer so flexible. Moreover, her waist is very sore. She has to stand for a long time and her waist can't bear it. She has to use her hands to support it. Feel better.
When sleeping at night, it is very difficult to turn over. Sometimes when I want to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, I find it very difficult.
Ma Kai looked at Ji Ran's current state and felt very distressed. Such a good girl needs someone to take care of her, but she still has to hold on alone. It's really hard.
"Are you feeling better?" Ma Kai handed a clean tissue to Ji Ran.
"Well, it's better." Ji Ran wiped her mouth and got back into the car.
"Stop holding on so hard, why not move to my place and have someone to take care of you sooner or later." Ma Kai said to Ji Ran.
Ji Ran smiled bitterly and shook her head, "It's okay, I can still handle it."
"Don't hold on, who doesn't know how hard it is to be pregnant for ten months? When I saw you, I couldn't help but think of my mother. When I was naughty and mischievous as a child, my mother often said that I was disobedient and that I was sorry for her gift of giving birth. , I couldn't understand it at all at that time, but now that I see you, I think of her, it's really not easy." Ma Kai said with a smile.
Ji Ran looked at Ma Kai strangely. This was the first time she heard Ma Kai talk about her family.
"Unexpectedly, in fact, my mother is also from the countryside, and my father is half a rural person. My grandfather is from the city, and my grandmother and mother are from the same village. My grandfather used to be a teacher, teaching in a university. Later, I caught up with wg and was sent to the village where my grandma lived. I worked there for eight years. During this period, my grandpa fell in love with my grandma, so we had my father. Later, my grandpa returned to the city and brought my grandma to him. He was brought into the city, which means that my father lived in the countryside until he was five years old, and he was considered to have grown up in the countryside.
Later, when my dad was in college, he dated a female college student who was somewhat related to my grandmother from the same village. Then they got married after graduation. That female college student was my mother.
When they got married, my father had nothing, not even a job. When my mother was pregnant with me, the conditions were very difficult. My father used all the money in the family to start a business, and ended up losing a lot. At that time, people would come to my house every now and then to collect debts. My mother had no choice but to return to the countryside with her pregnancy. The conditions were even worse. I was born in my grandma’s house. I have heard my grandma say that my mother was pregnant with me since I was a child. It was so hard when she was a child. Even now, she still often complains about my father. "Ma Kai said and couldn't help laughing.
"Actually, you don't have to do this. As long as he likes you, it's enough. His family will be dealt with by himself. You should give him some time. If you leave him suddenly just because of this matter, have you ever thought about it? his feelings
When encountering a problem, escaping can never solve the problem. The only way out is for two people to face it together and solve the difficulty. "Ma Kai took a puff of cigarette and said.
"But, how to solve this kind of thing? His mother doesn't like me, she doesn't like me in her bones, and he respects his mother so much. How can he convince her? Even if he convinces her, I'm afraid his mother will also have feelings for me. There is a estrangement, thinking that I brought up his son and instigated the relationship between mother and son. How will I get along with his mother then?" Ji Ran explained to Ma Kai.
"Even if you broke up with him for this reason this time, what should you do if you encounter such a situation again? For example, you meet a boy you like again, but his mother doesn't like you either. What should I do? Are you going to bear it alone with your big belly like now?" Ma Kai asked looking at Ji Ran.
Although Ma Kai's words were very straightforward, they made sense. Now Ji Ran was facing such an embarrassing situation.
"Why don't you try to change all this? Try hard. It is impossible for everyone to fully understand a person through just one meeting. Only by contacting for a period of time and experiencing it with your heart can you measure a person's strengths and weaknesses." Ma Kai said to Ji Ran.
"I can't change it." Ji Ran was silent for a moment and said slowly.
Ma Kai has no understanding of the real situation, so although what he said is correct, it is not consistent with reality.
The more educated a person is, the more stubborn she will be about her outlook on life and values. What she thinks is right must be right, and what she thinks is wrong must be wrong.
Just like Su's mother, she is well-read in poetry and has her own philosophy on life and plans for the future, especially her son Su Jingxun's marriage problem, which is also part of her plan. She believes that with her son's conditions, It is absolutely possible to find a girl of the right family and let your son form a happy family.
Even if the girl's condition is a little worse, the difference in strength between the two families should not be too great.
This is not to say that Su’s mother dislikes the poor and loves the rich, but because only when the two families are of equal strength, they will have more common language. Otherwise, there will be many unnecessary troubles.
