Secret love turns into love, women never want to escape

Chapter 443 I just want to be together

"His family will not agree, grandpa, aunt, father, friends..." Bai Xi's eyes turned red.

She didn't say anything about his grandfather, because she was afraid that Ji Chenling would be sad, but she also understood that it was actually the love of her relatives for him, and there was indeed a big gap between her and Ji Chenling.

"Then kill it first and play it later. I think Ji Chenling is smart. He must have expected his family's disapproval, so he is going to marry you first, and then notify. A man like him is not many years away."

"You don't understand, there is a sense of hierarchy that turns the trivial things in life into nightmares, consumes the accumulated feelings, exhausts the two people in the marriage, and forgets how beautiful the love was. Ji Chenling and I just dated It didn't take long, even if he came to Chenghai International, it was less than five months." Bai Xi was a little excited.

"But he really likes you, otherwise he wouldn't have proposed to you." Xu Yan persuaded.

"No matter how much I like it, it's still stuck in his illusion. What he likes is the Bai Xi he thought he was. I only dated him, and we haven't really gotten along for a long time..."

"So get married quickly, lest he regret it, the most important thing is to catch him." Xu Yan interrupted Bai Xi's words.

Bai Xi doesn't think so, "A man's heart cannot be grasped, and it's best not to have such thoughts. The more you have such thoughts, the more hideous you will be."

"Why can't I understand." Xu Yan scratched her head, "I don't read much, so don't lie to me."

"There are four stages in a relationship. The first stage is the passionate love period. Couples always hope to be together no matter when and where. During this stage, a lot of feelings will be accumulated in the bank for future emotional consumption.

Ji Chenling and I were supposed to be in a hot period at this time. If we entered into marriage early at this time, not only the relationship between the two of us, but also the family needs to be adjusted.

It's not easy for an ordinary family to get along, let alone his, Li Yang, Li Yinxun, Ji Houliang, his grandfather, and his friends, they didn't welcome me in the first place.

I'm really worried that in the end, even he and I will only hate each other. " Bai Xi said, picked up the coffee, and drank it all in one gulp.

"It doesn't matter if they don't welcome you. You don't want to live with them. As long as Ji Chenling likes you, that's fine. Just give him the problem, and he will solve it."

"Xu Yan, love can't be based on dreams alone, and life is not a fairy tale. It's counterproductive, and the end result is death. Because I want to be with him, I want to take it step by step, at least let us have enough money in the bank. If you have a relationship, you will not be easily shaken, and you will think about the good times when you are sad, and become the motivation to work together."

"You can be down-to-earth even if you are married. I don't know where your point is?" Xu Yan frowned, "I think he is good enough for you."

"People change." Bai Xi said, "When you are in a good mood, you will laugh and be kind to others. When you are in a bad mood, you will blame others. Different moods make different decisions. People feel and what they show. People have different personalities and different levels of comfort, if it’s all the objections of relatives, no matter how open-minded, wise, and clear about what you want, you won’t be happy.”

"Since his family will definitely object, have you decided not to be with him?" Xu Yan was puzzled.

"It's not that I don't want to be with him, I really want to be with him,

Just because I miss it so much, I cherish the time we can be together even more. " Bai Xi said.

Although she knew that Xu Yan might not have understood, at least she felt a little better when she said it.

"Then what are you going to do now? That person Ji Chenling will not give up until he achieves his goal. He wants to get married now. If you don't, he will definitely be angry. His temper is not good in the first place." Xu Yan said, sighing, He waved his hand and signaled the waiter to come over.

Bai Xi wanted to drink coffee, but found that he drank it all, so he put the coffee cup aside and said, "Later, if he doesn't come to see me, I'll call him, I can't waste my feelings before I start, right? "

"I think what you're talking about is like replenishing blood and mana in the game. When it's full, go out to fight, otherwise, the blood and mana will be gone after a few hits."

"That's pretty much what it means. Besides, I think he should get to know me in real life first, and see if it's what he wants. The incongruity in marriage will destroy people." Bai Xi said seriously.

"I think, your mother's matter, your ex-boyfriend's matter, and your ex-husband's matter have hit you hard, especially your marriage. I think Ji Chenling is still good. Let me tell you something. I used to read gossip , is a celebrity couple. The man always wanted to marry the woman, but the woman never agreed. For this reason, the man got mad on the show. Two years later, the man got married, not with the woman. So, I think, if you want to be with Ji Chenling, you should cherish it." Xu Yan suggested.

"Ah."

waiter come

"Order, what do you want to eat? Order for me by the way." Bai Xi said.

"Okay." Xu Yan grinned, ordered a lot, handed the menu to the waiter, and said to Bai Xi, "Do you still remember the time when many people wanted to leave their jobs?"

"Now that Xingchen has changed bosses and Zhang Ruijie has an accident again, they must be confused."

"They were all fired, the technical department was left with zero, and the front desk was gone. If there is any front desk, I guess it's time to deal with the finance department and me in the afternoon." Xu Yan guessed.

"I've already told Ji Chenling, and he said, I gave the crow a company, and the crow will come to take you tomorrow, but you still do the job you did before, and your salary hasn't dropped. That star, probably will be made into an empty box and closed down." Bai Xi said.

"Really." Xu Yan held Bai Xi's hand, "My dear friend, you must be together with Ji Chenling, this man is good, for you, he is not married, and he treats you so well and gives you so much Qian is so responsible to you, even to your friends, it is hard to find a good man with a lantern, you must grow old with him and be united forever."

What Xu Yan said gave her the urge to please.

She also thought Ji Chenling was good.

The problem between them is not that they don't want to be together, but that they all want to be together.

"Shall I call him now?" Bai Xi said.

"Hit, you must hit, hit quickly." Xu Yan urged, and let go of her hand.

Bai Xi took a deep breath and took out his phone.

She put it on the phone screen in the morning.

Ji Chenling pressed the back of her head and kissed her forehead. She wasn't ready, so her expression was a little dazed and shy...