Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

Zhang Na didn't understand why his father always said things that made him confused. He really couldn't understand.

"Why can't I understand"

"You don't need to understand, just stand aside obediently"

When Zhang Zhentian heard his son say these words to him, he didn't want to say anything, he just knew that he was standing there silently, listening to his son criticize him.

He is becoming more and more savvy now, knowing when to speak and when to defend himself. When others are most angry, he can only choose to remain silent, because only in this way will others have nowhere to vent their anger. What's more, the person opposite is my own son. It was my own choice that caused him such harm. What right do I have to resent him? What's wrong with letting him vent his anger?

"Actually, there is no need for you not to speak. You know better than anyone else what you have done. It is not because of your apology that others can easily forgive you. If those people really forgive you because of your apology If you leave you, it proves that he still treats you as a relative in his heart. There is really no need for us to settle old scores one by one for the things you did yourself. You once abandoned, and we abandoned one after another. The hurt we've done to you, the deep despair we really don't know what the consequences will be

We are really not saints, we have no way to accept our loved ones, they hurt us time and time again, and we are still indifferent, do you know that the day I was abandoned by you, I didn’t know anything, I was only a month Ah, I was only one month old when I was breastfeeding, but you cruelly abandoned me, a child who was still nursing, did you consider my heart at that time? Maybe I didn’t know anything at that time, but anytime As time goes by, as I grow up, how can I not understand those things? When others laugh at me again and again, I am a child without parents. Children abandoned by parents, when others verbally attack me again and again, where are you at that time, what did you give me when I needed you most, did you hurt again and again?

But I finally waited for 10 years to find the love in my heart, but what about you, you brought me such a bolt from the blue as soon as you appeared, you almost made me lose the woman I love most in my life, you all Haven't thought about why I waited so hard for him for 10 years, is it because he is a commoner's daughter? In fact, it's not that I care about her kindness and her beauty, but her beauty is not her appearance.The most important thing is the beauty of the soul. I don't care about everything, but I can't care less about those who love me so much. If you are willing to treat me a little better, understand me a little bit, and give me a little sincerity, I will pay more Give me a little love, then things won't be like this. You always feel that there is nothing wrong with what you do, but do you know that it is precisely because of your self-righteous thoughts that you have harmed many people, Let these people feel that the things they did wrong are justified, and you always feel that the things you do are what others should bear, so do others owe you?"

"My child, Mom and Dad never thought of abandoning you completely. All the decisions we made were just out of necessity. We had no choice. We were too young for the freedom we yearned for at that time, but Now more than [-] years have passed, we know what kind of life we ​​want, and who we want to live with, do you understand? Mom and Dad really regret it, give us once Opportunity, so that we can return to your side to accompany you to enjoy your old age, wouldn't that be great?"

"Actually, don't you understand? Your son is right. Yichen has already made it very clear. No one in the world owes anyone. You have to bear the responsibility for the consequences of what you do. Don't think about it." Blindly shirk responsibility, let others pay for you, and others don’t owe you. It's enough not to regret it." Mr. Zhang said: "Everyone's life is different. If you want to follow someone else's life, walk the path that others have walked, then what is the meaning of your life? Everyone's life is Unique, living your own life well is the greatest happiness in this life. If you want others to follow your own pace, then will your life be happy? You will always live at the pace of others, and will always be happy Living in the shadow of others, you will always live only under the shadow of others, you are not the real self, but a copy of others, are you willing to be a copy of others all your life, but you will never be a copy of yourself? Will you be famous?"

Zhang Zhentian and Xia Jing heard these words said by Mr. Zhang and his own son. They knew that some things cannot be said to be forgotten. Once some things happened, they really happened. There is no way to turn back Yes, as long as I do the right thing, why do I do so many unreasonable things again and again? Why do I want to hurt my own son and my own father again and again? They have not had their own over the years Being with you has been very hard, but why do I do such unreasonable things over and over again?

Could it be that I have really become numb and have become indistinguishable from right and wrong? Could it be that I have been out all these years in order to pursue my own freedom, and even my relatives have been completely abandoned? Why did I do these things? It makes everyone unable to understand why what I have done has caused so many people's harm, why the path I have chosen will bring so many people spiritual pain

No matter what, Zhang Zhentian is unwilling to believe that what he did will bring such serious harm to his biological child and his biological father. He is just trying to gain his own freedom. Why did he end up like this now? , then all this is really destined to be unchangeable? Could it be that because I chose the wrong path, my relatives will also be implicated and hurt? If so, then I would never have chosen to take this path A road of no return. Not only did he lose his loved ones, but he also lost the freedom he was most proud of in his life.

Freedom is optional, the most important thing is that you can meet someone you really love in your life, that is happiness