Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

When the past resurfaced and I stopped and looked back, everything had changed, "Grandpa, I know that everything you said made sense, and I also knew that everything you said was for my own good. I understand better that everything you do is for the good of the family, but that is my own son, how can I bear to see him for training and to prove to his grandparents that he is a Not a bad child, but living so hard, watching his daily training, my heart as a mother is very uncomfortable. I fall down again and again, and my whole body is injured, but I still have to hold back Tears, get up and continue training, this kind of thing is not once or twice, in the eyes of a mother, it is a heartache, no one can understand, a mother's love for her child, father's love and mother's love It’s different. A father’s love may be selfless, but a mother’s love is selfish. I have to think about my son selfishly. I can’t just watch my son jump into the fire pit again and again. I do No, as soon as I see his injury, my heart will be extremely painful. I really want to rush to interrupt her training, but I can't do this. The state owns the state law, and the family has family rules. This is his choice. He really should bear the consequences himself and a child, is he wrong?" "Maybe you still haven't understood my child. It's not a question of whether there is a mistake at all, but whether this matter should be done or not." In doing so, since he has chosen to take this path, he must walk this path alone. No one can help him, and no one can bear it for him. All suffering people choose The road is different, and the result will naturally be different. Since he chooses such a road, why do you have any reason to regret it? I know you love your son, and he is also my family. How could I not feel sorry? As for him, he just feels distressed. Some things cannot be violated, and they cannot be violated. What should be done must be done. Don’t you understand? Although you see your child training so hard, your heart is very painful, but Have you ever thought that one day these trainings will be good for him, he will no longer have any way to make him encounter difficulties like before, he knows what kind of help he should need, this is for a It is very beneficial for the growth of children. You can’t choose to deprive your son of the right to grow up because of the selfishness of mother’s love. If you think what you said is right, then you should think carefully about what you should do to be able to Let these things end peacefully, and I don’t know what happened between you and your husband, what kind of things happened, you should all think about the problem from the perspective of the child, right? The child is not young now , he already knows his own right and wrong, and knows how to tell right from wrong, but if you give up your children so easily, won't you feel uncomfortable, painful, and guilty for the rest of your life?" "Grandpa, tell the truth You, one of my junior high school classmates showed up, and my husband quarreled with me more than once because of this matter, do you think it is necessary for me to continue living with him? I can't bear it, I can't bear him again and again Doubt me once, you also know that the most important thing between a husband and wife is mutual trust. If there is no trust between each other, then what is the point of living together? I also know that there are some things for him. A man, he has his own dignity as a man, don't I have no self-esteem as a woman, won't my heart hurt? When he doubted me again and again, where did he put me? Did he ever think about it? My inner feeling, I really don’t want much, it’s enough for me that the family can live a happy and happy life together, but for him, it seems that I want these things too much, he never I haven't even thought about what I want, and I always press my own thoughts blindly on me. Do you think this is fair to me? I can't even get a fair treatment, so I have to rely on Why continue to be an ox and a horse in this family, and I know that it is because I am a commoner that I live with him. Many people think that I marry him only for his money, but I ask myself, I have never I have never coveted his money. For this, I have a clear conscience no matter where I go. I never care whether he can give me how much money. What I don’t care is whether I can finish my life with a man I love. In my whole life, but I finally found that no matter how much I loved her at the beginning, I finally found that there was no way for us to go to the end. Grandpa, do you understand the feeling of being unable to survive or die? Do you feel insulted again? You may not have endured it, but I really can't bear such a blow. No matter how much I love her, I can't bear it. A man who insults my personality with words again and again, As my husband, and I have to live with him for the rest of my life. "Mr. Zhang didn't even know what his grandson said, why he made his granddaughter-in-law so angry, maybe this matter was not as simple as he imagined, but why did they have such a quarrel with each other Hand over, this matter can obviously be turned into a small matter, so what's the point of arguing all the time? "As a mother, a child must at least have something that he can sacrifice everything for his own son. Is it all for your children? Can you abandon all your things? If you can abandon all your self-esteem for your son, then how can your husband not care about you? He doubts you so much, just out of too much He cares about you, he has no sense of security, and she is also afraid of losing you. The trust between husband and wife is mutual. You respect him, and he respects your son. You should understand these reasons. Think about it carefully. If you think it is most suitable for you to leave, then you will never stop you from leaving grandpa, but grandpa also hopes that you will think clearly about whether you still want to leave now. There's a five-year-old waiting for you at home, do you really have the heart to leave?" Nobody stays where they are