Secret love turns into love, women never want to escape

Chapter 269 You Are So Different

He said he had something for her, and he meant this bracelet?

She came out of the restaurant and walked slowly on the road.

There are many questions that she can't figure out.

Ji Chenling never asked her to pay back the money, why did she lie to her that the bracelet was stolen

The diamond rings he gave her are tens of millions. He is not someone who cares about money, nor is he trying to defraud her of her money.

What does it mean to return the bracelet to her at this time?

Is it

He liked her from the beginning

how is this possible

She still doesn't understand why he likes her

She has nothing to like about her.

Feeling dull and uncomfortable, and tired from walking, she sat on the chair under the street lamp.

Take out your phone, it's almost eleven o'clock.

After hesitating for a long time, he dialed the phone and went out.

"Hello." The man's deep voice came from the phone.

"Hello, it's me. That strange caller." Bai Xi said cautiously.

"I know, I'm in a bad mood" the man asked.

"Heh." Bai Xi laughed, wiping the tears from the corners of his eyes, "I broke up with him."

"Men and women, because they are together because of their eyes, to be able to last for a long time, they must have the same outlook on life, world outlook, and values. You and him have different world outlooks. Breaking up is the end." The man said rationally.

Bai Xi felt even more sad and kicked the stones on the ground.

She wanted to ask for help, but she had a lot to say, and she didn't know where to start.

The man was not in a hurry to hang up the phone and waited patiently for her.

Bai Xi took a deep breath, sighed again, and wiped away the water overflowing from his eyes again.

"You really like him." The man said with certainty.

"Well. He is very capable and has a strategy. He can even be willing to break his hands for the purpose. He has a strong worldview, enough courage, and handles problems with ease.

He holds the lifeblood of many people. He is someone who dare not offend in the hearts of others. He has a bad temper and is ruthless. Like it, as long as he doesn't like it, he will beat people to hell.

But like him, he never hurt me. " Bai Xi said excitedly, his voice choked up, "He even gave up everything for me. "

"That's because he is chasing you, so he is patient and tolerant to you, willing to do many things for you blindly, but do you know what the essence of love is?" the man asked coldly.

"what"

"Dopamine. It is a chemical component that will disappear with metabolism. The time to disappear depends on the individual's physique and living environment. The beauty of love is concentrated in those who have not experienced the trivial things in life before entering life. Hard work, the weakness and inertia of human nature are covered with a layer of sweet skin, you probably haven't lived with him yet." The man said coldly.

"After living, will you go from loving to not loving?" Bai Xi asked.

"If you have different outlooks on life, values, and the world, and live together, there will be more conflicts and quarrels. Over time, the conflicts and quarrels will consume the accumulated feelings until one day it becomes unbearable and you can't remember what love looks like. , and then leave their respective lives exhausted physically and mentally, perhaps, that

Only then can we realize what letting go is. "The man said, twitching the corners of his mouth, feeling very sad and mocking.

Bai Xi felt that he was like a wise man who had suffered all kinds of hardships in life.

The concept is very pessimistic, but in pessimism, there is a philosophy of life that she has not yet realized.

"In this world, is there no couple who love each other until they die?" Bai Xi asked.

"Yes, in addition to dopamine, there is also consciously rational and strong love, which will not disappear with the disappearance of dopamine, because it has already controlled the emotions and fluctuations of the brain."

"I don't understand."

"To put it simply, instead of relying on passion, impulsiveness, and temporary dopamine-dominated love, a man or woman who has this kind of love is very rational, understands what he wants, what kind of person he likes, and besides protecting the one and only her , They can no longer see other people in their eyes, they will not escape in life, but to solve, to adapt, to be the best of themselves for each other."

Bai Xi was very moved, "Is it like a penguin?"

"Penguins are only monogamous. They can divorce and remarry. However, there is only one spouse, but not necessarily the same. The love of this kind of person is more like that of a blue-footed booby."

"Blue-footed booby" Bai Xi heard of this animal for the first time.

"This kind of bird has a long beak and blue feet. They will only have one partner in their life. If the other party dies, they will never marry again." The man said.

Bai Xi's tears rolled down again.

She is willing to change for Ji Chenling, to adapt in life for him, to become the best version of herself.

It's a pity that they have no possibility of being together before they start.

Bai Xi was silent.

"Still sad" the man asked.

In fact, she wanted to find someone to tell someone because she was so sad. When she told Xu Yan, she was afraid that Xu Yan would be too impulsive and unable to hide her words, so she would ask questions.

She didn't want to tell Xu Yan today, at least today.

"After I told you, I feel much better than before. Thank you, and I'm sorry for the delay." Bai Xi apologized.

"It's getting late, go to bed early, even if you're sad, it's useless, it can't change the result, because when you're sad, your body will also produce toxins that corrode your cells and nerves, these things can only be metabolized, but when you're awake, you'll still be sad , I can’t get the buffer, I went to bed early, and when I fell asleep, I couldn’t think of it, and my body can metabolize well.” The man persuaded.

"Well, okay, thank you."

"No thanks." After the man finished speaking, he hung up the phone.

Bai Xi took out the bracelet from his bag, and stroked the pattern on it with his fingers.

Some things are destined not to be hers, so they are not hers. Keeping them is too precious, and it will be a burden instead.

She was afraid of being stolen again, so it was better to return the property to the original owner.

She made the phone call and went out.

"Sle, I'm Bai Xi. I'm sorry to interrupt your rest. I have a silver bracelet here. When Mr. Ji's grandmother misunderstood me as Mr. Ji's girlfriend and gave it to me, I returned it to Mr. Ji I lost it, but now I found it, I want to give it to you, please return it to Mr. Ji's grandmother."

"Silver Bracelet"

"Well, when Mrs. Ji's grandma gave it to me, she originally wore it on her hand." Bai Xi explained.

Li Yang was shocked, "It's a bracelet from grandma's family, worn by a princess in ancient times."

Her mother didn't give this bracelet to her and Ji Chenling's mother actually gave it to Bai Xi