Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

A piece of our past is precious in our hearts, but how can I forget all of it, every road is what I have experienced, and it is also my own choice, who can find something for you? Make yourself a decision you won't regret.

In fact, Zhang Yichen knows better than anyone else in her heart. Once some things happen, there is no way to change the final outcome, but he is really unwilling. Don't come to the ending you want?

It is said that God is fair. Is God an exception to himself? Why should he treat himself so unfairly?What I want is just a simple and happy life, but why did it end up like this in the end, how difficult it is to get to today step by step, why no one has ever stood on my own point of view I thought about it for myself. I used to pay so much heartache and tears in order to be able to reach the pinnacle of life, but no one had the slightest repentance for what I had paid. Everyone just felt that what they gave was justified. It should be, is he really so unpopular?

The more he thought about it, the more uncomfortable he felt. He really paid a lot, but in the end his parents were unwilling to return to him, including his family quarreling with him time and time again. This was simply the biggest concern in his heart. Shadow, no one will suffer from the love of his family for no reason, and no one can be criticized by others again and again without being indifferent. He is also a living person, and he also has his own thoughts. My own brain, it knows what I should do and what I shouldn't do, but why does someone still have to remind him by her side again and again?

"Grandpa, I know some things better than anyone else, and I also know how difficult it is for me to have the results I have today. I have made it step by step, even if everyone in the world doesn't know it, but Grandpa, you must I know, because you are the one who watched me grow up with your own eyes, you know how much effort I have put in for today, and you also know how difficult it is for me to walk every step of the way, how much hardship I have paid, others are starting When I was playing happily, but I was training like a devil. I tried my best to make myself stronger, so that one day, my parents could return to me willingly, and they would not be in the same place again and again. , because my son is incompetent, and left, but why have I achieved such a great achievement now? My parents are still unwilling to return to me. In their eyes, is my biological son really so useless? use it?

I know Grandpa, you are going to comfort me as soon as you open your mouth, but I don't want you to comfort me again and again. Some things will be uncovered sooner or later. Even if those scars are scabbed, they will be torn off again and again. Why should I do it once? Once again, I buried everything in my heart and let myself bear the heart-wrenching pain alone. I also know that my parents never considered my feelings as a biological son. In my eyes, I am nothing. What I want is just an ordinary life. They can't give me a happy family, but why do they want to destroy my happy life again and again?I don't understand, as parents, what is the reason why they can hate me, their own son, and treat me like this again and again! "

"Children, there are some things you shouldn't think about. You should understand that no matter who you are as a parent, you will worry about your children. No matter how useless or ineffective your children are, but as parents Worrying about your children, that is nature, they will not give up this nature because you are useless, it is an instinct that cannot be changed, you should understand why your parents chose to leave you, no matter they What kind of decisions have you made, but in the end you have already achieved such achievements, so why send yourself into the abyss of pain again and again, and let them feel guilty because of you again and again? Isn't it good to live happily with each other? Why do we have to hurt each other again and again?"

Mr. Zhang is now less and less sure how to comfort his grandson. Maybe it has been longer and longer. These things have been deeply ingrained in his grandson's heart, and there is no way to change it. He knows the ending of everything now, but It was her own son who made the decision. There is no way to change the mistake she made in this decision, so she has to bear the responsibility. There is no such good thing in the world.

"Grandpa, I understand all the reasons you said, but these things have been deeply ingrained in my heart. I can't give up easily. Don't you know? My mother and my father, I I abandoned my own son when I was only one month old. As their son, how can I feel better in my heart? I am also a living person. I also hope that my parents can be by my side. I have already After suffering for too many years, I have become numb, because I have suppressed my heart again and again for these things.

None of you know how painful my heart is. I have put in so much effort, but why did they choose to treat me in this way in the end? In their eyes, am I really so unbearable? ?Come back to my side and stay with me, is that so difficult?Is the freedom in their eyes really more important than the lifelong happiness of my own son?Why are they so selfish? Why can other people's parents love and be selfless, but my parents are selfish, hurting their own sons again and again for the things they want?

Sometimes when I think about these things, my heart really hurts. I can't understand what kind of psychological state my parents are in, so I think about abandoning my own son. , I really don't want too much, if this is too much, then who in this world would dare to ask for these things extravagantly?Maybe this is just my own inner thoughts, in the eyes of my parents, they don't care at all.But I really want to go back to my original state. If I had known that they were going to treat me like this, then I would rather not come to this world!

I came to this world with all my life, but in the end because of my parents abandoning me, I ended up like this. My heart really hurts, but I still have to face reality in the end. Reality is always cruel. I have no way of understanding it myself.

Grandpa, you have said too much to comfort me over the years. I don't want to listen to it anymore. I just want to know that since my parents have chosen to give up my own son, why do they have to give up my son? Appearing in my life, disturbing my mood again and again, am I really nothing in their eyes?

I have been suppressed for so many years. I never thought that one day I would explode, and I never thought that my parents would appear in my life one day, and I never thought that they would still not recognize me when they came back this time. My biological son interfered in my happy life again and again, but abandoned me again and again. In their eyes, what am I?Is my happiness really so insignificant?Are they really so unwilling to let me live a happy and healthy life?They are my biological parents, and I really want to let these things go with the wind, but I can't help it, I think all the time that my parents abandoned me and let me suffer alone, I can't help it Forget all the pain that once brought me, I just want my parents to stay by my side and give me a happy family.