In the eyes of Mother Su, her son can choose a more relaxed emotional path, and as parents, they can also marry people of similar level to themselves. Helping and supporting each other in their careers increases the security and stability of the two families. More importantly, in such a family environment, children and grandchildren can also receive better education.
And if Su Jingxun and Ji Ran were together, then the gap between the two families would be too great. Su's mother and Ji's mother would have almost nothing to say and nothing in common.
When two in-laws are together, it will be very awkward. Let’s talk about some fashion topics. Mother Ji may not understand. She may not even have heard of some luxury goods or world-famous brands, and it may even make the other party think He was showing off on purpose.
However, if we talk about vulgar topics, Su's mother will feel that it is a waste of time. In short, such two families are full of gaps, which is not conducive to the long-term.
More importantly, if two people have a child, it would be fine if the child stays with the grandparents, but the child cannot not go to grandma's house.
What if I got into bad habits at grandma’s house and was spoiled by grandma?
Children do not have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. Whoever dotes on them will feel good to them.
&n
bsp;In the end, grandma is the good person and grandparents are the bad guys.
This kind of thing is not groundless, it happens everywhere nowadays.
The worse off the party is, the more pampering the child is, while the better off the party is, the stricter the child is.
In short, Su's mother made a conclusion after comprehensive consideration. Her choice was not wrong. Even if Ji Ran is a good girl, her origin has already determined that her feelings can only be limited to the ordinary class. Maybe in the future She would marry an elite, or a Phoenix man, but not a wealthy family like the Su family.
Ma Kai didn't know this, so he didn't understand Ji Ran's helplessness.
If there was a chance, why would Ji Ran not go for it?
Who would willingly let go of their love?
Just as Ji Ran was thinking about it, her stomach suddenly turned upside down. She quickly got out of the car, held on to a tree, and vomited.
Seeing this, Ma Kai quickly got out of the car. He supported Ji Ran with one hand and patted her back gently with the other hand.
Ji Ran's pregnancy symptoms have become more and more serious recently. As the fetus grows, Ji Ran's belly becomes bigger and bigger. Even if she wears thick clothes, her legs will be exposed if she is not careful. .
Ji Ran feels that her body is much bulkier. The body that was so flexible in the past is no longer so flexible. Moreover, her waist is very sore. She has to stand for a long time and her waist can't bear it. She has to use her hands to support it. Feel better.
When sleeping at night, it is very difficult to turn over. Sometimes when I want to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, I find it very difficult.
Ma Kai looked at Ji Ran's current state and felt very distressed. Such a good girl needs someone to take care of her, but she still has to hold on alone. It's really hard.
"Are you feeling better?" Ma Kai handed a clean tissue to Ji Ran.
"Well, it's better." Ji Ran wiped her mouth and got back into the car.
"Stop holding on so hard, why not move to my place and have someone to take care of you sooner or later." Ma Kai said to Ji Ran.
Ji Ran smiled bitterly and shook her head, "It's okay, I can still handle it."
"Don't hold on, who doesn't know how hard it is to be pregnant for ten months? When I saw you, I couldn't help but think of my mother. When I was naughty and mischievous as a child, my mother often said that I was disobedient and that I was sorry for her gift of giving birth. , I couldn't understand it at all at that time, but now that I see you, I think of her, it's really not easy." Ma Kai said with a smile.
Ji Ran looked at Ma Kai strangely. This was the first time she heard Ma Kai talk about her family.
"Unexpectedly, in fact, my mother is also from the countryside, and my father is half a rural person. My grandfather is from the city, and my grandmother and mother are from the same village. My grandfather used to be a teacher, teaching in a university. Later, I caught up with wg and was sent to the village where my grandma lived. I worked there for eight years. During this period, my grandpa fell in love with my grandma, so we had my father. Later, my grandpa returned to the city and brought my grandma to him. He was brought into the city, which means that my father lived in the countryside until he was five years old, and he was considered to have grown up in the countryside.
Later, when my dad was in college, he dated a female college student who was somewhat related to my grandmother from the same village. Then they got married after graduation. That female college student was my mother.
When they got married, my father had nothing, not even a job. When my mother was pregnant with me, the conditions were very difficult. My father used all the money in the family to start a business, and ended up losing a lot. At that time, people would come to my house every now and then to collect debts. My mother had no choice but to return to the countryside with her pregnancy. The conditions were even worse. I was born in my grandma’s house. I have heard my grandma say that my mother was pregnant with me since I was a child. It was so hard when she was a child. Even now, she still often complains about my father. "Ma Kai said and couldn't help laughing.
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