Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

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I have walked a long, long way. I didn't know how long that part of the road was. I still kept a clear mind, but as I walked, I forgot who I was.

"Grandpa, I don't really understand what you mean. I just want to know that if it is according to what you mean, we should not complain to anyone, because the sky is fair, and don't complain about the unfairness of the sky to you." , let alone complain about the injustice that humans treat you, but grandpa, do you know that many things can’t be solved without complaining”

"Then tell me what things you said were like this"

"Grandpa, let's be honest, even though my parents chose to abandon me, I never thought of complaining to them, because I think no matter how much they hurt me, it is justifiable. Yes, especially after I heard the girl in my dream remonstrate again and again, I strengthened my mind, but I really don't understand why the final result turned out like this, grandpa, he has hurt me So many times, even my parents, I can no longer choose to continue to repay grievances with virtue, because it is really difficult for me, I abandon my principles for them again and again, and I clean up the mess for them again and again , but not only did they not repay their kindness, but they also repeatedly hurt my lifelong happiness, Grandpa, do you think this is fair to me as a grandson?" Zhang Yichen asked.

Mr. Zhang didn't know how to answer his grandson. No matter how he answered, the other party would be hurt. Those who love you will not suffer any harm because of what you have done

"Son, you also know that you have understood everything for so many years, but you chose not to say it. Grandpa understands your suffering, but many things are not as simple as you imagined. This world is cruel. You If you don’t harm others, they will come to harm you, but will there really be any good results if you do harm like this?”

"Grandpa, then tell me, what should I do so that neither of them will be hurt?"

"Son, these things are not useful when grandpa just says them out, but you have to act on your own, as you said, for so many years, you have been repaying grievances with kindness, and you have forgotten so much repaying grievances with kindness, don't you just Is it so bad once or twice? You can get through the difficulties again and again, so why can’t you get through this time?"

"Grandpa, it's not that I don't want to get through this difficulty from my heart, but that I really can't do it. My parents have done so many things, don't you know? Everyone in the world has a pair of eyes, don't they? Can’t you gossip? Grandpa, please think about it for me. I’m really tired. It’s not good for you or me. You all think I’ve lost my memory. I have forgotten everything, but have you ever thought that I am not completely amnesiac, I have a chance to recover my previous memory, I am slowly recovering my previous memory now, but why do I have a memory in my mind? All of them are my biological parents, the scene of how to kill my beloved woman Grandpa, do you know, this kind of picture will only make my heart hurt more, I thought I lost my memory, so I don’t have to go to Looking for my previous memories, I don’t have to think about the things my parents did to me that hurt me, but God is so unfair, I still let myself gradually recover my memory, and it is precisely because of this that I will Received such a huge blow, Grandpa, I know that every time you teach me, you hope that I can be a kind and upright gentleman. I have been striving towards the goal you set for me, Grandpa, please, Sometimes, think about it for me from my point of view. They can hurt their son's lifelong happiness because of their selfish interests. Then there is nothing they can't do. They hurt again and again, don't I? Yes, choose to suffer humiliation and endure the harm they caused me? Can't I stand up and fight back against them? Grandpa, I am a human being, not a piece of wood. They hurt me. I feel that I can know the pain. I also know that I am sad, but I still choose not to say it, because the family and everything are prosperous, but in their eyes, it is not like this. He is willing to pay any price, even if it is his life."

Mr. Zhang heard his grandson say such words. He knew that this matter had been described more and more black by him, but he didn't mean it. How should he resolve the hatred between these two people?

"Son, when did grandpa think about the problem for you from your perspective, once, twice or three times, I always think about your safety for you, but what about you, do you have a little gratitude for me? As you said yourself, you are a human being, you also feel it, and you know heartache. Doesn’t grandpa feel heartache and sadness? In fact, many times, you always feel that your parents have not considered you from your perspective. Any problem, but you have never thought about the reason why they do this, what is it because they want you to live a good life, child, please don't hate your parents at any time, because they have nothing wrong , Their love for you is true love, but they express it in the wrong way, this sentence is no longer just, this time I said it to you, I said it twice, three times and four times, I don’t know if you have Take it to heart, but grandpa understands that as long as grandpa said to you, you always keep it in your mind. You just choose to do it or not. You don't know whether you should do what grandpa said, let alone whether You should listen to what Grandpa says here."

Zhang Yichen felt a little embarrassed, he had never seen his grandfather shed a single tear, but just now, he saw a flickering tear dripping from the corner of his grandfather's eye, he knew that his grandfather was crying sadly, And this sadness is still because of himself, he feels a little unable to forgive his fault.

Now that he thought about it in reverse, he found that he still had many things against his grandfather's wishes and did not follow what his grandfather said, so he evolved step by step to where he is today.

"Grandpa, thank you for your teaching. I understand everything now. Faithful words are beneficial to deeds. If you didn't teach me again and again, I would not have achieved what I am today. Grandpa, I still say the same thing. Now that things have happened Yes, I will choose to let them pass by like this from now on, and I will never choose to mention them again, because for you and for me, it is no different from uncovering my own scars, I don’t want this It happened between our grandpa and grandson, grandpa, let’s live a happy life as a family from now on.”

Maybe life is like this, gradually lost oneself in the process of growing up