In the eyes of other children, this is just an ordinary request, but in my eyes it is the greatest luxury of my life, maybe it is something that I will never be able to get in my life, why the gap? Is it because I was born in a wealthy family, and because my parents don't treat me like a son? "

Mr. Gu</span>Zhang knows that he has nothing to say to comfort his grandson now. He sees that his grandson is in a rage now, and he knows that all of this can only bring his son and daughter-in-law back Solution, maybe the final solution is to let them communicate with each other for the first time is the best. If they really return to the original state this time, then he really doesn't know what kind of attitude he should use to deal with it. Facing his own son, Zhang Zhengtian may not understand in his heart how much his own son would resent him.

That's right, no one in the world will forgive anyone for no reason, no matter what you have done or said, as long as you do something wrong, why should others forgive you?Tolerance again and again will only make him pampered, and it will only make him feel that all this is taken for granted, that the world is fair, no one owes anyone, and only he gives to himself again and again. I have found a different way out, each way is my own choice, so I don’t know what kind of result I will face in the end, I can only explore it step by step by myself, so who can I blame now?

All the endings are just the decisions they made at the beginning, and now all the consequences can only be borne by themselves, and no one can help them change all this state.

The happiest time is when everyone walks on the path they want to go the most. The happiest and happiest time will always be that moment, but after the lost time, what will be left of me?

"Husband, although you think what I said is really reasonable, then you should forgive your parents and stop arguing with them, so that your heart will be very painful, and I don't want to see you in pain Look, you are the man I love the most in my life. How can I bear to see you living in such pain alone? But for me, how can I feel better as a wife? Ask others if they care about your heart Feelings, but as a wife, I will definitely care about every feeling in your heart, how can I not know how painful your heart is, I really don’t want much, I I just want you to live with peace of mind. Husband, maybe we will accept different decisions and different lives in this life, but we must hold each other's hands tightly and never separate in this life. If you I think what I said is really reasonable, so please forgive them. After all, they are already parents. If it is because of us that they have no way to return home in their entire life, then how sinful we all are in our hearts. Ah, how evil our hearts must be. Even our own parents can keep them from coming home to keep them out. That’s not what you and I would do, isn’t it? We can’t let others catch Laughing at us by taking advantage of us, we should generously forgive those who have hurt themselves but abandoned themselves, that is the real way, the best way to take revenge on others is to let others' hearts It's more painful, isn't it?

Obviously they think that the person they hurt will never forgive themselves, but they never imagined that the person they hurt so deeply will choose to forgive themselves easily in the end, and let them feel how guilty they should be. I feel that all of this is just a wrong decision I made at the time. Why do you want to hurt this person? This person is so good, how can you bear to hurt it?As long as we make this decision, they will never have any way to hurt us in this lifetime, don't make these things so complicated, isn't it best for us to live the life we ​​should have?Why do I let my heart suffer so much again and again? "

Zhang Yichen didn't know how to answer what his wife said, he knew that what he said was really reasonable, and every word went to his heart, but he really took it Don't lose face to forgive my parents, if I really hit a few areas, let them treat me too unscrupulously?If it is really so easy to let them hurt themselves again like before, I really have no way to make such a surety, if so, let them continue to hurt myself, then why do I To choose to forgive them?It's not as good as your own standard for this, let them let them remember the lesson of this time forever, what a painful price they will pay if they abandon themselves, then maybe they will be so peaceful, won't they? ?

"Honey, I know what you are thinking in your heart, but I hope you can know that it is right not to do some things according to your own ideas. One day you will understand that some things should be carefully thought out by yourself. Our parents also rejected us at one time, so why do you think they will come to laugh at us tonight, they will think that we don't even have the most basic tolerance, and they all say that tolerance is great, so why should we To expose these things?

The mistakes made by my parents should never be blamed on me. The reason is that my heart is very painful. You have a bribe and your own way to forgive them every chance and let them try to stay in your family. Take care of you by my side, if you really feel uncomfortable, or if they don't have the intention, it's not too late for you to drive them out, you don't even give them a chance now, just shut them out so easily, just It’s really unreasonable. You are also a scholar, and you know that our education is different from each other. Why should we let others take advantage of us to laugh at us?

Husband, you know that grandpa only has this face, and his own face is the daughter around him who abandoned Jin Guang, so shouldn't you embellish your so-called dignity for him?If others found out, he would definitely laugh at Grandpa, saying that Grandpa taught Sun Wufang.At that time, did you really have the heart to poke your spine and scold you at others?As a girl, you see that your grandfather has paid for you again and again, but you yourself are willing to give him a little bit in return?You really have the heart to see your grandfather, because your matter is so painful that you don’t dare to, in fact, you don’t want to see such a result to anyone, but you yourself don’t know how to solve such a matter, now I have already told you all the methods. What you do depends on your own inner thoughts. If you are really willing to abandon your grandpa and want to make your grandpa so ugly, then you don’t care about me Every word you say, you can pretend that you didn’t say anything, he is a grandfather, I hope you can think clearly, because no matter what the final result of the decision you made this time, you must go through it, and others will not turn you back , and will not give you any chance to pay back. What exactly did you do wrong? You don’t have to think about it clearly. Only after thinking twice can you go far! "

Zhang Yichen is really struggling and suffering now, she really doesn't know what decision she should make, it is absolutely impossible to hate her parents, but she should pretend to be generous every day at this time, so that everyone knows What kind of parent is he, why do you pay a painful price again and again to let others come, and take everything for granted?

"Okay, this time I listen to you, I choose to forgive my parents, then I hope they can promise me, no matter what, don't abandon me as casually as before, I can't bear it, they have to forgive me again and again One injury, I am also an ordinary person, I have some, because he also abandoned me, then I will never have any chance to let them in this life, because I can't do it..."

The most difficult thing is not what kind of experience you choose, but what kind of life you have experienced every step of the way. Every choice is made up of your own determination and thought twice, so why regret it?If every step you take leads to death in the end, why should you be afraid of death?