Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

Treating each other tenderly, but fate is ruthlessly misplaced. I always thought that as long as I persisted, I could make you come back, but I have been waiting. Is it true that I have to wait for you for decades before you are willing to come back?

Mr. Zhang knows that every word his grandson said is correct. After all, he is an experienced person. He has experienced all of this himself. He knows what is good for his children, so he knows what should be done. Do, what kind of things should not be done, he intervenes now to intercede, just to prevent the relationship between their father and son from getting further and further apart, but he did not expect that he would be moved by his grandson's statement.

Yes, wouldn’t it be the best if you can let your children obey you unconditionally? If you want a person not to be oppressed by others, then you have to keep oppressing him, make him stronger, and let everyone Everyone is afraid of him, so that he can go through this life in peace.But sometimes it is not a good thing to control one's children too strictly, it will make one's child feel that he is controlling him deliberately, and let him have a rebellious heart in his heart, so he will not Believe in yourself as before, maybe this is the way of getting along between father and son, but unfortunately I only understand this truth now, it seems that my grandson is really much better than myself, he has already understood at such a young age For all the truth in it, it's just so rare.

"Yichen, grandpa, no matter what decision you make, grandpa will definitely support you silently behind your back, because you were raised by grandpa. I know that some decisions you make, unless you have to, you will definitely I will not make such a decision, but Grandpa hopes that you can understand a truth, many things cannot be done just by doing, and many things will be regretted for a lifetime because of one of your own reasons and one mistake, but I hope you I can understand that grandpa came to say these things to you today, there is absolutely no other intention, but I don’t want the relationship between your father and son to become bad and embarrassing, so I hope you don’t hate grandpa, if you think grandpa is in charge It's too wide, then grandpa won't interfere in your relationship, no matter what you become in the future, grandpa will never ask, what do you think?" Mr. Zhang gave his grandson a multiple-choice question in disguise, if If he chooses to let himself continue to take care of his affairs in the future, then he will definitely intervene and take care of their affairs, big and small, but if he says that he doesn't want himself to take care of their affairs, Then he will voluntarily quit, and will not ask any questions between them. This is a multiple-choice question. If you choose the right one, but you choose the wrong one, then this life will become a torture.

Zhang Yichen knew why his grandfather said that, and also knew what it would mean if he made a wrong choice. He didn't know what to do, although sometimes he felt that his grandfather was a bit annoying.There are many things that obviously don't need his grandfather to intervene, but he insists on intervening to make himself very embarrassed inside, but when some things clearly need his grandfather, he doesn't come in to manage it, so he makes himself feel It's very difficult. When I want to help with many things, no one helps me. When I don't need help, everyone wants to come in and take care of me. This is a big trouble, but I have What can I do? I can't let my grandfather control me. How uncomfortable this makes my grandfather feel. It seems that I can only say something against my will again.

"Grandpa, if I can unconditionally support everything you do, it is impossible, because I also believe that I can understand that you are really annoying a lot of times, and you didn't come when I needed help the most. , and you came when I didn't need help, you made me a little embarrassed, but I think our relationship should be harmonious no matter what, so I don't have to think about anything, Grandpa, I just hope you It will be enough to help me when I need it most in the future. Of course, I am not saying that you should not take care of it, grandpa, but you should not intervene in many things, such as today's matter, because if you do it again Pleading, and if I obey you too much, I choose to agree to every request you said today, then will my son think that my father is a coward, and I am nothing in front of my grandpa. If you can’t keep your words, then he will come to tell us if he has any problems in the future, and he will tell you directly, so that no matter how much trouble he makes in the future, he will feel that he will not be afraid, because Grandpa You support him behind his back, he thinks it doesn't matter, anyway, I don't dare to punish him with grandpa and you, so I can't promise to release him, it will encourage some weak hearts in him, and make him become more and more Once there is a fluke mentality, always thinking that every time you make a mistake, someone can save him, but is this really the case? In this society, if you make a mistake, someone will come to save him every time, and every time someone will let others Come to save him? I have to say that many of his thoughts are naive, and sometimes these naive thoughts scare me. I don’t understand what kind of reason makes him so naive, and some thoughts obviously shouldn’t be. It exists, but he has such an idea to communicate and talk with me. Isn’t it terrible? Grandpa has many things. In fact, you understand better than me how to educate a child to be the best for him. I can change I really want to thank you, Grandpa, for your education, but now my son, I hope I can educate him well, you just need to help me, I believe I have the ability to educate him well To become a genius, not like my father, until now I feel that my parents abandoned me, and my heart is still a kind of pain. For my son, his grandparents abandoned him, what is her heart like? It's not a kind of pain, but he chose not to say it, because he didn't know how to say it, and he didn't know where to start."

Mr. Zhang finally understood that there was a reason why his grandson didn't let him take care of him and educated his son. He just wanted to let himself relax secretly. Although he didn't say anything, his intention was obvious. , Is it true that I am too self-indulgent to meddle in other people's affairs?

I never believe in fate, I always feel that everything is wrong, it's just that I am too much, and I am willing to bear everything.