Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

Happiness is not what others give you, but what you give yourself

"Grandpa, thank you for taking things back to this point for me. I know these things are nothing to us, but to you, you care deeply in your heart, but I also hope that you, Grandpa, can understand a truth, my Mom and Dad will always be part of this family, whether they come back or not, they will always be if they come back, we should open the door to welcome them back, right?

Instead of shutting them out again and again.Grandpa, in fact, we have never reflected on our mistakes. Recalling how uncomfortable our parents were when we turned them away, but they always have nothing to do. They feel that everything is theirs. caused by their own mistakes, they must bear the consequences of their own mistakes, even if they complained, they never caused us any more difficulties, now recall that we also made mistakes at the beginning, why should we Why put these things on the heads of parents? Why make them feel so uncomfortable?

In fact, Mom and Dad still love our family. They had no choice but to make the decision at the beginning. As long as the family can live a happy life together happily and peacefully, what is the matter? Just think of the happiness and sadness in the past as nonexistent, and always just remember that the happiness you have had is the best time, right? Why do you have to hold on to the sad things in the past? , and those who cause harm to themselves are even more painful. "

Mr. Zhang heard his grandson say these words. He felt that these words made sense, but he still didn't know what to do. Obviously these things were indeed related to him at the beginning, and he did many things wrong, which made his family sad. , but I can't admit such a mistake anyway, otherwise, how can I save my face?

"Grandpa, I believe that if you do the things you missed, you will have the courage to bear the mistakes, won't you?

Grandpa, I also believe that your position in my heart will not change no matter what, because you will always be the one who has worked hard and risked your life to bring me up. It is you who gave me my current success. I have the beauty and double income now, you let me have the family now, you gave me everything I want, even before I have all this, I live so hard every day, but now I have To live the life I want, to fulfill my ideals and goals, is the greatest happiness in my life for me.

Is it true that no one owes anyone in this life, only whether you are willing to work hard to fight for what you want, that is the most important thing, I have paid too much for everything I want, every day I go You have seen every step of hardship with your own eyes, and I believe you understand how hard it is for me to walk this journey.”

That's right, how could I not know how hard my precious grandson's journey is?

Because of this, he loves his grandson even more. They don't know such hardships, but in the end why his parents still hurt him so much makes it even more difficult for Mr. Zhang to accept.Everyone else has a family. Parents want their sons to be happy and have a carefree childhood, but what their precious grandson left in his childhood is endless suffering. He is training desperately, just to prove to his parents that he is also the most powerful person, and let his parents know what a big mistake it is to abandon him, but he never knows all this so-called Proof, in the end, it’s just my own self-comfort, just to prove to my parents that I was the abandoned child, and also the child they think is the most powerful child, but why all this becomes like this, many times When you feel that nothing has changed, but when you look back, you find that everything has changed, and nothing is still waiting for you.

"Son, you have worked so hard these years, and it is precisely because of this that it is even more impossible for you to forgive your parents so easily, because your parents abandoned you, so you It proves that you are the one who endured so much pain, do you think Grandpa doesn’t love you in his heart?

In grandpa's heart, you are more important than your parents, because you are the child raised by grandpa with hard work, and you also watched you grow up step by step, and it was also grandpa who watched you go through so much suffering step by step, But I have no way to help you bear the slightest suffering, and I know that your heart is also very sad for grandpa, but there is no way, after all, he is your parents, you can only love your parents no matter what , respect them and cannot choose to hate them, no matter what kind of things parents do wrong, they love you in their hearts, and they all think that your son is the most important thing, so everything you do Things, even if they are wrong, your parents will think that what you did is right, because your parents feel ashamed of you in their hearts, and they only hope to make up for you with their own efforts and guilt. "

Zhang Yichen was silent. Although he knew this a long time ago, but when he heard his grandfather say it himself, for some reason, he still felt inexplicably uncomfortable in his heart. Why did all of this end up like this in the end? I know, but since all this has already happened, why should I cling to the previous things and make everyone feel uneasy? Isn't it enough for everyone to live happily together? Why do I always have to hold on to the past? It made each other feel so uncomfortable. So many years have passed, and there is really no need to be like before.

"Grandpa's time has passed so many years, we no longer need to cling to these things as before, but ours is ours after all, we don't have so many hardships waiting for us now, we What should be lived is a happy life, isn’t it? Why do we always have to hold on to the previous life and make everyone suffer so much, and live in a miserable world. Let’s live happily and happily together is our ultimate goal purpose, isn't it?"

Maybe you don't feel the love for you, but I feel that I am hopeless