Lingering to the Bone: The President's Way of Chasing His Wife

"Mom and Dad, do you really think I'm that stupid? Don't you really know everything about you? In fact, I see everything you do, so I choose not to say anything, as a It has never happened before, I never saw everything at the beginning, but why are you so dissatisfied

I have seen clearly and thoroughly what you are doing long ago, but I have not blamed you for anything, because I know that for you, what you fancy is also what I fancy. Some unnecessary troubles made us more and more embarrassing to each other. "

Zhang Zhentian didn't understand what his son said today. Could it be that he had already seen through everything, but chose not to say anything?

Although Zhang Yichen knew that the relationship between his parents was not particularly harmonious, he did not expect that all the problems turned out to be on his mother. He did not believe in his mother, who seemed so loyal to love. With a person behind your back, you would actually do such an outrageous thing to your father. What he wants is nothing more than that simple. He just wants to make his life peaceful. When he sees his mother there again and again Once, when he looked at himself with expectant eyes, his heart was going to be broken. That was his mother. I made him do something. It will always be his mother. He has no way not to go. Just ignore him, don't care about not deal with these things for him.

"Don't use this tone to talk about my mother. My mother is so loyal to you. I don't believe he will do such a thing to you. You must have had some misunderstanding before. If there is any misunderstanding, I hope you will Explain all the misunderstandings clearly, don't use this way to hurt the other party, let alone your own family. No one in the family owes you, when you do such things in this way Have you ever considered the feelings of your family members? How uncomfortable we are. You only care about your immediate interests and your deepest thoughts, but you far ignore that your relatives also need the care of these family members.

Have you thought about how sad and sad your family members will be when they know that you said these words? You are their relatives, and they will never believe that you will do such a thing anyway, let alone Will believe that you will say such words, every word may sound unintentional to you, but in the eyes of others it is a true word, they have no way to treat all this as never It never happened.

No matter what my mother did wrong, but from his current attitude, he really wants to spend his life with you, why don't you try to accept all his good and bad, you should tolerate , the biggest thing between husband and wife should be tolerance, if you don't even have the courage to tolerate and forgive, then you will live together with each other, and you will always bring only harm to each other, and you will not even be able to give the most basic happiness. "

"Grandpa, as a junior, I don't have any reason to comment on the things between you and grandma, but I agree with what my father said, the most important thing between husband and wife is tolerance, if you want to be tolerated I don’t even have the courage, so do you think that you have lived together for so many years, and what things have you experienced are worth going through?

Everything you do may not have been considered from the perspective of the other party, but now I hope that you can consider it from the perspective of the other party, even if it is only a little bit, it is the best thing in the world for both parties. Beautiful relationship, isn't it? If you make mistakes again and again, just because you don't know how to face each other again and again, you will only make each other feel very painful when you live together. uncomfortable.

I believe that the experience between you and grandma for so many years is real. It is something experienced between you husband and wife. Only you can feel it together. It is just a memory between the two of you. Those memories Those of us as family members cannot participate or intervene. Everything you have experienced should be worthy of the time when you depended on each other. It is really not easy for two people to depend on each other in the most difficult time.It is even more difficult for two people to regard each other as more important than their own lives in the most painful time, because why should they hurt the person who is most loyal to them again and again?

If you think back on all your experiences over the years, I believe you should feel that you still have many good memories between each other. We have never experienced those memories, and we don’t know what kind of memories that feel like.

Grandpa, I know that such a thing happened is a great insult to a man, it is a deep shame, but it is a shadow that may not be erased by any means in a lifetime, but I believe that as long as you sincerely If you want to live with grandma, you can forgive and tolerate no matter what mistakes grandma makes.

It has been a long, long time since these things have passed, but you have always chosen not to say it, which proves that deep down in your heart, you still choose to help him and live with him, because you know that there are family rules. How strict, as long as he makes a mistake, especially cheating in marriage, he will be kicked out by the family without hesitation. At that time, it is everyone who is ugly. I believe that if you do this, not only It's just because you love grandma deep in your heart, and at the same time you are protecting the century-old reputation of being the head of the family. "

"Nai'er, I have to admit that Grandpa agrees with what you said in his heart. Although I didn't say all these things at the beginning, there is indeed a deep shadow in my heart. I can regress to This situation is because I want to protect the reputation of the family. I can't let my father's family reputation, which he has worked so hard to maintain for so long, be ruined by the two of us. He has to bear the consequences, but I can't drag my family, my father, or my entire family.

I know that my father is getting old, and he can't bear a little bit of harm now. If my father is hurt again because of me, how should I face it? Yes, the mother who exchanged her life for a chance of my life, how will I face the ancestors of the Zhang family in the future.The computer with the fastest network update:

Perhaps all of this is not the most important thing, but this is the only ending that I can make for the people in this family in my heart. The only contribution I can make to the family is only a little bit.The mobile terminal with the fastest network update: https:.

This kind of contribution may not be the most important to the people in this family, but it is my whole heart. Everything I do actually takes family factors into account. I just ignore my family time and time again. , what is the most needed concern, I abandoned everything, but in the end I got nothing for myself.

After you listened to the story I told you today, I hope you don't mention it to anyone, especially my father, as you said, he is old, he can't take a little hit, I I don't want him to worry about me because of my affairs.Now that my wife chooses to stay and live in this family, I hope that he really wants to live, not just talking about it, and not choosing to take advantage of my feelings again, which will only make my life worse. We are more ugly to each other, and even more unable to face each other.

I can only tell you these things, I can’t tell anyone, because once I say it, the nature will change completely. I don’t want my wife to bear the pressure of public opinion. I just hope that he can live happily. Even if the person he loves the most deep in his heart is not me, I still hope that he can laugh all the time, as long as he is happy, even if I suffer humiliation, I am willing, and now he is indeed happy, I suffered too, and I deserved all the humiliation, but I don't blame him, it's all my own choice.

I chose this path myself, so I have no reason to blame others.

Because the road is chosen by oneself, it is meaningless to blame others, and it cannot change one's current status quo.

Maybe you think it's funny, after he betrayed his marriage and love, I still love him without hesitation. This love has been deeply engraved in my bone marrow, and I have no way to get rid of it in my whole life. I don't understand deep down in my heart, why so many people in the world are only beating for him, do you understand that feeling, you can only be used once and abandoned by everyone again and again, but you can't do anything, The feeling that I can only watch silently there must be so much pain deep in my heart, but I have no choice but to bear the pain he brought to myself silently, and I can only treat these pains as It is an experience in my own life, an experience, maybe then I can have a little balance in my heart, and I can feel better."

Zhang Yichen now finds out that his father is really stupid, for loving his mother to the point of hopelessness.

He really hopes that one day, his mother can see his father, all the hard work he has put in for him, and see what his father has done for him, instead of doing it like this now. What happened to my own family, how painful and uncomfortable it should be for everyone, maybe my mother didn't feel it in her heart, but the people next to her could see it clearly from a distance. What kind of person my mother is, what kind of things she has done, and what kind of life she has faced.

Although Zhang Na doesn't understand love, he feels that he has finally seen how terrible marriage is today, but he also understands that marriage is not scary for everyone. Some people's marriages are very happy because they are loyal to each other. But some people's marriages are very painful, because one of them cheated and betrayed their mutual promises, betrayed the vows of each other, and betrayed their greatest trust in each other. It wasn't until they did something wrong that they found themselves Everything I did was wrong, but when I looked back at that time, betrayal was betrayal after all.

"I know all the betrayals between you husband and wife, and I give you all the leeway to pretend that everything happened. I just want to let you know exactly what you have done. How outrageous”