Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

"Actually, sometimes I still can't figure out what kind of psychological state you used to lie to your family members. When you chose to lie, did you ever think that your family members would feel sad and sad because of these things? Maybe never, everything you do, your mistakes may be forgiven, but the pain in others' hearts may be something that you can't understand in this life, I really regret it, and I'm also afraid , I am afraid that all my actions will be in vain, I am afraid that I have given all my sincerity, but in the end I can only get my parents to deceive again and again.

You have no way to understand the feeling of being deceived by your parents, abandoned by your parents, and hurt again and again by your parents. It is a kind of despair, deep pain and sorrow. despair.

I don't want to face you squarely, because I know that I can't face you like this. When I get hurt again and again, when I face all the hurt again and again, where do you recall your childhood life, myself Everyone thinks it is a sad life, although it can be regarded as a perfect life experience, but after all, it is the injury caused by my parents. My hurts, those hurts no matter when and where, I have no way to forget, I can only rely on myself to remind myself in this way again and again, no matter when and where, don't trust anyone's kiss again, Because loved ones are the ones who are most likely to be hurt.”

"Children, I know that those lies that I told you did hurt you. But those lies are a last resort, and we can only continue to live if we do that.

If we would choose to abandon you for our own selfishness, then we would not come back here.

Why are you still unable to give up the obsessions of the past? Are those thoughts really so deeply rooted and difficult to get rid of?

I know, I have never made such a big step back, and now in order to be able to return to this home, I think I have put down all my self-esteem and dignity. I will meet my sincere things, rather than thinking about making a different life.

My life is in a mess now, which makes my appearance affect your life. This time I chose to be with your mother because he chose to continue living with me. Then I have no reason, let alone any I have no choice but to drive him out of the house alone with words, whether I love me or not, but deep down in my heart I love her sincerely, if I love someone, I have to fight No matter what he did to him, he must love her without hesitation

Don't think I'm stupid, don't think my thoughts are funny and naive, when you come to my point one day, you will also find that what I do today will be your choice in the future, treat me The woman I love the most, he can forgive me for whatever he has done to me, even if it is a great insult to me, now I can show my sincerity to him, what else can I not forgive, What is unacceptable? When I knew this result, I was very willing to borrow it deep in my heart, and I have no way to be sure. I believe that this is actually what my own wife did to my husband.

Thinking about all the years of being in the same boat through thick and thin, thinking about how we have come through so many sufferings again and again for so many years, I think I shouldn't do things that make her sad, I should think more about what our life is for each other So, I should think about it carefully, how can I make my wife healthy and make her happy and happy, no matter when and where, as long as she is happy, then my heart will also become happy up. "

"You love my mother without a bottom line, but you are like this, will those people really have you? Even if you give everything for him, in his eyes, you are just his doll, You will never get his sincere feelings for you. He is a person who is good at acting. The sincere words he says to everyone may be said to you after he has conceived his own brain. Come out lies.

No matter how beautiful a lie is, it is still a lie after all. He has no way to change the essence of the lie. No matter whether the lie is good-hearted or malicious, it is also a lie. Only being true to yourself is the best A way out, isn't it? When you choose to deceive your family members with lies, you never thought that your family members will expose your lies one day, and treat every truth you say as a lie. Is it

I have seen too many broken families because of lies. I don't want my parents to have any bad emotions because of lies, and I don't want my family to feel sad because of these lies. Every thing you make, maybe you will not remember that it was the wrong decision you made, but for a family member, it is something that he will never forget, it is the betrayal of his relatives, that It's from the person you love the most, cheating again and again. "

Zhang Yichen, seeing his son's bewildered expression here, decided to tell his son about these things in advance, lest his son will be fooled and suffer losses in the future.

"Nai'er, although it's too early for Dad to tell you these things, I hope you can remember in advance that no matter when and where, if a person tells you a lie at the beginning, he may be forced to, But if he tells lies again and again, it means that he is a liar in essence, he will not have true feelings for you, and he will not treat you as a real brother, as From the perspective of family and friends, if you meet this kind of person, you must stay away from him no matter what. No matter how great the benefit and value he is to you, you must never have a deep friendship with him.

Now, as a father, I tell you these words, so that you can pay less and suffer less in the future. Don’t be fooled by others like me, and I’m still happy there. Remember that it’s someone else. My most honest answer, I am really stupid, I hope my son will go through the same thing as me one day, these things are told to you in advance to prevent it from happening, if you let you go through it then you You will come to me and tell me why my father didn’t tell you, you will think it’s my negligence.”