Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

Maybe my sadness is because I figured out the ending, all because I love you so much.

"Grandpa, I know that every word you say is very reasonable, and I also know that every word you say is for my own good, and I understand that everything you do is for the good of the people in this family , but that is my own son, how can I bear to watch him live so hard for training and to prove to his grandparents that he is a good boy, watching his daily training, I The heart of this mother is very uncomfortable. She falls again and again, and her whole body is injured, but she still has to hold back her tears, get up and continue training. This kind of thing does not happen once or twice. In a mother In my eyes, it seems to be a heart-wrenching pain. No one can understand that a mother's love for her children, father's love and mother's love are different. A father's love may be impartial, but a mother's love is selfish. Yes, I have to think about my son selfishly, I can't just watch my son jump into the fire pit again and again, I can't do it, as long as I see him hurt, my heart will It was so painful, I really wanted to rush up and interrupt her training, but I couldn't do that. The state owns the state law, and the family has family rules. This is the path he chose. He really should bear the consequences and a child. He made a mistake. ?"

"Maybe you still haven't understood my child. It's not a question of whether there is a mistake at all, but whether this matter should be done. Since he has chosen to take this path, then this path must be his own. After a person walks alone, no one can help him, and no one can bear it for him. All suffering people choose different paths, and naturally bear different results. Since he chooses such a path, then What reason do you have to regret it?

I know you love your son, he is also my family, how could I not feel sorry for him, just feel sorry for him, some things can not be violated, or can not be violated, what should be done must be done, you do not Understand?

Although you see your child training so hard, your heart is very painful and uncomfortable, but have you ever thought that one day these trainings will be good for him, and he will no longer be as helpless as before? When he encounters difficulties, he knows what kind of help he should need, which is very beneficial to the growth of a child, and he cannot choose to deprive his son of the right to grow up because of the selfishness of maternal love.

If you think you are right, then you should think about what you should do to make these things end peacefully, and you don’t know what happened between you and your husband, what happened You should all think about the problem from the perspective of a child, shouldn't you?The child is not young now, he already knows his own right and wrong, and knows how to tell right from wrong, but if you give up your child so easily, will you not feel uncomfortable, painful, or feel guilty for a lifetime? ? "

"Grandpa, let me tell you the truth. One of my junior high school classmates showed up, and my husband quarreled with me more than once because of this incident. Do you think it is necessary for me to continue living with him? I can't bear it. I can't stand him doubting me again and again. You also know that the most important thing between a husband and wife is mutual trust. If there is no mutual trust, then what's the point of living together?

I also know that there are some things for him. As a man, he has his own dignity as a man. Do I have no self-esteem as a woman?Will my heart not ache?When he doubted me again and again, where did he put me? He has considered my inner feelings. I really don’t want much. For me, the family can live a happy and happy life together. It is enough, but it seems to him that I am too extravagant for these things. He has never considered what I want, and always presses his own ideas on me blindly. What do you think? Is it fair to me?I can't even get a fair treatment, so why should I continue to be a cow in this family and live with him?

I know it is also because I am a commoner. Many people think that I married him only for his money, but I ask myself, I have never coveted his money. For this point, no matter where I go I have a clear conscience, I never cared how much money he can give me, what I don't care is whether I can spend my whole life with a man I love, but I finally found that no matter how much I loved her at the beginning , but finally found that we have no way to go to the end!

Grandpa, do you understand the feeling that you can't live but can't die?Do you understand the feeling of being insulted time and time again by your loved ones?You may not have endured it, but I really can't bear such a blow. No matter how much I love her, I can't bear it. A man who insults my personality with words again and again, as my husband, and I have to live with him for the rest of my life. "

Mr. Zhang didn't even know what his grandson said, why he made his granddaughter-in-law so angry, maybe this matter was not as simple as he imagined, but why did they have such a quarrel with each other , this matter can obviously be turned into a small matter, so what's the point of making a fuss all the time?

"As a mother, a child must at least have something that he can sacrifice everything for his son!

Isn't everyone in the world throwing away all their things for their children?If you can throw away all your self-esteem for your son, how can your husband not care about you?He doubts you so much because he cares too much about you, he has no sense of security, and she is also afraid of losing you. The trust between husband and wife is mutual, you respect him, and he respects your son. If one party does something wrong to the other half, there will definitely be conflicts between them. You should understand these principles!

Think about it carefully, if you think it is most appropriate for you to leave, then you will definitely not stop you from leaving grandpa, but grandpa also wants you to think clearly that you still have a five-year-old child waiting for you at home. Do you have the heart to leave? "

I am still running with loneliness, do you know that I used to show off you in front of everyone, but now I can only let myself become like this.